I ignore verbal threats. but if there's an actual blow, I'd club her like a baby harp seal. I have a zero-tolerance policy on violence. I will never hit you, unless you hit me. Then the safeties are lifted, and you learn WHY it's a bad idea. Then you get The Talk.
"Do you understand, now, why it's a really really BAD idea to hit me? You moved from "someone to cherish" to "active threat" with that one blow. This is the consequence. Let us consider other ways you may express your displeasure, while I arrange for you to be transported to the hospital."
Realise this will be a abusive unhealthy relationship.
I know that there’s a difference between threat and the actual act, but the fact that he would threaten me about hitting me means something. That alone is reason enough to leave, but it’d be a lot harder than it seems.
I'm going to leave right away. Normally that's how abusive relationships start. If they threaten to hit you, they have no respect for you.
Threatening is one thing actually doing it is another. Most likely there’d be another chance. But that can’t be a new normal.
s Threaten id stay and give them another chance, if they actually do it bye bye 👋
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If anyone you are in a relationship with threatens to hit you - LEAVE. End of story. NO second chances, none. There is never a justifiable moment where it is okay to threaten anyone with harm. Any man who hurts, or threatens to hurt, the woman he is with is to be treated with the same respect as something stuck to the bottom of my shoe. I get SO angry just thinking about it!
Do what I always do when im stupid enough to piss my wife off enough to get violent. Get in real close so her punches don't have enough force to hurt much, hug her (well it's more of a cinch), while silently hoping she doesn't bite me this time, and tell her I love how ferocious she is in my sexiest "I want you" voice. It usually works.
What I would do if anyone threatened to hit me. Open my arms apart for my chest and say "do it". Then after they do, I'll ask them if they feel better about themselves, and if the answer is no, I'll have them sit down to talk out our differences, if the answer is yes, then I'll grapple them and hold them down. Probably not if the person is significantly weaker than me, I won't be extremely physical with anyone regardless of violent intent.
I would tell her not to even try to. If she starts hitting me, she will have 3 warnings before I retaliate. I want to give her a chance to realize what she is doing. If she is dumb enough not to take that chance, there is a good chance this will end in a painful armlock for her.
He wouldn't be my partner anymore. If there is something I won't tolerate from a boyfriend, much less husband is getting threatened.
No one deserves getting abused, no matter how annoying they are.
You might not survive it as an 100 year old lady. Seriously though, leave that guy if he's serious anout that.
I'm outta there, and I'll have my big tough ex military ex con uncle on the phone as I'm packing my shit.
they have... but it doesn't actually hurt much lol... I don't really care it's not the end of the world
if it turns into a habit.. then ya it's a problem...
Lol I’d stick my chin out, I couldn’t take my girl’s threats seriously she’s too small to hurt me bare handed.
I'd tell her to do it, because I'm kinda into being abused, it would amuse me. If she picked up a weapon & could do serious damage I would restrain her.
Buh bye, he's no name for me starting with that moment. Violence is never the way.
Girls call cops with a restraining order. Immediately.
Abuse, be it verbal or physical must not be tolerated.
Threatening to hit to your partner should give a clue that the relationship is over.
u Hope nobody ever threatens to hit me. I’d definitely leave, no second chances and no looking back.
Ask em to bring it on find out if they are all talk
let them do what they want' i can go to police after.
if they apologize right away and don't actually hit you it wouldn't be a problem
I'd give them a second chance and third strike they're out.
If they are serious, then I'll leave. I won't lay a hand on them though. I could, but I wouldn't.
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