I would never, considering that they all called me ugly, which now I’m not to them. It would be dumb to date a person who wanted you to struggle in the past
If I had been bullied... hell no. In high school there were so many negative things said about me by several guys and positives by others. If I ever saw them again I'd probably screw with them or just make them feel like shit
I dont think anyone should date a bully not because I don't believe in second chances but because if they bully people then chanaces are that it would be an abusive relationship which no one wants to be in. Its safer for you to not date those bullies.
I believe people deserve respect, and those that don't respect others deserve none. However I also believe in second chances. I'd never date a bully, but I could eventually become their friend for sure.
I see you have overcome your dyslexia, way to go 👍 well they were just kids so you could forgive them. However, if there are plenty of other dating options for you, I would keep rubbing it in their face. Karma is a bitch.
I don't think I could ever date a tormentor why should they be forgiven let them see what they will never because of their stupidity have a chance with save your kindness for someone who was kind to you
I probably would if I thought they were trying to make things up to me. But that doesn't sound like the case here, it sounds like you just got hot and they just wanna smash.
No the women who bullied me were so cold. Still are. I dont fit in their world. Must of them have had a problem in their lives. Dont need to envolve myself in their issues. Just ignore them and move on.
I was bullied from 8 to 11 (after that, I sadly became a bully myself for a couple of years) because of my ADHD and dyslexia, but considering that my bully was a guy, I would not date him. However, I wouldn't date a bully if she was female either.
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If what they did to me was so horrible that I had the chance to date one and find their vulnerability, then crush them, yeah. But like a genuine relationship? Nope.
im bi and this guy who bullied me, i actually ended up having a crush over, even while he was bullying me, now its stopped we are actually good friends,
I would to the same as you, flirt then humiliate, they bullied you, they shouldn't then get a chance to have you, unless they can prove without doubt they have changed
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Aw girl don't, you were doing so well! Keep resisting them and keep your pride and standards intact
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I would never, considering that they all called me ugly, which now I’m not to them. It would be dumb to date a person who wanted you to struggle in the past
If I had been bullied... hell no. In high school there were so many negative things said about me by several guys and positives by others. If I ever saw them again I'd probably screw with them or just make them feel like shit
My bully was also the hottest boy in school. Then my dad married his mom and now he's my step-brother.
He also turned out a smart, over-achieving hunk who is really good to his wife and daughters.
I dont think anyone should date a bully not because I don't believe in second chances but because if they bully people then chanaces are that it would be an abusive relationship which no one wants to be in. Its safer for you to not date those bullies.
I never really had a bully. I did have people who pissed me off and teased me, but they stopped.
Other than that, if I did have a bully, no. I would not date my school bully. If they're stupid enough to bully someone, they're not worth dating.
I believe people deserve respect, and those that don't respect others deserve none. However I also believe in second chances. I'd never date a bully, but I could eventually become their friend for sure.
No. No matter the circumstance, no. Being bullied by anyone is awful. I wouldn’t expect them to act any differently than they have already towards me.
I see you have overcome your dyslexia, way to go 👍 well they were just kids so you could forgive them. However, if there are plenty of other dating options for you, I would keep rubbing it in their face. Karma is a bitch.
I'm not gay so no. Also I don't think they'd want today someone they think is crazy...
Either way you probably shouldn't date these guys as you have seen their darker side that most girls would have to wade through dating to find out.
I don't think I could ever date a tormentor why should they be forgiven let them see what they will never because of their stupidity have a chance with save your kindness for someone who was kind to you
I probably would if I thought they were trying to make things up to me. But that doesn't sound like the case here, it sounds like you just got hot and they just wanna smash.
I don’t think I’d date a bully. I may forgive them but I don’t think I could ever keep them in my life in such a serious and personal way.
No the women who bullied me were so cold. Still are. I dont fit in their world. Must of them have had a problem in their lives. Dont need to envolve myself in their issues. Just ignore them and move on.
I was bullied from 8 to 11 (after that, I sadly became a bully myself for a couple of years) because of my ADHD and dyslexia, but considering that my bully was a guy, I would not date him. However, I wouldn't date a bully if she was female either.
If what they did to me was so horrible that I had the chance to date one and find their vulnerability, then crush them, yeah. But like a genuine relationship? Nope.
Nope, I don't even talk with them now or when I do then small talk and nothing more lol
My female bullies weren't that bad and half of it was probably flirting I was too dumb to figure out.
So sure, I'm into femdom too so that'd work nicely.
im bi and this guy who bullied me, i actually ended up having a crush over, even while he was bullying me, now its stopped we are actually good friends,
I would to the same as you, flirt then humiliate, they bullied you, they shouldn't then get a chance to have you, unless they can prove without doubt they have changed
Aw girl don't, you were doing so well! Keep resisting them and keep your pride and standards intact