Waiting for sex: How long is TOO long?

[Allie_Oops]

Some people have sex on the first date while others need more time to decide. How long are you willing to wait to have sex with an SO? And I do mean SO, not a friends with benefits situation.

[Ayte_Lex]

In my friends words who doesn't have his own account yet wants to use mine...

"We both waited until we were both comfortable.. A couple of months. We did it a few times, but we just talked, and in my own accord, I want to abstain until farther in our relationship.
I feel like we can't make it all about sex. And that's why most couples wait. So they aren't just friends with benefits. "

[funguy98765]

I would never have sex on a frist date. Would wait until she is ready and Iam ready if she wants it on the first date I would refuse as of she really like me then she would wait for me

[Najie_TooSweet]

I say two years or a year is to long the most i say is 8 months or 9 the most a year if u wanna push it

[Anonymous]

I waited until I had a very good idea he was for keeps. Took me less than four weeks.

[SarahsSummer]

It varies. Communicating with your so is all that’s important to figure that out.

[_bunny_]

To me personally there is no too long it's whenever you both are ready

[Welloffselloff]

I've had sex the first day we met and I've been in a relationship where we waited a few months. In the end it's all the same. You are sexually attracted to your SO and the relationship will end the same either way. You are you and if having sex early changes you, you would change later just the same

[MusicMayhem]

If it hasn't happened by about date 4-5, I'd think they aren't into me sexually or have some insecurities. There's plenty of great women out there I can have a better connection with and have sex with around date 2-3 so I'm not wasting my time with someone who isn't sure of themselves or me.

[TomatoBoy]

TOO LONG: 2 years

If I really like her, until she is ready. I think the worst thing I guy can do is pressure girls. When I was younger, I would keep pressuring and coercing, and eventually they would give in. But I could tell the girl was usually not emotionally ready.

As an adult, I know that when a woman is ready to give herself to you sexually, there won't be any pressure needed. she will readily succumb to you.

[Bridgeburner206]

Already exclusive? Then any time the woman is ready. But as soon as possible, or you'll overthink it. We're all built for this. Trying to schedule it will kill the vibe, and then it's awful.

[N192K001]

Until marriage. Conviction, self-control, and inner-strength are importation to me. So should it also be for the matriarch of our clan's next generation.

[spartan55]

Whatever seems comfortable for both parties. I would say any longer than a month in my demographic is the limit.

[JackofSpades]

If you married her and she still won't have sex with you there's a problem.

[SullyB]

Its never too long until you're comfortable having sex with that person , this could take as much as 3 months to 10 years lol. Its your body and your desicion lol so make a good one.

[johnboymuscles]

You sound like my nan giving a motivational speech

[SullyB]

@johnboymuscles is that a compliment?

[Meninist]

For me, I don't start thinking about having sex with the girl if I want to be serious about it until date 4.

[ThePetSquirrel]

I don't really have a time table, it's really whenever we feel comfortable. If a girl wants to wait till marriage, then I'm more than willing to as well.

[outsidecurve]

A month of constant contact. If we casually hang out here and there, maybe 2-3 months

[Eternallylucky]

I need to know he is std free and herpes free as well. people with cold sores are gross.

[WickedIsGood]

Never. Wait until you both want to and think its an appropriate time.

[girlinthemirror]

nothing wrong with sex on 1st date if u both feel like it and like each other

[anon08]

Last thing a guy is looking for is a platonic relationship. I respect the no sex on the first date, but im out if things dont progress past the third.

[thatsmrmack]

I'm not waiting for sex, cuz then we're just friends with no benefits if I wanted to be that I wouldn't have asked you in the first place

[omda-aden]

if you want it go and get it

if you like him fuck him never get back

[Flower-petal]

Depends on how much time you've spent talking to someone. How comfortable you are.

[Introvert94]

Most women cut me off if I don't f@#: them by the end of the first week

[glorf]

puleez.. most of the women I've met online fucked me on the first date.. older women dont fuck around

[outsidecurve]

Ummm. Why does it say you're 13 years old?

[glorf]

13? more like 49

[outsidecurve]

Your profile say 13, genius.

[outsidecurve]

Faggot

[glorf]

ha ha

[f250owner]

I believe in staying pure till marriage.

[epicwizzle]

That's for you decide not society

[Kat_puppies]

til marraige so ik it's special and he was the one

[Decentguy]

im waiting till marriage

[ok285]

Uh why not having some fun

[Decentguy]

@ok285 becuase i like to have sex after my marriage, and with only my future wife

[Listening5]

100 years might be too long

[Thijs1906]

Depends is you feel ready for it I guess

[Jayson101]

10 minutes is WAY TOO LONG

[AlwaysBelieving]

At most, 6 months.

[lilkill]

1 2 3 seconds

[tyleranderegg]

Never

[ajay5035]

6 months