My boyfriend hates my Instagram. Like, really hates it. He thinks my posts are too revealing. He wants it gone or to stop posting these pics. Is he right to feel this way?
Yes, I think many guys wouldn't be please you are posting these naked, f**k me type photos for tons of guys to lust after. I'm sure a few wouldn't care but many would. What is kind of intimate between you two, you offering up your body to him during sex (sharing each other's bodies) you are giving to other guys (men are visual and they get off on this... even though you aren't touching other guys you are giving all of yourself visually to other guys).
"Is he right to feel this way"? How a person feels is natural and isn't right or wrong.
Personally, if I were with you and you kept doing this I'd probably not want to go any further with you as a couple. I'd consider it kind of hurtful and a boundary to be posting yourself naked for others to get their sexual kicks from.
Ah now come on the boys are being a little unfair, this is completely your decision, he canāt control you however I do understand what he means because you have to think to yourself why you arenāt posting these photos. If youāre being loyal then thereās no problem :)
I think you're a little too exposed for someone who isn't looking to attract other male attention while in a relationship. I'd be pissed too honestly and respect my boyfriend enough to archive a lot of my pictures.. you look great though!
For him to be upset? Itās a bit um understandable because itās sending a message that youāre available or something which is uncomfortable for most boyfriends.
Itās one thing if you rocking a dope outfit and itās showing off cleavage but youāre barely clothed. Great pictures in terms of modeling but your boyfriend has a right to be upset
He has a right to be upset, if you are in a relationship why do you feel the need to get attention from everyone out there? He knows those picture are going to have guys leaving all kinds of comments and sending you messages more than likely. It's like you are not taking your relationship with him seriously or you don't think he's enough.
He has a right to be upset, sure, since you're literally posting pictures of yourself naked on IG, but if it's an empasse for you two, you should go your own ways, because you're both clearly looking for something else in a relationship. You want more freedom to do your thing without someone telling you it's wrong, and he wants someone more conservative who doesn't show off her body to others.
Pics are pretty revealing. It does seem like you're looking for the attention of other fellas. So, yeah I think he has a right to be upset. But, you also have the right to keep posting or not.
I am sure he will forgive you. You didn't realize and when you did you deleted the issue. It's ok. Most girls don't think the way men do. We tend to see almost everything as sex.
i can understand why he's upset. the question i'd have is why you need to take such revealing photos. unless you are trying to entice other guys, which is a cause for frustration on his part, it would be an attention thing
Sorry to tell you lass but I've recieved less revealing photographs from ex's trying to get a booty call. I can see why he's not exactly impressed. But you do you.
He's worth more. I've stated that I already deleted my entire Instagram. but I truly don't think it's very fair. The only leg I'd have to stand on is if he watched open haha I could say, if you're watching porn, my IG can go back up. But he doesn't, so I am abiding by his request
It's hardly a tough decision. Not posting revealing pictures attention whoring on instagram vs. losing your boyfriend. The argument of "your body your choice" seems a little silly. It's partly true - you have the choice, but if you ignore your partner's feelings on that especially when their concerns are genuine as I'd say they are here then that just makes you an asshole, and you're probably just gonna fuck up all of your relationships with your selfishness.
Anyone who goes into a relationship with that type of thinking will fail the majority of the time. Its not just about her anymore. She can do what she wants, but that advice will end the relationship 80% of the time. If she really loves him which one will she chose? Taking nude photos or his wishes?
Its kind of like if i were doing that and my girlfriend wanted me to stop i would understand where she was coming from since its actually reasonable. Some people spread those photos, or get a certain message from her photos and send pictures of them naked back to her (its happened to my aunt) this is not really as harmless as you may see it.
That's good. I was just replying to this because it seems that a few people have this idea that because it's "your body your choice" that you should just do what you want and your partner shouldn't have a problem with it or that you shouldn't care what they think, which is only gonna cause the relationship to fail. All relationships involve compromise - not that I think I have to tell you that since you've done so already.
It this you?😱 Seriously you? You have nice fit body and nice face. Try modelling? How tall are you. And to answer, yeah , if it is you and you post such pictures then he is right to get upset. Bit too exposed.
Yes, it's me haha... yeah, he got pretty kissed and gave me an ultimatum š¬ So I took it down. I didn't really see the big deal but I guess it is and thank you š
Haha I think he'd be pretty pissed if I did that š But thank you šAnd I'm short, only 5'4... I like some hair, not a shaved chest unless it's Really hairy haha
Yeah, she is a bit. So what? You don't like attention?
It seems to me that a lot of people who get mad at others "showing off," myself included sometimes, are merely irritated/jealous that we aren't as attractive as they are.
@Anon-ymous1 jealous ? ššš. No I donāt need to show my body off on the internet because my man gives me enough attention. Iām not seeking validation from the internet unlike her.
My boyfriend gives me plenty of attention. But yes, I did it for the attention. I'm not saying you're jealous, but I'm thinking the way you're judging me isn't very flattering. I like how I look and I work to look good. I don't feel there's anything wrong with that.
Itās not a good look. Youāre in a relationship but youāre seekinf attention from other people. Why do you need to do that if your man is giving you enough attention?
True. I was acting as if I was your boyfriend - when I saw those pics of you, I was stunned. I blurted, just as your boyfriend did when he saw the pics. Anyway, IF you care about him, then please desist with these type pics being "sent out" to anyone except him.
tbh your pics are a bit revealing if I was your boyfriend I also wouldn't want u posting things like this. your his girl not the rest of your followers
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These are too revealing. If u were my girlfriend id dump u if u didn't stop this
Well, c'mon, now - you know you ain't dumping THAT (you saw the pics, right?). For me, I'd have to start seeing her as a sex-piece, and not caring for her, because she'd destroy me.
Hey, he knew what he was getting in to, when he got you. He's dating a girl that could essentially be an instagram model, if she wanted.. if he's too jealous, why date you?
Oh. Well you never know with the 'net. Anyway, so what if you do want some attention? You look good. Girls like attention. It's as simple as that. Honestly you're quite hot (I think you know that) so I don't know what bothers him about it; if anything, were I him, I'd be cool with you showing off a bit. But guys are naturally possessive, per evolutionary biology. Just how testosterone makes us sometimes.
I mean technically none of that matters that much-- it's your Instagram account, you can do with it as you please. Each of you should try to take the others' feelings into account as much as is reasonable though, of course.
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