My boyfriend asked me to kiss his feet for him to forgive me?

[Anonymous]

We had a little argument and I used the wrong word towards him. Nothing swearing or so extreme. But he got pissed off and annoyed. He isn't talking to me and he said the only way is if I kiss his feet and ask for forgiveness. I love him to bits.
Do you think I should just leave my pride and do it? I don't want to lose him.

[samhradh_leannan]

Are you okay with doing it? Are you okay with him making these kinds of requests and resolving arguments with these kinds of tactics? Personally I see it as very unhealthy, because it doesn’t actually address the root problem. All he’s doing is exerting power over you, to make himself feel better. It’s a selfish, manipulative, controlling mock solution. What if he tries to end future arguments the same way? Do you think that’s something you can deal with? How will you resolve issues when he’s the one in the wrong? Will he be willing to work things out in a different way, if that’s what you want?

[CrazyFreckledGinger]

I understand you love him but don't listen to him. This 'bribe' wants to show that you are submissive and that you will always listen to him! He wants to show that he is superior to you. And you are not! Most relationships end up abusive like this. They start off lovingly, then you are reduced to nothing. You have to talk to him about this and that you are at his level. If he doesn't accept it and come to terms with you then I'm sorry but you will have to let him go.

[JudasMan]

You should not unless you want to that's the bottom line of every thing in a relationship. If you lose him for that sorry but be is a dick.
I think you could maybe ask him if you would like to use that as a sex game etc if YOU WANT TO because maybe it's a fetish he is not confident about and you could help him tho:)

[OlderAndWiser]

How does your submission to his demand affect the future balance of power in your relationship?

[saqibk]

If someone loves you he will forgive you without asking for anything or will not give you any punishment for your mistake.

[false]

as much as you love him i think you still shouldn't do this.
i understand his pain but humiliating someone you're supposed to love won't make it better.
this is pointing towards an abusive relationship and im sure that neither of you wants one

[Mantzerbation]

Nah girl. Outside of a consensual master/slave bdsm game, your boyfriend should never degrade you in such a way. Listen to your pride and drop his ass before he wants you to kiss that too.

[KyaRaposinha]

Your boyfriend is weird. If he knows you mean it, he would not let you do this... this is humiliation!

[will839]

Sounds like he's trying to make you submissive, I wouldn't suggest doing it as could be a regular thing

[Prince_Vegeta]

No guy that will say that if he loves you. If he loved you he would ask you to kiss his lips not his feet

[RohitLakra]

You are addicted to him, if it is love then ask him to kiss your feet first and then you can do it back to his feet.

[sidvt]

No need to leave pride if not him u will get more better guy if he made u do this in luv itself what all he makes u to do in future r u understanding. He will make u slave n torture for fun

[strangerr]

He is insane and you love him. You need to reconsider your fear of losing him

[slayeroo7]

Nah if he loves u he will never demand this

[Anonymous]

I think you should have your face shoved in his ass, but, that's just me

[Wytdrgn]

How long has it been?

[Dantheman101]

Absolutely not he sounds like a prick

[Asker]

We've been together for 3 years and I love him. I just don't know what to do.

[Dantheman101]

Tell him to get lost he just on a power trip and wants to humiliate you. He control freak get away

[BobbyC65]

Then kiss his feet if you don't want loose him.

[Noodle_fan]

I won't do that to anyone if i am at your shoe.

[NastaVarada]

Tell him suck my dick !!

[UltimateGohan]

Just dont do it.

[Assburgers]

do it

[Anonymous]

What the fuck?