Is it a red flag if boyfriend randomly hides his friends on Facebook?

[anastasss]

I was on his page the other day, and I noticed that he randomly hid his friends on Facebook and now I’m thinking the worst right now.. :( what do you think?

[10dsw]

No I don't think so. Many people don't want to judged for the number of facebook friends they have so it's easier to just hide the list

If you're a girl with like 1200 friends you are assumed to be an attention whore, if you're a dude with like 150 you're considered anti-social for example. Yea, sure 1200 fb friends on a girl's friends list is a turn off to me personally but it's still unfair to flat out assume that she (or he) is an attention whore

[Big_Tasty]

You're probably over thinking it. But just in case you should ask him why he did it and pay attention to his actions and you'll find out why if he doesn't give a straight answer.

[anastasss]

Hmm I asked and he told me he doesn’t know he was just messing with the settings..

[Big_Tasty]

You should trust him about that. It seems like a legitimate scenario. But you decide whether you keep paying attention to his actions.

[BlueDream]

It depends which friends he was hiding. Was it Girls or Guys or both? Maybe things from his past.

[anastasss]

His whole friends from Facebook.

[BlueDream]

I'm sorry, I don't have any of that. I thought you can hide them individually. Sounds pretty sketchy to me though. Have you talked to him about that? Maybe there's really no meaning to it.

[anastasss]

Nope. Do I have the right to ask? He has pictures of us on Facebook and it still says he’s in a relationship with me publicly..

[anastasss]

I asked him anyway and he said “he doesn’t know. He was just messing with the settings.

[Plumy]

Yes def a red flag but can never know why of not asking or umm "investigating"

[bi-mike-95]

I dont show my friends on Facebook. Lots of people do it nowdays. It can just cause drama also not wanting the world to know who you are friends with. People want to get to know you for you not your friends.

[GingerGuy]

Don't read too much into that, seriously. Just ask him about it if it's really bothering you. Don't make assumptions or jump to conclusions.

[yohyok]

Well look i keep my friend list hidden from facebook cuz its safer to do so. please look up what Social engineering is.

[StudentAbroad]

A lot of people have the option set to show mutual friends only, nothing wrong with it. Don't stress over something like that.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I agree with you. If i had a girlfriend who hid her friends on Facebook
it would make me wonder too. I would see it as red flags.

[markscott]

He's hiding them for a reason, and it doesn't smell good.

[manpower61]

Wow, there is also something called wanting privacy.

[manpower61]

Not from you but his other 300 facebook friends. Don't over analyze things like this. You must be the kind of girl that goes snooping into his boyfriends friends to see if you have competition. Learn to deal with your trust issues.

[Bobby95]

Seems like your snooping... He prolly caught you and is playing

[Flankz]

Of course it's a red flag, why would you hide that?

[Danael31]

Lol, people can't see mine either. Same for a lot of my friends. So nope omg

[Adream]

Depends on what friends girls or guys

[Anonymous]

what about your creepy stalker endeavors?

[shinyobjects]

I would question why...

[AthleticMom]

YES
unless FROM exs

[Anonymous]

yes, i would think its a red flag

[GirlsFlirtWithMe]

Yeah!

[theFantasticJ]

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[Anonymous]

Yes it is.