Are you okay with your soulmate being ugly?

[SlowRoast]

What if you met the love of your life and turns out they are physically unappealing. Everything else you love about them, their personality, what you share, happiness, love, soul, laugher, mind, hobbies etc. would you still consider them as your partner or would you search for someone more appealing?

[InfoBot]

I don't believe in soulmates and I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone that I found ugly. If they met every other criteria except for looks then they'd be a friend, not a partner. When you are really into someone you don't find them ugly, even if they aren't stunning. They become attractive to you. If you find someone ugly then they are not the right person for you, other than for reasons of convenience.

[GingerGuy]

The "love of my life" is also attractive (to me). It's as important as all those other things. Doesn't mean she has to be a model, but if I think she's "ugly", it's not going to work, no matter how much I like her otherwise. It will eventually affect our relationship (it would anyones). The women that marry guys that they aren't attracted to make such HUGE mistakes, and end up in divorce.

[heartbeatsflowers]

I feel like if you found your soulmate then in your eyes you would never see them ugly. Like what everyone said, whatever is ugly or beautiful to you may not be for everyone else. But that's the beauty of it.

[AudreyB88]

If the person is my soul mate. I would find them physically appealing or would assume that they have to be or I wouldn't have been attracted to them in the first place.

[ghostqueen]

I could work with it.

[MLGbreezy]

Nah i wanna at least be attracted to someone that i might end up being with the rest of my life but if there your soulmate in your eyes the won't end up being ugly everyone's view of beauty is different as they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder

[notsosobersean]

Their personality can make them very attractive. Some of the most beautiful looking people can be super ugly due to their personality, whether you're an ugly or beautiful person for me this isn't just based on looks, it's about personality and character and who they are and how they act as a person and it's also about how they make you feel

[ProMoRRom]

What you described is real love with the only limitation that he has is that he is ugly?
I this is what is happening, do not waste this opportunity, right now people like him you won't find in a future, remember that a boy with all that characteristics is not easy to find.
I am sure you will take your the better decision.

[Ankush_is_here]

If he/she is a *soulmate*. It's not possible for them to be ugly.. they might be ugly to everyone, even to themselves but to the person who feels he/she is a soulmate.. they are the most beautiful thing they've laid eyes on.. it's not about ugly or beautiful.. it's about *mine* or *not mine*..

[TheRedLemon]

As a guy, my honest opinion is no. I am also ugly wich probably makes me a hypocrite but if a girl can get over that then all is good. Really the only thing i have going for me is my weird personality.

[LionBill]

Maybe Im not sure

But I think a better question is, what if they were everything you want, but theyre not the right age. Theyre perfectly legal, but maybe theyre a few years younger or older than what you usually like what would you do then?

[boggboss]

Attraction is always part of falling in love i don't believe one can fall in love with someone that they objectively think is ugly they would have to be attracted to them

[Cody01]

Fuck no. They wouldn't even be the love of my life if they're ugly because there isn't any physical attraction. They can't look like a witch or a troll.

[DellBoy]

Define ugly. One man's trash is another man's treasure. What you find ugly might not be someone else's perceptive

[SlowRoast]

Basically what YOU find to be unattractive

[Shadow0Walker]

Will you still love me when I'm no longer young and beautiful?
Ask yourself one question: What do you need most in hard times , a Beautiful face but can't see through you or the opposite?
Make the real choice

[rzvcam]

I wouldn't date a person i don't feel attracted to PERIOD. There's that saying "nobody falls in love with your personality at first sight".

[Mike3569]

Soul mate is just that. Someone who's inner self is the most beautiful thing you have ever known. Outer appearance doesn't matter if you don't make it matter.

[grinwoody]

Search for someone more appealing. Men are physical. It might not be top priority but it's top three.

[capturemyheartnow]

Soulmates are always well connected in all aspects. Even if the look ugly , they are having a beautiful soul.

[LeoZay]

The visual stimulation has to be there or I would get bored. Fast.

[genericname85]

if i genuinely find them to be ugly, then no i'm not ok with that.

[Kese04]

I'd have to be attracted to my "soulmate" if they are actually my soulmate. What you described sounds like a soulfriend.

[tanvis3298]

Beauty is relative. Obviously, the first thing you lay eyes on is the physical appearance. But there's always more to it. A common understanding should be present among you two.

[calcifier]

why should i waste my time searching for other when i hv found her. and the appealing part can be achieved by mobey i guess only uf you are that much concerned about it

[Markfish]

I can't date someone I find ugly, the most important thing to me is that I am physically attracted to my partner.

[2opaz]

Ughhh i dont approach girls i dont find attractive

so that would never happen lol

[Kelly11887]

I’m single and loving it.

[LegateLanius]

I don't believe in a soulmate

[SuccessfulHornDog]

No, its unacceptable to me

[san20k]

Yeah.. I'm fine with her!!!