What type of people do you attract? Why do you think that is?

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Could be friends, relationships, whatever. What kind of people tend to like you? Why do you think that is?

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Accepted Answer

In high school, I noticed that all of my friends that I had seemed to have problems with their mothers, whether they were controlling, neglectful, or just weren’t enough for them at all as kids and teens. Meanwhile, I had a mom who was my best friend and I never had those kinds of issues so I could never fully relate despite wanting to. I think, somehow, my behavior and demeanor spoke of having that kind of relationship with my mom and make them more drawn to me.

And a lot of times my friends would befriend my mom too. And they would often come to her asking for advice or guidance they couldn’t get with their moms or about their moms and their relationships. Once a friend tried to runaway to our house after his mom threatened to kick him out during a fight. The reason my mom was so different from their mothers and why they all got along so well with her was because my mom had been and continued to go to therapy, so she was a lot healthier mentally. She ended up kind of adopting all of my friends throughout my life, some even liking her more than me, but I’m still glad my mom could give them a place to feel vulnerable for a little while.

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Omg my mom and I just had a conversation this morning about how I used to attract friends who were troubled or struggling in life and very insecure... what a coincidence but yeah my past close friendships were toxic or emotionally dependent in some way.
Nowadays I'm not sure if I still attract those people, cause I try to not meet people like that and run away as fast as possible if they should be like that. Ain't doing that shit ever again but then also I haven't really tried to get new friends, my new work friends were all fine and mentally stable women.

In romatic interests things: in the past it was guys with bad intentions, lying and game palying dudes who I guess just tried to get me, to have gotten me kinda thing and funny fact is all of them were "nice guys", average looking guys cause in my late teens and young adulthood I didn't think I could pull the handsome dudes and I was a nerd myself (still lowkey am) but that's the people I got along with. Never again tho!
Nowadays I thankfully attract mostly independent and grown up men, it's just that I'm closed off for now...

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Queer people, especially queer women, which disgust me as dating options. And I don't know why cause I'm very much straight and have no interest in lesbians, trannies, or gay men.

I mean, I don't hate queer people for being people, but I have zero desire to ever have anything to do with them romantically, and for some piece-of-shit admin on this site or power-tripping uber mod, just saying I don't want to fuck a lesbian is enough to warrant "hate speech" and get me suspended for two fucking days. And I'm going to find out who this dickwipe is, too. I'm still pissed over it.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Accepted Answer

Platonically, usually deep, intelligent and caring individuals; people whom I really consider as Women and Men among women and men.  Romantically? The less said, the better.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Deep, serious, troubled, but also mentally sharp, witty, and playful.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I attract honest people, religious people, sensitive people, easy going people, educated people, conservative people. One weird thing is, I’m generous but do not attract generous people.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

I don’t think there’s any one type

Mewzinc · Answer

I notice I attract different type of guys.

Nerdy nice guys. The ones that are overlooked by most women.

Sometimes douches but thankfully I don't get those ones too often.

Black guys who are looking for flings and are really pushy.

Older men who see my innocence as an invitation to try and take advantage of me.

DaisyM23 · Answer

my close friends are all quite smart, similar political views, quite chill, not bitchy and treats others well but can be judgmental, funny - I think it's just what I like/need? i don't really tend to be close with emotional or toxic people, I can be FRIENDS with them sure but not close

Msputiton · Answer

In both relationships and friendships personality wise is very wide range. Only thing i would say is usually i tend to attract people who have good morals though

purplepoppy · Answer

If I sit on a bench it's a guarantee someone will feel the need to sit by me and tell me their life story.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Extremely secure people with thick skin and a great sense of humor. I’m an acquired taste. You won’t likely appreciate me without some combination of those traits, and i won’t care one bit if you don’t.

Amy10223 · Answer

I sometimes attract people with mental illness, don't ask me how or why. IT seems to happen to me a lot. I also seem to attract younger men, and I don't know why that is., Older as well, but that's ok for me.

NathanDavis · Answer

smart, interesting and funny... all my exes had that in common  and when I think about it... my best and close friends are the same

4ngelic · Answer

the loud crackhead extroverted funny types, and people who are exactly like me like globally. for boys there's not that much of a pattern really, i attract lots of different people

Agape93 · Answer

The surprisingly good people, the naive and the broken.

SnowedIn · Answer

Nice people. People who want to talk. People looking for no judgement. People looking for no expectations. People looking for a friend.

DizzyDesii · Answer

In person and online, I attract hornballs. Im not surprised with my mindset. But they ain't gonna get no play

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I attract decent women to my life. If you are a decent person that tries to live your life the right way and for God and make good decisions 9 out of 10 times the right people will be in your circle.

AmeerX · Answer

I am attracted to people who are in trouble and need help. I attract people who are nice and kind on other but I also attract scammers a lot lately.

sheenagwapa · Answer

rich pips 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 probably bored of their life 😝😝😝😝

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Medical students Crazy girls Latinas Muslim girls Indian girls Users Con Artists

BJP21 · Answer

I tend to attract people with a dark abusive past. Part of me lives within a Cinderella story, its the weirdest thing.

jamesgoldman · Answer

People with money Because I talk their language and often make them money

SlavicThor · Answer

I tend to attract girls who are quiet, insecure, nerdy, judgmental aha

LiamJHayden · Answer

All kinds, which forces me to do extensive weeding at times.

Noodle_fan · Answer

drunk people , since i hang out in bar or night club often

weysally · Answer

I seem to attract men more sexually than for friendship, maybe I give over the fact that I love sex,

Twalli · Answer

I'm nice to everyone, so people like me as a friend, not so much romantically.

Cassie2002 · Answer

I like a woman with a scene of humor, who can be silly.

dustybiker · Answer

People with a decent sense of humor.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

@dustybiker says that I attract weird women.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Funny and chill people

bigpauly · Answer

People who like to joke around and laugh

annabananna · Answer

Most people I know are intelligent and confident.

slatyb · Answer

Women near my age, occasionally younger women.

boobliker · Answer

the stupid ones it seems to be with me!!!

Iron_Man · Answer

I attract normal good women

TrillXHippy · Answer

I don’t attract anybody

shortster · Answer

Scammers, they think that I am desperate for love.

Nominal · Answer

Because of the environment į choose to be.

xJeremyx · Answer

Nonexistent people.

TJones96t · Answer

being true, who care us like them by heart

Fuentes · Answer

Everyone

Anonymous · Answer

Intelligent & funny

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