I see your questions about shy guys but I am not really clear of what your definition of a "shy guy" means.
Can you please explain it to me so I can better answer your questions?
I have gathered that it means someone that is unlikely to initiate with a woman but if that is all that it means, then I do not understand your questions about it.
Assuming you just mean someone that does not initiate, then a woman probably does not think anything about him The good news is that we do not think anything bad about him but the bad news is we may not even know he exists.
Maybe you are asking about if you start dating and he does not initiate physical contact. If that is the case, most woman will think he does not like her and her affection will decrease since she tends to match his affection.
If you are talking about when you are in a relationship, then it probably only becomes an issue if he does not want to meet and socialize with her friends and/or other people, including new people.
I am shooting in the dark here since I am not sure what you are really concerned with in regards to being a shy guy. If you could clarify that, I may be in a position to offer some betterl advice, and hopefully useful advice. :)
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I'm attracted to people I get along with. Them being shy or forward is usually only a small percentage of the whole package.
Now are they so shy that I have to do ALL the work? Make the first move with everything? Yeah that's a turn off. I once met a guy who told me he, at 34, had never asked out anyone in his life. All of his girlfriends (he had only had a few) had asked him out. He would never tell a girl if he had a crush on her. He said that he even denied liking one girl he had a crush on throughout most of hs when she found this out via friends and revealed she was into him. Like it's one thing when you are in hs but as an adult? To me passiveness leads to trouble down the road. It's one thing to be introverted and it's another to be shy because you have an extreme fear of failure. This fear of failure will likely LEAD to failure. It's a self fulfilling prophecy.
I mean no one wants to do all the work. Even super macho forward guys want a girl to show SOME initiative.
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I’m not attracted to shy guys. But I don’t think they’re losers.
Love them. My boyfriend is somewhat shy, more reserved and I basically had to initiate our conversations before dating. I asked him out as well. My only "complaint" is that they don't throw any signs of interest.
I literally felt like I was walking blind into traffic since I had no idea if he would be interested or not. But lucky for me, he said yes. And I absolutely love him <3I'd rather have a shy, more reserved guy, than a matcho man by a mile! Definitly my pick, shy guy ftw!
Shy guys are really lovely people. They're shy because sometimes they reall like you and don't know how to express their feelings. Also they make sure they take care of you properly
My type since I'm the dominant one in my male relationships
Depends on how shy they are. If I constantly need to start conversations with them, it's too much and I'll take that as lack of interest or lack of balls. If after a few times things get balanced out I can work with that.
Thats not a thing of my type or not my type.
Its a thing of can we talk?I don’t know what u exactly mean by shy. If being introverted and reserved means shy then I have no issues with that. But if he can’t talk to people as a rule and has social anxieties then I have an issue.
I don't know, they're neutral to me, it can be a turn on or a turn off, depending on that guy
its okey to be shybut when a guy become to act needy becauuse its shy, its reall unattrative
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