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Beauty vs Brains, Which one do you prefer in your partner?
We know that people care about looks to varying extents. It's different for each individual, though men in general probably care more than women do.
Anyone who's intelligent would take care of themselves and make good with whatever looks they've been endowed with, otherwise it would indicate a lack of awareness and hence a lack of intelligence.
Of course someone could naturally have splendid physical features and not give a rat's ass about grooming. Perhaps they don't really care about finding a partner. If they want a partner but do nothing about crafting beauty from what they have, then they only have themselves to blame.
So yeah, brains for me.
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579 opinions shared on Relationships topic. How about both? The two aren't mutually exclusive and the pictures used are stupid.
Firstly, you've used a white guy for beauty and an Asian guy for smart. Stereotypical much? A white guy can be ugly and an Asian guy can be hot. Whilst a white guy can be smart and an Asian guy can be dumb.
And even going passed the racial stereotyping. You've used the typical smart person looking like a complete dork with no sense of fashion. Just because someone's smart doesn't mean they have to have no awareness of how to dress. Smart = dork.
Idc what internet snowflakes say, few people are gonna wanna date Stephen Hawking over Ryan Renolds.
For me, I'd rather have a guy who is hot and of average intelligence. Being super good at math isn't going to do shit for creating a physical and intimate connection between us.
Definitely, I like both but I prefer brains. If I were to choose a partner, I would more likely choose one who could keep up with me intellectually. I would want to rely on them at times to work things out with me in smart, efficient ways as well. Brains is important to me.
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There's nothing more sexier than an intelligent guy for me.
Beauty goes away one day and it's only important when you want to make that good first impression on someone you've just met but as the times flies by you start to pay attention to other things
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Picked asexual because I'd rather be asexual than be forced to pic one or the other. The world isn't this black and white.
Also the guy you picked to represent "beauty" is not really attractive.
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Brains, definitely. I want to enjoy conversations with her and learn/experience new things with her.
400 opinions shared on Relationships topic. YOu can change your looks much easier than your brains. Place, a smart woman is extremely arousing.
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Brains. Don't get me wrong I like Beauty and if I can get both I absolutely will but at the end of the day I am a very cerebral person and I need that quality in a partner in order to really connect otherwise the relationship just will not be able to last.
I'd choose intelligence over looks depend on the situation. If it were a choice between someone who is ugly, but intelligent vs beautiful, yet he's an idiot then I'd choose the one who is intelligent. The thing is if it were Intelligent, but ugly vs Average and beautiful then it'd depend on their personality then afterwards. There is a lot of things that matter in this scenario or just question in general.
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Brains doesn't make a good partner... actually it usually makes them argumentative/them thinking they are always right,(same with arrogant guys) LOL.
#1 is a Great Heart/compassion... with beautiful eyes/smile... as the rest of the beauty fades quickly with age. Old Beautiful women still have those beautiful eyes/smile. Brains, because a pretty face with nothing interesting behind it will make the relationship extremely boring, and there's nothing worse than being bored with your partner
339 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Character. Looks are wonderful and to be moderately intelligent is nice, but neither is really all that great if there is something missing in their personality.
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Lol. I can see a lot of girls will say or have said brains. What they mean is brains with a six pack. There Is a reason you don't see the so called "nerd" who is super smart having women fight over him like chad with the leather jacket will.
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one little point i wanna make out.
YOU CAN IMPROVE BRAIN, BUT LITTLE CAN YOU DO ABOUT THE FACE,
don't hate me, don't makeup me, don't brainfuck me Depends. If brains is a horrific sight, no. I prefer beauty usually. But if there was an average looking guy and he was super smart vs a super hot guy that was an idiot, I'd prefer brains.
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Brain. But one thing that is definitely most important of all is character. But again, a truly intelligent man, knows how important character is!
847 opinions shared on Relationships topic. A combo of the two would be great. If I had to choose, I'd go for brains.
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I couldn't vote because I noticed the dichotomy of beauty and brains being looks in the pictures. Some "beauties' look overly done up with fake-up and other such fakeness, while many with brains are legit beauties themselves.
5.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It's easier to make someone more beautiful than it is to make them smarter.
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A beautiful mind n what not is what paints the picture to me! 👍🏻🙂
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I don't find either of those "beauty" options attractive. It would have to depend on the type of beauty and the type of brains. Some brains are cold and out of touch.. some beauty is unappealing.
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in my opinion, beauty draws you in, intelligence keeps you there.
Beauty and personality, I don't care much about brains.
393 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Those comparisons are grossly unfair. There are many smart persons who are ALSO physically attractive. You're pinning the extreme ends of both spectra here...
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