What would you do if your boyfriend or girlfriend got hit on by someone right in front you?

[Wowgirl10q]

Would you step in or let them handle it? Is there a appropriate time to intervene?

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[SirRexington]

I'd probably tap their shoulder and gesture to my pocket, and the knife that's in it.

Or I'd pull my hand out of my pocket to reveal my brass (technically it's stainless steel) knuckles.

[SirRexington]

Other pocket. I have knife in one and knuckles in the other

[Wowgirl10q]

Good guy

[Anonymous]

Yes, so I punched this guy as hard as I could right in his cock. He vomited. Fucking bitch

[Kkaos]

What a pleasant little anonymous comment.

[Opinion Owner]

@Kkaos did it offend you?

[Wowgirl10q]

@Kkaos that was a lot

[ChronicThinker]

He would get possessive, I would laugh... unless she tried a little too hard. Then, I'm groping him right in front of her.

[Ankitasingh466]

I will hit that person back if anyone hits my boyfriend.

[Logorithim]

She should handle it, unless I think or it's clear she can't (particularly crude advances, for example).

[StingRayxoxo]

He should handle it right there. And then a sweet kiss on my cheek or a playful pat on the my bum to show others that he is with me. ☺️

I would probably intervene if a woman put her hands on him.

[StingRayxoxo]

by the way, you look glorious in this photo! I love the colors.

[shake77]

I would intervene immediately. It's not only disrespectful to you, but disrespectful to your significant other. I don't mean to say that I would punch the guy right in the face. But I would definitely call him on his BS, and cut him down with my wit. I would make him look like the fool that he is. This is one thing that truly irks me about people. The audacity and disrespectful nature of some. Such a detestable and despicable human being deserves no kindness. they need to be publicly humiliated. How else are they going to learn to behave in a proper Society.

[DJB72]

I trust my wife 100%, but if a guy hit on her right in front of me I'd say something.

If a guy hits on a girl in front of her partner he's probably trying to assert dominance as the "alpha male". I find it hard to believe that the guts saying they'd do nothing would actually do nothing. I prefer to be more "submissive" in the bedroom (for want of a better term) because I'm a big guy and I'm very aware of my strength and my temper and I'm not prepared to be in a situation where I could be seen as "forcing" myself on her - even after 16 years together.

But outside in the world I'm still a caveman. Try to hit on my girl without knowing she's taken and I'll reasonably quietly let you know. Try and steal my girl knowing a) she's taken and b) I'm right there and you'll regret it.

Any guy who says otherwise is either kidding himself, lying or such a beta-male that he's already cuckolded and knows it.

[Kkaos]

I don't agree. It's how you carry yourself. I'd say you'd be the beta male if you retaliated and became aggressive. What you think might appear masculine, just exposes insecurity in my eyes.

If a guy hit on my girlfriend, as a confident man, I would not perceive him as a threat and therefore would not waste my time getting angry at him. I'd grab by my girl's hand, laugh it off and walk away. Obviously if he followed us, that would be a different story as that would be harassment.

I've been in pickup communities and I know guys who deliberately approach girls who are with their boyfriends. And I'm telling you know, the boyfriends who get angry look like the biggest bitches. The pickup guy comes over, says a joke and is spreading positive energy, and all of a sudden this enraged insecure manlet of a boyfriend rushes over and threatens to punch him.

Getting angry over words shows a severe mental weakness. It's the mark of someone with low self esteem who can't control their emotions.

[DJB72]

@Kkaos: My "esteem" is just fine, thanks. I'm secure in my relationship. I didn't say I'd get angry at him as a first response. I said I'd reasonably quietly let him know she's with me.

Perhaps my answer was unclear.

First, I'll reasonably and quietly let him know she's with me.

Then, if he pursues the issue and tries to steal her knowing she's taken and knowing I'm right there he'll regret it.

That doesn't necessarily mean getting violent. In 46 years on the planet I can count the number of times I've needed to get angry over words in a situation like that on less than one hand. A quiet word has always been enough.

Of course, as a married man I'd never take my wife to a pickup community in the first place. The "scene" there isn't one I care for.

If your profile age of 23 is accurate, then you'll have plenty of time to learn that you don't take a lady to that environment anyway. You take a lady of value somewhere you can appreciate her.

[Kkaos]

I see what you're saying, it appears I misjudged. Thing with the pickup community is they can be everywhere, not just at singles or swingers types events. I used to go out with guys when I was single to meet women and improve my social confidence. These pickup guys can be found anywhere from classy bars to shopping centres and they include men of all ages. Many of them are fine, but you'll always get the odd prick who will seek pleasure in trying to undermine another man in front of his woman, so with that being said I can understand the escalation process you talked about if he refused to listen to you.

[DJB72]

I agree. I was never into the pickup community, in fact my wife and I met online back when dating websites were mainly dirty old men in trench coats pissed off because the "XXX" cinema had closed. We were lucky enough to find a real person not a pervert on the other end.

I've had to be "firm" talking to a pickup "artist" a couple of times, but one firm word has always been sufficient.

I've been called a coward more than once and a pacifist more than that. Neither is accurate. It takes more strength sometimes to walk away than throw a punch.

[MrOracle]

Normally, I'd smile and let her handle it, unless the guy was belligerent or trying to touch her or whatever. The reason being that I don't want to undermine her power and authority over her own being - she's perfectly capable of saying, "thank you, but, no, I'm with my boyfriend."

Now, of course, if I perceived that she felt threatened in any way, or she was looking to me for help, then of course i'm going to step in at that point, but that is rarely necessary, especially because I tend not to date party girls who go out and get drunk every weekend, which means you go to places where guys are drunk too. Sober guys are rarely a problem - it's usually the drunk guys who can't take "no" for an answer.

[GuyAtEdge]

Reaction would be instantaneous, and intensity would be proportional to the guy's behavior and his willingness to apologize... could range from "she's with me, can't you see?" to possibly a straight right cut to his jaw if that's the language he would understand quicker.. my girlfriend trusts me, and I won't let her down.

[BeMuse]

Wait to see how she handled it... I shouldn't have to do shit. Why you've been watching MMA street fights or somethings?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KwYSaZOaLkc

[smg99]

Grin smile and tease him but wait patiently to rub it back when the time is right. That is if he boasts and enjoys it. Different story if he is not happy then, I’ll make sure to ask some curly questions to the girl and let her know her worth in public , in a under the belt way definitely. If she leaves humiliated great or crying far better.

[DarganKorodanya]

I have a lack of emotions. I only carry happiness, interest, enthusiasm, love, etc. I lack anger, sadness, and a few others. I am classified as a sociopath. I have little care for those who aren't related, or very close to me. If someone hits one of my friends I see that as a threat, so I try to stop them. If they hit me or my friend again, I will fight them until they cry in pain, ask to stop, pass out, or even die. Luckily I haven't ran into this kind of Event in years. I can't feel much pain either, I fell out of a tree and landed on my back when I was 7. It ruined my nerves, so if they hit me I brush it off. But they hit me again, I act in self defense as would anyone else.

[tony_baloney]

I think the sexyest way a woman I'm dating can handle that is to just kinda laugh to herself and let me handle it. Lmao, knowing all my love is devoted wholly to her and she can trust me. If you don't have trust, why be with that person to begin with? Plus I can't fucking stand drama & possessiveness. "You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free"

[tony_baloney]

If I'm getting hit on that is, but also vise versa too. I've seen my ex get hit on at parties and I'd see her point to me from across a room, come over, and give me a big kiss xD haven't seen my new girlfriend get hit on in front of me yet and she's like twice as gorgeous. But I know the woman is crazy about me and if she wanted to be with someone else, she would be

[RhythmAndHues]

Sit back and watch how she moves. If she move like she's reciprocating that shit I'm gone. But if he or she is actually loyal, their job would be to dismiss any advances. I shouldn't even have to worry enough to watch you do it.. we should just be at that level where I know nobody gonna take my place because my partner is a Jezebel lol

[genericname85]

i'd actually talk about that to her. usually i'm fine with it happening, cause
1: it shows that she's attractive which is both good for her feeling of self worth and my confidence in having the right partner
2: i usually let her handle it, unless she specifically wants me to be a little possessive and jealous and try to get rid of them.

[Kkaos]

None of those things you mentioned sound very healthy at all. You shouldn't need attention from strangers to measure your self worth, nor should you need your partner to act possessive and jealous. Jealousy is never a good trait.

[genericname85]

@Kkaos that's how we build our identity and our feeling of self worth dude. Of course there are extremes you should avoid but those are basic mechanisms that work being the Fassade of everyone.

[Anonymous]

Honestly my natural instinct when someone deliberately physically hurt someone I care for, is to go mental and kick ten bells of shit out of them.

I know it's bad but seriously if someone wants to piss me off and have a physical fight with me it's probably going to come from them hurting a loved one. I'm extremely proactive and will try to defend them till the end.

[Opinion Owner]

Shit thought you wrote "what would you do if someone hit your girlfriend or boyfriend" lol sorry. So embarrassing

[AcidT0y]

It's happened a few times at bars and normally I walk by and give her a tap on the arm so she know I'm nearby if she needs me.
She's usually fine sorting it on her own.

There was one guy who just wouldn't take a hint. He tried to grab her arm and I he was on the floor before he even knew I was there xD

[pitzi]

I'd hope he mentions me when he realizes she's hitting on him. If not, I'd make it clear he's my man. I'll hold his hand or lean my head on him while she's talking.

If he flirts back or something though, that'll be a big problem and I'll walk away.

[GuyAtEdge]

Difficult to imagine how a guy could be distracted when he's with you :D.. but I like your take!

[valualty]

Depends on the circumstances. If there are CCTVs and witnesses i'd let her call thr police while i restrain the guy. But lets face it nobody just hits a women for no reason. Hardly, so when it happens, usually the assult is initiated by the woman... the empty headed irrational men would try and act heroic but the rational minority of men would know where to stand and wouldn't be with women who gets involved and causes trouble.

[WitchsLove]

hits on. not hits...

[valualty]

Ok bitch i mean witch 😂

[WitchsLove]

that slip of the tongue, sure... bastard, i meant gentleman ;P

[valualty]

Suck it easy ehem i mean take it easy lol

[WitchsLove]

[Engageme]

It depends. I've had this happen twice but the girls were drunk so I just thought it was funny. If they weren't, we'd have ourselves a confrontation because it's disrespectful to me and I wouldn't just take that laying down.

[MLGbreezy]

id trust my partner so i think she would most likely be able to handle it herself but if the guy just doesn't wanna take a hint then ill intervene but ill try not to take things over the top unless the situation calls for it

[Aenetoo]

Nothing. I'd be flattered. I got this girl and you don't. The only appropriate time is when she complains. Then I'd tell him to knock it off or wind up with a mouth full of bloody chickelts. Nobody messes with my girl.

[Aenetoo]

Funny story. When my mom and dad got married, my dad went hunting and took my mom along. He went into a cornfield and left her standing by the side of the road. A bunch of guys drove up and started harassing her. My dad walked out of the field, rifle in hand. The guys were like, sorry dude!

[Aenetoo]

I'm sure the boys didn't mean any harm. My mom was gorgeous back then. They were probly drunk and just having fun. Plus, when you see a girl standing by the side of the road, you stop and make sure she's ok.

[happyhippo]

I'd wait it out, until I decide it's the right moment to intervene.