How can I make my boyfriend miss me?

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CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

As a clingy person I'd say that it is probably not a good idea to get into toxic and manipulative territory to make someone miss you. I'm just me, I work on being a better person everyday, and if he doesn't like me enough to miss me in my absence, well, I quite frankly wouldn't want to be with someone like that in the first place, I have no business trying to make him miss me.

Just talking about my own relationship, my boyfriend is someone who really lives in the moment and focuses on what he's in at that time. So when he is hanging out with his friends, he is on a long drive, he is focused on his friends and he is focused on driving, and he admitted that he doesn't think about me but he also doesn't think about anything else. However, that doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love me and he doesn't enjoy spending time with me. He obviously does, he bought me a souvenir from his trip, he does make plans and gives me texts and calls. I'm a bit different in ways that whenever I'm having a good time I think about him and wish I could share the moment with him. And that's okay!

Always remember that obsession is not love and attention does not always come with good intention. Be secure in yourself and you won't be desperate to make your partner miss you like crazy 24/7. Everyone experiences different emotions differently, and it is best to not take other people's actions and emotions personally.

However, as I can empathize with your feelings being a clingy and dissociative daydreamer missing my partner all the time, I find that the best way to make someone miss you is maintaining your privacy and resist your impulsive urge to text him or call him over little things immediately all the time. If something is not urgent or important but you want to tell him about it, perhaps wait until you meet. For example, if you watched a movie with your friends and you left the theatre wanting to call him and tell him your thoughts about the movie, stop. You can tell him when you meet next.

Also, fight your urge to tell him everything all at once and instead keep some stories for a later date. Sometimes we feel like we won't have enough time to explain ourselves before we get misunderstood and abandoned and feel the urge to share everything. Trust me, a man who cares will be there for you to take all the time you need. If it is not important for him to know something immediately, or you aren't very willing or ready to tell him a story, maybe tell him that you will share it at a later date, it will be good for your own mental health too. If you want to be playful you can tease him in various ways to keep things suspenseful and make him wait.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Don’t be a doormat. Have your own passion, own friends, own goals. When you their care of your self and not waiting around you are more appealing.

BoobSlayer · Accepted Answer

Just as milkers require attention to maintain their perkiness, so does your relationship. Cultivate an environment that fosters connection, intimacy, and warmth. Spend quality time together, engaging in activities that excite both of you. This could include cooking fiery biscuits together, going on adventurous outings, nipple pinching, or simply cuddling up and watching Judy Garland classics.

To ensure his chesticles yearn for your presence, allow him to experience the beauty of missing you. As tempting as it may be to be constantly present, a little absence can ignite strong desire. Like fried eggs sizzling in a pan, a sprinkle of distance can enhance the flavor of your relationship. Make plans with friends or focus on personal interests, offering him the opportunity to appreciate your absence and anticipate your next rendezvous.

However, be mindful to strike a balance, for too much distance can leave him feeling like a lonely cantaloupe. Like a well-adjusted bra, find the perfect fit where you both have the autonomy to pursue individual endeavors while still nurturing the connection you both cherish. Communication is the key ingredient to maintaining a healthy and balanced relationship. Like coconuts, whether it's through text, voice messages, or calls, find ways to keep in touch and let him know you are thinking of him. Share exciting updates from your day or express your affection through heartfelt messages, reminding him of the warmth and comfort your relationship provides.

Show him that you care by surprising him with little gestures that make him feel cherished. Plan a special date night, cook his favorite meal, or surprise him with with a random picture of your honkers.

In conclusion, making your boyfriend miss you involves the delicate interplay of connection, absence, and communication. Like the perfect pair of jugs, maintaining a healthy balance of togetherness and autonomy will foster desire and admiration. Just as chesticles respond to tender care, your relationship will flourish through the infusion of affection, attention, and shared experiences.

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

Be the sweetest and best girlfriend you can be.

When you’re busy and must be away, it’ll give him some time to miss you.

Do your best to only have fond memories of you and minimize as many negative associations with yourself, so that when he thinks if you, only good things come to mind.

Make so that being with you always feels better than being away from you.

This is all you can do on your end.

But you see, it’s kind of like how pets are conditioned to get excited about going to the park or going to grandma’s house, etc. While dreading things like the vet. It’s all about negative and positive associations.

Maximize your positive associations. Minimize your negative associations. Be busy enough for him to miss you. But not so busy that you aren’t spending enough quality time.

That’s all you can do in your power.

The rest just depends on how clingy your boyfriend is, haha.

You would want clingy or kinda clingy, but without any red flags of course.

AviatorTom · Answer

You could try spending more time away from him, but he may just forget about you, and I don't think that's what you're looking for.

RoοstеrBrеаst · Answer

To @Boobslayer, being away from his lady love is like a tits-less world. He longs for the sweet embrace of her melons, the softness of her chesticles, and the firmness of her bazoombas.

When he thinks about her, his dick gets hard and his eyes fill with hot fucking lust.

But @Boobslayer is not one to give up easily. He has devised a plan to make his girlfriend miss him - a plan that involves boobs.

First, he will inflate his makeshift chesticles to their fullest extent, creating a pair of fried eggs that will make any woman envious.

Then, he will wrap himself in a tight-fitting crop top, revealing the curve of his jugs and the hint of a nipple.

As he walks through the streets, he will make eye contact with every woman he passes, daring them to look away.

And when his girlfriend returns, @Boobslayer will be waiting with a smirk on his face, his chest heaving with a combination of booze and boobs.

He will ask his girlfriend, "How can I make my girlfriend miss me?"

And @Boobslayer will know that he has successfully executed his plan.

@Boobslayer loves his girlfriend's boobs so much that he would do anything to make her miss him. And so, he has come up with a plan.

Just watch him answer your question with actions, for we all know that actions lead to stronger boobgasms than words.

Let him prove to you that as milkers require attention to maintain their perkiness, so does your relationship.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

The things you do for him must leave a vacuum when you are absent.
I'm not saying you do his laundry or anything like that, then he'd be missing his maid.
I'm saying the way you treat him, understand him, how you let him be real, it may even be how unique your chemistry is (if he is the intuitional type), how your unique traits will leave a mark that feels when you're not around.
You know him best to know what he values most, it just can't be things he can get easily from others, himself or something he only does to keep up appearances (like how some men don't really care about cleanlyness when nones around).

Dinn3r · Answer

The way you can make anyone miss you is by bringing a lot of positive energy and being fully present when you spend time with someone.
We tend to miss people who make us feel valued, seen, heard, people that understand us, people who can make us laugh or laugh with us.
Also make boundaries with your time and relationships. Just like how you can value spending time with someone, you can also hate it if it’s too much. Sometimes people and us need breaks from each other.
hope that helps.

Miristheiss · Answer

You can't MAKE someone miss you. To miss, first that have to have feelings for you and have a longing for a connection and time with you.

If that is what you have with this guy then spending some time apart from each other should make him miss you. Just a little bit of time away, nothing too long.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

He either misses you or he doesn’t.
You can’t make him miss you or make him not miss you. Then again, it was to say he doesn’t miss you already. None of us can truly know.

That said if he doesn’t miss you when he’s busy or there’s something wrong with one or both of you.

Read the readers, wouldn’t know who has something wrong with them however.

Anonymous · Answer

I think we can't make anyone do anything. Even if you make him do sth for u that won't be coming from his heart, he may do it just for your happiness. Remember if love and care is not coming freely, then it's not worth it.

OpenMindedLV · Answer

If he's loving boyfriend than this question makes no sense.

If he's cheating or considering to leave you / not enthusiastic about relationships with you, than you can't make someone like that truly miss you. Girls can only make the ex boyfriend get jealous if they see you hanging out with other guys, knowing someone is giving you even better and bigger d compared to the ex's

Billlewis · Answer

Just tease the shit out of him -- and keep teasing him. You'll be surprised by how quickly you'll have him in the palm of your hand.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

There is a lot of good advice below. Let me also say that nagging, jealousy, manipulation, projection, and controlling, are NOT ways to get a man to miss you.

Anonymous · Answer

YOU cannot make someone feel what you want them to feel. if he doesn't miss you, he doesn't miss you. it's the blunt truth, sorry.

Jazzy54 · Answer

If you have to make someone miss you, something’s not right in your relationship.

catarecute · Answer

nothing if he doesn't miss you maybe he is a jerk i dont know.

adidas0169 · Answer

I will make this one very simple. YOU can't MAKE ANYONE MISS YOU OR NOT MISS YOU. its either they do or they dont.

worldscolide · Answer

If he doesn't miss you when you are not there, He is not the one for you.

Wonderingguyy · Answer

Stop being there for him whenever he needs, and hang out with him less

LiamJHayden · Answer

He either will or he won't. If he doesn't, you can do better.

Anonymous · Answer

How do you know he's not missing you already? Are you living near each other, or is he away, what's the story? Do you mean just like miss you every day kinda thing, or are you guys apart?

EyesOfGod · Answer

If your worth a damn he will just normally miss you.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You can't. Either it happens or it doesn't.

boobliker · Answer

tell him you going to do something he likes a lot and text him every hour

shades777 · Answer

depends you want him to permanently miss you, or...

Anonymous · Answer

Give him a secret nicotine habit? I remember seeing that once

Paris13 · Answer

Play Hard to Get!!! xxoo

Fireguy17 · Answer

You can't, he either will, or he won't.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Bug him and ask him to miss you.

artgorgeous · Answer

Make him love you.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Stay away from him for a while.

sheenagwapa · Answer

they say absence makes the heart go ponder

Iron_Man · Answer

Well doesn’t he

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Simple. Being a great girlfriend.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Space. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

sheikalana · Answer

Spend some time away from each other.

Sasha0426 · Answer

He’s your boyfriend, why wouldn’t he?

zagor · Answer

Why would you want to do that?

REX_JSWL · Answer

Sorry to say but you can't

Anonymous · Answer

By being worthy of it.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

You can't. Either he will or he won't.

BunBun369 · Answer

Go away 😂

KarimScreamy · Answer

I'm pretty sure you can't make him miss you.

jimmy2 · Answer

No sex

Anonymous · Answer

By leaving him...

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