It's funny, I had the same question about girls last year, but that would seem to you like a silly thing to wonder, right?
To answer your question, yeah, we can fall in love, and its really a rockin' feeling. You feel warm and happy when you're around that person and you want to be your best when they're around. You feel like you're on Cloud 9 when they reciprocate your feelings and genuinely enjoy being around you.
Real love makes you feel like you want to protect your love and want nothing to go wrong with anything so they can be happy. It doesn't seem like much, but dang, do we go out of our way to do that. Real love is where you love that person, and not the feeling of love. Real love is like the best thing in the world, and you hope the person you love can tell and wants to feel that same way with you.
Sometimes we say we love people because we enjoy being around that person and that the people involved are people you want to be around. Sometimes "I love you" is a way to say you deeply appreciate/respect a person, and others "I love you" means love-love, like "let's go on a date and get married and whatever".
TL;DR, Yeah we can love, and when we say "I love you" it doesn't always mean the extreme version.
Hope this helped! 😊
I have trust issues, and so do lots of my brothers, but that's not because we're guys. Yes guys can fall in love.
The reason lots of guys tend to use the term more loosely is the same reason some girls do, because they usually aren't talking about the same thing. "I love you" in our society can mean anything from "I cherish you more than life itself" to "man, you taste great with ketchup!" So honestly, love isn't to be trusted by word anymore, but by actions.
Trust can be difficult, but it's a lot safer to trust the actions than to trust the words. Don't worry, actions rarely lie. If he's in love, his actions will show it. If he's not, they won't. Don't pay too much attention to what everybody says, in the end it's the actions that matter most. :)
I know its not really my place to be answering this considering I am a female but, I grew up with men (3 brothers and my dad, no mom), and have a higher understanding of guys then most girls. Guys are a hell o a lot more emotional then girls give them credit for. Guys go through just as powerful of emotions as females do. They have insecurities. They fall in love. Their hearts can break. And they get nervous making the first moves too! We live in a stereotypical society and honestly what people don't think about is that we are all just human with different chemicals in our bodies.
Lol yeah men are able to love. There are tons of great men out there; the problem is that they’re afraid to make themselves known. Take the time to get to know guys who seem interesting to you. :)
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No of course not! Every dick-owner is a robot unable to have feelings! Caution - people who can't accept sarcasm might fuck off now!
1. When you really think that men are unable to fall in love, then you have a little mental problem and I would recommend to solve it.
2. Yes obviously men can fall in love too. Know what? We are humans as well. We can feel fun, happiness, sadness, thirstyness, hungryness, fear, anger... and love. We maybe don't show it as much as women do, but we also feel love. I really loved a girl and would have done everything to make her smile. I also love part of my family of course. My mum! The best woman I have and will ever know. I also love my brother. This young boy will grow up to a good man and I'll make sure he is fine cause I love him as my brother. I loved my pet. It was a dog called Carso who was always there for me and it literally killed a part of me when he died. And I will love a girl again when I find the next (second) love. Don't think men have no feelings just because real men mostly don't show them. When you get betrayed a lot then you might think about what kind of guys you around yourself with. You can't expect loyalty from a fuckboy.
If you have to question this in the first place you haven't met a guy that has been in deep love for you. I don't think it would be different for each gender. I think it varrys from person to person. With the only thing changing is what there willing to do compared to the other gender
It's difficult for men to fell in love but once he did.. he is very serious about his women... it's seems u have trust issues may be because of sex u think being used.. mostly guys not care in early age about feelings of girls but as they get mature they want to be with thier one... there are many ways u can know a guy love u or not.. but it's also true it also depend upon women how they handle guys... men only interested in sex not have paitance and want thing to move forward quickly...
Guys fall in love too. Infact sometimes they are too possessive for that girl, overprotective, caring, emotional, supportive. It think It's not about your trust issue, you just are deep thinker and maybe you're afraid of falling in love with wrong guy and don't wanna get hurt and regret it. Take your time, you'll meet your soulmate soon whom you'll trust😄
We find love the same way as you do. To look into a girls pretty eyes, to carry her in our arms, to kiss her forehead and comfort her, cuddle with her and dream of having a family with her (these are things I imagine if I fell in love with a girl).
I can’t talk on behalf of all men so my point is, love to us is a special feeling we have for girls. It’s not lust, but greater than that.
Not sure about other guys, but I'm with the woman I love.
To me, I look forward to each day knowing I will see her every morning and every night. It feels like sunlight reaching a cold, wet cave every day. It's exciting, uplifting and actually makes me happy to be alive.
Personally i have only told a girl i love her without meaning it once and that was a mistake. The relationship was over the moment i told her that without meaning it. But i do not think you can ever know if someone really loves you or not. You can only see what then would do for you ans from that you can judge if that is the thing that YOU decide is love. At least thats how i do it
Thats an issue on your behalf, maybe one to see a psychologist about, could affect your future... yes we fall in love, its a great deal to me when I'm in love with a girl, i have issues with people when they think i only want sex... makes me think they dont love me, thats my issue.
Oh they can , and most are much more sensitive than girls.
But many of us learned growing up , that you need to be tough.
Not cry.
Not take shit.
Don't ever let others take advantage of you (girls included. Especially girls.) .
So , most of us end up a mess of feelings we unconsciously think are bad and make us vulnerable.
And mama issues.
Sure guys can. I don't say those words just because we are sleeping together. It takes a while to earn those words, by the way she treats me. Trust issues, yes, maybe. I want to see actions that match the words.
Can women tell how you feel by how they are treated?
Yes guys really do fall in love, but there has to be more than just saying it- they have to show that they truly feel it. Show that they truly care for you and your feelings
Yes we do fall in love
I can tell u so coz I am in love myself
U don't have trust issues
But u might think boys don't have feelings
One u get in a serious relationship u will realise that v do fall in love
😊😊
Have a good day
Guys definitely fall in love and I think the problem is in you... maybe you do have trust issues
Yes. I did before. But i was forced to break up with her by my parents. Took me a whole year to get over it.
Yes we fall in love and get hurt just like girls do. We're just better at controlling those emotions. I have two girlfriends and am madly in love with both of them
Omg yes ofc we fall in love, love for us is that feeling like "she's the one, i can see a future together, our kids, a family"
Every guy is going to have a different yet valid answer to this question
I've loved 100 times over. You have trust issues. Talk to a therapist
I fell in love SO many times. So Yeah! Of course :)
Yeah, of course guys can fall in love
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