What type of people do you attract? (Page 2)

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We all have preferences and usually people we like share many traits. According to the psychology our future or current partner might have many things similar to our EX. It’s same for the people we attract. Usually we attract same type of people. Personally, I never attract guys who I like, I either attract shy, conservative men or beta men who want a submissive women. I know, I know “beta” isn’t a thing, I just mean men who don’t hold dominant position with their male friends but still want to have submissive women probably to make themselves feel better. I don’t know why I attract them and I want to change this but have no idea how.

TwinCKI · Answer

I think that I tend to attract either the really shy and quiet girls that just always look at me or attract the girls who just want to party all the time and hate studying :/ Hoping to find someone who cares about their education and isn't too shy.

lordgrifis · Answer

Nerdy people. I am nerd, with a nerdy wife and two nerdy sons. I'm nerdilly happy.

Fatboy98 · Answer

Does it matter who is attractive? In the end, the relationship will not last ever, unless both lovers are committed in a relationship.. Every relationship has someone else attracted to another guy or girl. Which is very very very annoying.

Rima-Ivalom · Answer

I attract all the weirdos, and that's been the case since when I was 7, guys or girls. But then I guess I don't notice when normal people find me attractive, and by that I mean anyone who doesn't look special!

conanbdetective · Answer

In general, eccentric people. Sometimes, they're not off the wall; but they do have hobbies or do things that make them appear so. In terms of women, head-strong types I would say. They go after the things they want 100% and no filter.

Maddyjojo · Answer

I feel like I attract guys with 0 sexual experience what so ever. I thought “maybe once I’m around 20’s the guys with 0 knowledge will die out” no. Not. At. All.

Vengeful_Ginger · Answer

My experience has been I don't really attractive people who can handle the long term with me.
I don't know
It's hard to explain
I find a girl I fall in love we date and she leaves
Sadly I am usually the one getting dumped

jiothecat · Answer

I attract a variety of awesome gorgeous goddesses who love me to smithereens. I don't think we always attract the same. When we change who we attract changes too, but just be a use we recognize and might bring out similar traits in a partner does not mean they are the same.

Astefers · Answer

I like to laugh and joke a lot. I always met the same people.

CandacePerry · Answer

I am attracted to the gamer of guys. guys that i like to Be faithful, supported. Me and my current boyfriend both like video games.

kynlee20 · Answer

See I'm attracted to like suit and tie type guys who have a lot going for them and know what they want in life but I always attract weird bums that have feet fedishes and sketchy pasts

heavygear40k · Answer

I don't meet the alpha male mentality but I'm also not a pack type of personality. So I can't be categorized. I attract no one really. I'm a loner mostly. My level of concern for needing others is low.

PersianPrance · Answer

I attract no one I think😁
But attracted to girls that are tough and independent, I don't look for a barby like girl, but a friend I can enjoy spending time with even if I put aside sexuality. Rare to find, and most of the times they are not interested in me...
So I think I might die single!🙈

Stefan00 · Answer

It is your fault. People go in relationships when they deserve each other. They stay if they grow toghether. If one changes and the other ine dosen't they break up. If you atract those type your guys you are that type of woman. Analyze yourself and see if you are a beta woman. If you are, change it because you can. Am you will attract the man you want

mitz86 · Answer

I attract older men. They like my wisdom and they often say im a sweetheart. But im nowhere near it... They love to buy me things and feed me... Its a creepy father type of treatment. I hate it

dizzj · Answer

Fuck... i won't lie. I meet some attractive ass women. I do. And then... after 3 or 4 times of gettin dicked down all a sudden Nicki Minaj turns to a fuckin Kardashian. Pick one. From the surface she's hella sedt. Then she's as simple as a paperclip

Schnitzel · Answer

People I like and people I don't want anything to do with, I don't seem to attract a type, they have many different personalities, hobbies, heights, ages, race, religion or even gender.

clem3 · Answer

Black guys and latino, and a few italians cause i have a big round butt lol even if i personally am attracted to the scandinavian and eastern european type.

Anonymous · Answer

Grown men that are too old for me and only sometimes do I attract teenagers

pman24 · Answer

I hope she has similar qualities with my ex. I loved my ex but it just didn't work out. Have you ever heard "next girl" by the black keys. It kinda hits the nail on the head.

SilentWoman · Answer

I either attract assholes who dont want a relationship... or guys who are very submissive, want me to decide everything and they want to commit... its horrible 😂

CountyGal7 · Answer

I attract guys that end up just using me and then hurting me. I am dating a guy that actually respects me currently.

PrivateGurl1234 · Answer

I have found I always attract mummies boys, lazy men who complain about everything and married men in their late 30’s-early 40’s

wolfguy · Answer

I hate to say it but ugly and fat girls. i think because they can't get anyone else. usually introverts too. probably because i am one too

FlamingoJones73 · Answer

So you want an alpha to make you feel better about yourself? You can turn a beta into an alpha by building him up. Most alphas have giant support systems, where as betas are usually loners.

just_tired · Answer

Sample size ain't exactly huge, but usually the girls that I attract are at least fairly smart, straightforward and shyish.

DollFace0612 · Answer

I attract cranky looking mountain men and crazy women. I am attracted to said cranky looking mountain men... they must be Alpha.

J4Zzi3 · Answer

well i never think that I attract anyone before beside sales person.
guess coz i'm the quiet type.
i don't think we attract same type of people though. It's more of the topic we talked about is in the same line or not.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

In general the ones I'm not into. For example 2 guys talk to me, an ugly one and a regular looking one.. The ugly one wants my number. Also weird ones. For some reason my boyfriends were all left handed.

FenderMustango · Answer

Intelligence, geekyness and someone to travel with. Looks are a bonus its more about the womens interests and heart inside.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never had any luck with the girls I'm most attracted to, and the girls who seemed to be the most attracted to me are the crazy ones, so I've been alone for most of my life haven't even gotten laid for 16 years guess it's the being born on Valentine's day curse

CowboyKamp · Answer

For some reason I attract woman that want to be taken care of. Basically they want a suger daddy, problem being that I'm not rich.

Eclipso · Answer

I attract all kinds, I'm a stripper. Yeah I've seen em come in all forms.

Jmcmanning · Answer

I've always attracted all kinds of people - no set catergory.

Hurlyburly · Answer

I seem to only attract men I'm already good friends with. I don't mind though.

WalterRadio · Answer

I attract women who like super smart, ambitious men and who do not value athletics. About half of them are Asian for some reason.

ashiakaleo · Answer

I find that +end to attract People who have issues within themselves... Why I don't know maybe because they sense my kind, loving, understanding heart

Jjpayne · Answer

Needy people. either i'm drawn to them or they are drawn to me. But I guess that spells any good relationship, two people that need each other...

htownmama · Answer

I seem to attract all types of guys, bad boys, the shy sweet type, older guys etc. I dont seem to have a general type I attract.

reventon4 · Answer

I'm such a loser, thus don't attract anyone. This answer should shut up the system from persisting this post to me

23baybee · Answer

Different types. I'm into all kinds of stuff so I attract gamers, thugs, sweet guys, funny. All kinds and I judge solely on personality.

moonyshiner · Answer

Young handsome sexy heart broken insecure guys. I don't know maybe cause I am too sweet and they kinda seek for mother love? Haha hahahahaha

iampksharma · Answer

Me , personally I don't know whom i attract as i never had any relationship but i get attracted to girls who are sweet, innocent, sexy and seem smart.

staffvron · Answer

I attract shy, socially awkward people but end up being very communicative and funny people once you give them a shy kind of people

despop · Answer

I guess I attract intelligent people who are self possessed and constantly self improving. Both of my partners match that.

StopThatDJ · Answer

The one who have no hopes of marry someone who's Successful in life and Handsome.

waelRashad · Answer

Its not about what you attract mostly more important what can you push away sometimes the better you are u attract totally shit people cause they r n need for your energy and the idea that you don't give up for less than what you think you deserve

Koki11 · Answer

Unambitious man or drunks coz its been said im intimidating lol n females who tend to compete with me n  like minded people

LaraMaLain · Answer

I usually attract very self-assured men. Who have faith and never question their “skills”.

Vmm90 · Answer

I apparently only attract men that don't want relationships.

Robsinsf53 · Answer

I attract smart women because, modesty aside, I'm pretty smart myself and would never date a eight grade dropout.

Anonymous · Answer

I seem to either find girls who are hot that end up cheating on me or girls who are very boring, plain clothes, doesn't laugh as much, just basic. Not bad but not good either. Ehh...

I like skinny petite woman like Willa Holland or Piper Perri or Amber Heard <3

nickyBBB · Answer

I don't like admiting it lol but... dominant older men

Tajanax · Answer

i attract the wrong people onky have had one boyfriend that didn't screw me over but we grew apart.

Dimewolfe · Answer

I attract unattractive people (in my opinion) sometimes they are cute but rarely are they that I know of.

littlecrushesforhim · Answer

So far i somehow attract extreme shy and creepy people

Kitten967 · Answer

I attract the type of people I like and get on with

unknown-creature · Answer

Personally I can say that I feel attracted for a lot of kinds of girls, and these girls are not related with my ex's profile. While she loves me and I am the most important person for her I am Ok.

TheChocolateWriter · Answer

Really old, creepy dude. Really creepy unattractive dudes that couldn't take no for an answer. Just creepy dudes. Lately, average to attractive people have spoken to me, but that's it.

1nittol3arn · Answer

That's a good question. I've tried to break the pattern too. For some reason it's not happening. lol

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