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Would you ever consider a polygamous relationship? Why or why not? (Page 3)
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Well I am bisexual for the most part and if I like everyone involved in the relationship and we all share equally then I don't see the harm in trying it.
Having a trap (convincing crossdresser that still identifies as male) and a woman would be a dream.
But NO FAVORITES. I still want to be number one but I can fit room in that spot so long as the other person is reasonable.
Yes. But I imagine it's difficult finding a woman willing to be a 2nd or 3rd wife as it is to find a 1st wife willing to accept me marrying other women.
They sound interesting as concept, though I'm not sure it would be that interesting in practice.
What I do believe in is a sort of liberal view on this like French used to have (maybe they still do). Where I am now though, in Sydney, both women and men seem thoroughly incapable of an ordinary relationship, let alone something more complex, they'd go completely nuts from that (very aggressive people with no empathy).
Polygamous as in marrying them? Nope.
But the more I age and the more options I have, the more I realize I don't want to settle for just one person. I'd rather have multiple not-so-serious partners
So perhaps a polyamorous relationship?
I guess, but I also have a hard time falling in love. Basically I like having a few "friends" that I can also do sexual things with
So more of a "friends with benefits" sort of thing.
With a few women yea. I guess I like the idea knowing that it could turn into a relationship but I never actually let it happen
I've done both and neither one is really my cup of tea it's fine for fucking cuz to be honest who doesn't love threesomes but when it comes to having personal closeness it's hard with two people I got some other people are better at it than me but hey I only need one person
I don't know, I can be a jealous partner. I also have a hard time splitting my love between more than one guy. I had a friend who was openly polyamorous though. Seems like you need a certain kind of personality to be able to pull it off
At this point, no.
I think relationships with 1 person are hard enough.
For me, at this point I could only have a relationship with multiples if I didn't see either as super long term (bc I want a family and 1 partner in the end)
No, I absolutely positively under no circumstances whatsoever would even consider loving/having sex with/being affectionate with more than one woman.
Welll... one should never say never, though I don't see any situation in which I would end up in a polygamous relationship... I haven't even been in a threesome.
I would not. I firmly believe that love works the best when it's between two people and two people only.
I would never 'consider' a polygyny, but yes, if my future husband wants another wife, he can have it as long as the woman isn't a bitch lol.
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@Political_dude what? :3
Lol "as long as she's not a bitch" this killed me
@MannyEsquivel And I hope she has no STDs too.
I'm jealous of your future hubby, shura
@Political_dude you gotta be. Cause he ain't no ordinary man! I don't know who he is but he's too awesome.
Just don't die single XD
@Political_dude might as well do that
Well yeah of course, every one in the equation would have to be clean, no one is trying to catch STD's. As for me I would be open to the idea but I would need my girl to enjoy it as much as I do, otherwise it won't turn me on
@MannyEsquivel It is not that I like the idea of it, it is just that I don't mind it either.
Right I see what you're saying. It could be a hot one time kind of thing though, something to fantasize and explore
Kinky new things always make the bedroom life more fun
@MannyEsquivel oh no it's not about that! It's not about that.
I think I would only attempt a poly physical relationship. I think someone is gonna get jealous at some point in time. Claiming they aren't getting as much attention as the other. If it was only physical and were able to keep the emotions out of it would be the only way I see it working for me.
Absolutely not for either. I don't ever intend to share or be shared. I would consider a threesome with my woman and another woman, but nothing longterm.
Fuck no. A. I. D. S. exists! Not to mention, what if the libidos don't link up? What if you get voted off of the islans. Fr though, I'd never do it, that seems like the move a desperate man would make.
I feel like I'd rather have an mutually open relationship than a one sided harem, provided the other person was committed to safe sex and willing to get regular tests.
Sure, I could get behind a relationship where multiple men love multiple women and vice versa. Im in a monogamous relationship now though and i couldn't be happier
I couldn’t I’m too much of a jealous person to have to share my man, but I don't know actually if I fell inlove with the women as well maybe I would. For the most part though I don’t think I will.
No, I wouldn't. I'm too jealous/ want my partner to be just with me. I have quite a few friends in poly-relationships though, and I've only seen one that has worked well thus far.
Hell no!
The women would compete and fight to determine who was the alpha female. They would become super bitches.
Also, their menstrual cycles would synchronise and they would all get PMT on the same day.
Worse, with every woman comes her mother. 😱
These results aren’t surprising. It’s a rare find to find a guy who wouldn’t use any excuse possible to sleep with multiple women at a time with no consequences.
Whats the problem here
@Listening5 the problem? I’m tired of the guys complaining about girls not giving them a chance. Then you guys have this attitude and wonder why the decent girls won’t give you two fucks of time. The mental IQ here seems a bit delinquent. It has been proven in polygamy there is always a “favored” and it often leads to disharmony. I think it’s a way to avoid forming real attachment and I feel sad for the people that are too broken to attach in a healthy and complete way. The connection between two people completely committed can be absolutely amazing. My husband and I have a connection I never imagined was possible and would take days to describe. Not everyone is as lucky as me but I wish that everyone could be.