Single moms are they ok for a pump and dump but radioactive for a serious relationship?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Triggered!!! Single mom.

Updates

+1 y

Then we agree that they are

[Claire2017]

Men who prey on single moms like that are the lowest of the low. And what makes you think you're relationship material to her? Maybe she doesn't even want you back in her bed or her life either?

[Asker]

Prey? You make out as if women are victims and children when it comes to consensual sex. Just because a man has sex with you doesn't obligate him to marry you. This isn't 1950.

[Claire2017]

Some men do target single moms as they are 'perceived' as more vulnerable and needy than their childless peers. Talk about a 50s attitude, there's one for you. My suggestion was not that there is an obligation there. My suggestion was that has the person considered that in fact, THEY are the one who isn't relationship material and not the woman by simple fact that she's a single mom?

[Asker]

Target? You mean pursue for the purposes of consensual sex. Adult women are not victims and responsible for their own choices good or bad. Hello heard of feminism

[Claire2017]

By targeting/ preying I mean lying

[Asker]

Mmmmhhhmmm.

[AzureGirl]

Just because someone has a child doesn't mean they're not incapable of having a serious relationship.

[Asker]

It's not about their capabilities but their baggage.

[AzureGirl]

A child is not baggage. A child is part of her small family.

[Asker]

A small family is baggage you are essentially taking on another man's kids and that's a lot of responsibility. That kind of responsibility should not be taken lightly.

[AzureGirl]

If you don't want to date someone with a child then that's your choice, but don't act like they're just something to screw and leave behind because of it.

[Asker]

This isn't 1950. Consensual sex doesn't obligate a man.