Can guys really fall in love?

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Can guys really fall in love? :/

DoctorSex · Accepted Answer

Yes we can, however a comedian once said that men and women fall in love in different ways and how women's love is more... 'real' than men's love. I'd like to edit that opinion slightly and say that women's love is more intense.

When women love it involves everything lol Women in love literally give everything over to the man.
I like to think of it as, we all walk around carrying heavy stones and these stones represent our responsibilities and the burdens in life that hold us down and tear us up. Each year another stone gets added..

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When man and woman get together, she looks for a strong man who can carry her stones easily leaving her free to skip around like a young girl again lol

No woman is more happy than a woman in love for she is physically and emotionally free.

A man's role is to release her of the things in life that tear her down and to be her council and company, it is our goal to cultivate the best in her and keep her emotional load light so that she an be like a little girl again.

The role of a woman is the role of that which brings solace to the male heart. To bring the man quiet of mind so that he can forget the stones that he carries.

The thing about Alaskan Malamute's is that in their nature they are designed to pull loads. If you stop them doing so, they turn on those that love them. Your job as their keeper is to provide them comfort and solace after they have worked.

The role of male and female is different and so the way we express love is different. The trick is to understand each others way of expressing love and not to expect our other half to express love the way we do because then we are limiting ourselves to the spectrum of love which is so broad and vast.
We know this because every animal expresses love in a different, some dance, some sing, but all produce something from themselves to another.

That's at the root of Love.

kheserthorpe · Accepted Answer

To be honest there are times I feel that way about women.  The way men and women love each other is not quite the same, so can seem 'fake' to the other (since it's not how we feel love).

Hannah591 · Accepted Answer

Oh they do. My boyfriend fell hard for me and nearly two years on, he can't stop himself from kissing me and saying he loves me. He buys me food and presents all the time and he often just watches me in admiration whilst I watch tv. If I'm unhappy, he'll leave work and come to cheer me up and despite being stupidly busy, he always makes time for me. If that's not a sign he loves me, I don't know what is!

Both my ex's loved me, I believe. They both wanted to get married to me and thought I was the one so I think they loved me. My boyfriend thinks I'm his soulmate/the one too.

Aside from those, nearly every guy has the capacity to feel love, it just takes the right girl to make them feel it and once they do, they're often the first to fall in love and fall hard. I often feel that girl's are the most hurt after break ups but I'm starting to think men feel it worse, but hide it better. I understand exactly why you feel this way but you'll realise that men do fall in love.

skullly · Accepted Answer

Yes!! Even more often than girls do. That's why they're so famous in the cheating department, they fall in love too easily for certain things... like one single guy could be in love with this girls voice, that same guy is in love with this other girls boobs, and that same guy is in love with this other girl's legs, and that same guy is in love with this other girls mouth.. etc.. haha of course not all guys, but most fall in love too easily and call fall out of it just as soon as the next girl approaches.

dreamer810 · Accepted Answer

I think the word love is such a vague term and we all experience love differently. Yes everyone can fall in love, yet in their own way. None of us have the right to compare how someone expresses their love compared to the way we do. We are all unique in our own way and just have to learn the ways that the other person expresses their love. Stop looking for specific love signs that we are taught to look for but take the time to get to know him look for how he shows his feelings (or her).

Mesonfielde · Answer

It depends on their definition of love. Same applies for females though. However, males certainly can feel REALLY infatuated if the proper conditions are met for both appearance and behavior.

GoodManDave · Answer

Yes. In fact, many studies show that while many of us men are more "reserved" on the outside, we fall harder and more quickly for a woman than women tend to.

I do not feel as if I've been in love yet. Most of my relationships didn't last long enough, and my feeling is, these girls weren't kind enough for me to develop some sort of illogical, deep, emotional bond. You probably won't fall for a person who starts cheating on you within a month of you dating, or who screams at you for random things that others would consider "sweet" "kind" or "loving." or are bad from the start.

I have had huge crushes, and ones that have lasted a LONG time, and crushes I'll never forget, but I see them as... huge crushes, not "first loves". I have loved and still do, but as hobbies or interests, or as a Christian, or family, but not romantic. I have no "blood relationship" brothers, but I have guys I love as if they were my real brothers.

I say that the love part, the genuine (romantic) love part, for me, would take time, but probably be more "real" than the super dramatic month long relationships.

Electric_Dreams · Answer

Don't know because I haven't, but it is the one thing I want more than anything else in the world so I'll be pretty flipping disappointed if it ain't possible.

Well actually it's all about perception. I could be a guy saying "Yeah baby I'm in love and it's awesome". That would be my perception or opinion of my feelings and relationship, but others might think "wtf that ain't love man your relationship is shallow as flip - you like her because she's damn hot, and she likes you because your rich". Love.. how can that concept even be spoken of in general terms when you think on it? Everybody will have their own individual feelings on the principle, and how it works for them, what it is to them.. if it's possible for them, if it's possible at all. It's not something that can be spoken of factually.. not at all really.

I mean factual statements can be made of the chemical reactions that take place that cause people to be attracted to each other and to possibly find themselves in a situation in which they might possibly believe they are in love. That's where you get into biology and you're talking about chemical reactions though. The concept of love, the principle of love however you want to call it, that in itself can't really be spoken of in factual terms.

Short version - The answer is complex and complicated and not at all constant. It's upto you.. or whatever guy you date, what the answer is really.. I suppose.

Nik1hil · Answer

Honey if you want to know the truth, women's have 1 brain in their heads , but men's have 2 brain one in head and other between the leg the dick, when it comes to women , it they cannot decide on one because their are 2 brains , dick wants the one which is sexy and hot with pleasure , and real brain wants the lovely, admirable, beautiful one , the trick is to figure out with which brain the boy is thinking at that moment because the thinking from actual brain and dick change time to time according to conversation , surrounding etc. If you want to make him think from brain meet him alone and sober, you want him to think with his dick , add some alcohol, baby right now I am thinking with my dick that is why I am splashing this key into your hands.

So this is my ttheory hope it helps you in playing with other boys in better way.

alittlelonely · Answer

It's quicker for us to fall in lust, due to how where made and all that, no excuses though I am embarrassed for my wants and being a guy cause of how primal it is when we should be far more evolved by now but I don't think that's going to happen.. and a lot of guys think this means they love someone while wanting someone so bad until both people realize he never did and then it's awkward. I think it's faaar more likely for a guy to fall in love when he's been a friend of a girl for a long time and you guys talk often, however these guys usually end up in this zone instead so things don't really ever happen with them.

LovesWomen · Answer

Oh, absolutely! Men fall deeply, madly, passionately and permanently in love. There can be no doubt... However, most guys need to be in a place in life where they're ready for that kind of love. Otherwise, they tend to block out the possibility... or they choose to fall for the wrong girl because -- deep down -- they know it won't work out. If you want a guy to fall in love with you, ask each new boyfriend material kind of guy if he's open to that kind of relationship before you invest too much of yourself in lots of dates with him. If he's not interested, drop him quickly. He'll never go the distance with you.

Grosayfious255 · Answer

No. People can only fall into lust. Loving requires effort.
But to answer your question, have you seen guys get excited about a sports game? Have you seen them plan out their next fishing trip? What about hunting? All of those things are only small fractions of insight into the devotion and commitment they are capable of giving to another girl. A girl is much better than any game, trip, vacation etc. And if a guy gets his priorities straight he can initiate a thrilling relationship that lasts a full lifetime. The problem is is that boys are conditioned to waste their time on things that don't matter :(

DodgersGM · Answer

Yeah, of course men can fall in love.  It would be really sad if someone's faith in men had been shaken so badly, to the point that they'd grown to consider men incapable of it.

BetterBetUrAssItIs · Answer

Actually, guys that seem to care only about pussy are either scarred from past relationships or simply insecure with themselves. All I care about is pussy is a complete cop out. Yes guys can fall in love, but those that are scared to are the same ones that claim to be only pussy lovers.

renogaza · Answer

of course they do, unless you thought guys aren't human.. then in that case they won't, but that would also mean girls aren't human either.. and so on and so forth.. you shouldn't stereotype guys just because theirs a lot of arseholes around, some are really great people :P

pulse2 · Answer

We do, sometimes too much, rejection and broken hearts cause some guys to feel they have to be an ass to every other girl they meet to get any attention or be loved, due to the fact they were hurt by one.

This doesn't always apply, but I've encountered more than enough instances of it.

PhoebeCaulfield · Answer

Only if he is totally into your FACE. You can gain or lose weight, color or cut your hair, and even be a dumb as a rock. BUT: You MUST have a FACE he is absolutely crazy about. This is why women with BEAUTIFUL FACES ALWAYS get and keep the guy. For women with less than beautiful faces, the man will only be able to fall in love with her if his is UGLIER than she is. You MUST use the "10 Scale" system". If the woman has a "10" face, the guy must look like a GQ Model. If the woman's face is a "6", the guy MUST have a face lower than a "6". The woman must ALWAYS be at least equal or better (preferably) looking than the man in order for the man to truly fall in love with her.

shyguy227 · Answer

Yes we are human after all like plentey people have said so far, but the thing is that genreally sepaking men do not feel as a deaper sense of love as women do. Men can fall in love and it may not really be in the same way that women fall in love in some forms of expression.

ZeroCoolX · Answer

Answer: YES.
Reason: (with a question..) Can Girls really fall in love?
2nd Reason: If both genders like each other and start dating then it is called love but the real question is how long will it last? a month? a year? It depends on how attracted the guy is to the girl.

looking_for_purpose · Answer

Yes we can, well the ones that aren't assholes can
, assholes are usually the ones that have complicated and short love lives, where as the "nice guy" or the guy no one fucking likes will try to keep that relationship going because they want it to last. So to answer your question yes some guys can fall in love

ArchieTheMage · Answer

Yup we can. Most of us don't show it though, but sometimes we just need a little push and a bit of a good mood to open up. Or some like me that need to be cracked open with a nutcracker to show them.
But yeah we can. Weirdly enough it's possible.

:)

jjfrancis · Answer

yes absolutely, im just out of a break up, i loved my girlfriend when she was with me and i still love her now. she walked out on me for another guy and that left me thinking the same thing about girls. guys love, when guys love that girl is they are his life, men break heard after a break up with there love, thats why they tend to protect themselves from that pain again. so it takes longer for a guy to fall in love but it is a vary strong bond when it happens.
vary interesting question. hope this helps.

skykidx1 · Answer

So i rejected like 100 random hot girls in highschool end up dating a girl who had a big crush on me never notcie her till i heard her sing. Had our first kiss the 24th of this month could not sleep for a week. Afew works later we were forced to broke up over a Facebook fight. She cried every night i tried fighting for her all most got locked up 2 times lol for what? If guys could not fall in love i would have left the guy alone n finded a new girl. So hell yes guys can fall in love n its 10x stronger then what girls feel.

NihilisticCow · Answer

They do. And if they do you cherish it because a guy who loves you to the end of the world is rare and don't fuck it up like I did and throw it away to go with a big fat cheating fuck

xxxuknownxxx · Answer

Yes, we can. we fall in love with the women who dont sexually submit fast and hard to get. Not hard to get mean they should be bitchs no. i mean hard to get is TAKE A LONG TIME before sleeping together or having sex and if the chemistry is matching what i mean chemistry is matching not a must to have something in common but it might be different but interesting for both parties. Love is not an easy word and its not hard it just something u can expect or force your self into it.

Redrevolver23 · Answer

Yes men can really fall in love. In my opinion men feel the pain of having thier heart broken to a greater degree than women do. Women tend to remarry quickly after divorce men will often stay single lamenting the loss of thier wife for years. There was this girl who broke my heart about 4 years ago who I was deeply in love with. It took me 4 years to get over it and move on to another woman. There is this saying that goes around my circle. "Women fall fast men fall hard"

qoeylicious · Answer

0_o Are you an alien doing research on humans? Well... yes they can. It depends on a lot of factors that influence social behavior while younger. But generally, there are those who are sentimental, and those who're not. Those who are sensitive and those who're not. Gender is just not befitting to classify in such matters. No shitstorm here.

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

Can i girl? can anyone?
Some people claim love to be a delusion others swear it exists
I know i have felt feelings of love towards many different women
People shouldn't fall in love, that implies hopelessness
one day i hope to "land in love"

Anonymous · Answer

Don't think anyone can fall in love because it's not a real thing. Everyone's just terrified of loneliness and so we put increasingly powerful labels on our relationships just so we can get further and further away from it.

Or we're all just searching for things we'd like to hump (if you're a man) or the perfect genetics for our children (if you're a woman), and "love" is just a concept we apply on top of that to make it more concrete (stable families and more humping).

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

Yes, i fell love twice so yes guys can really genuinely fall in love

CamelzBeSteppin · Answer

No, males are physically and mentally incapable of falling in love or show affection of any sort. This is proved by the new research done by the official university of Nevada where they asked 10 men about their dream woman and mutated til they had these women and let them get to know each other, after 3 years there are still no signs of love, proving that guys can in fact NOT fall in love.

gentlycurious · Answer

never judge a guy based on your scale. guys react to situation differently than women. his way to care for you is different than that of you. if he really loves you, you will feel it through his actions. he may not say it openly. :) and yess they fall in love deeply than you can imagine.

Lonelywolf21 · Answer

Well, I don't know if my crush would ever believe me, but I think I have really fell in love. :/ It's maybe weird, but when you think about one single girl 80 % of your daily day and get headaches from over thinking (but ignoring them) about how to get along with her, that I would call fall in love.

I mean I would go far to get accepted by this girl. I mean I would make many changes about myself to make this happen. It's just I have to jump over the fire and try to ask her out. ^_^

vjreejr · Answer

Yes, and it can destroy us for the rest of our lives. It is like we are Superman and love - especially a failed love leading to a broken heart is like being buried in kryptonite. Years or decades can be wasted because of that. So, when you realize a boy or man loves you, take it seriously and don't be fickle.

MissBex95 · Answer

Yes of course they can! Guys are just as human as girls and just as capable of feeling emotions and love, they just tend to have different ways of expressing their love compared to girls. Girls are more feelings oriented (not to say that guys are not, but girls tend more towards their feelings) and guys are more action oriented in showing their love in ways other than words and feelings.

HorrorFan · Answer

Of course guys can fall in love. If your listed age bracket is correct you are way too young to be THIS bitter.

ArchivalMars2 · Answer

Of course guys can fall in love, it just doesn't happen very often when we're young. And if we do fall when we're young chances are it's going to end badly for us and then it doesn't happen again for a long time, for some longer than others.

womenarecrazy · Answer

Yes men fall in love. I can speak from experience. Now, do men ever stop lusting? No. It's how we are hotwired. Now that doesn't mean you have to act on it. But men are always going to be attracted to a beautiful woman. And there's nothing wrong with a woman being attracted to a good looking man either. But yes, men really do fall in love.

Coolguy1928 · Answer

what are you talking about woman! Of course men could fall in love! Only those heartless assholes that only care about sex fame and money, can NEVER fall in love! what kind of heartless woman are you for not thinking that men could fall in love? THOU SHAME YOURSELF I SAY!!! D:<

Lol, no offense. :)

Klaatu51 · Answer

for myself chances are greater to fall from the Eiffel Tower than to fall in love LOL

Anonymous · Answer

Ugh. No, we're all unfeeling asshole who only want pussy. >:-(

26ukdude · Answer

No, men just get upset and some kill themselves over women breaking up with them for the hell of it. (note sarcasm) What kind of a question is this?

DiggerForTeal · Answer

It's so weird to see that guys think we can't since I thought the stereotype for women is that they're needy and fall too fast and all that crap!

becca123 · Answer

Well sure they do. Until something better, sexier, younger or just different catches their eye... usually about 3 to 6 months in, just in time for the girl to relax and feel confident in his feelings for her.

Cryostatic · Answer

This question should be deleted. It implies gross misandry, and beyond that, it's inanely stupid.

Pingju · Answer

@Can guys really fall in love? They are human beings too.

luvme56 · Answer

Never heard of it...

meggyhertz · Answer

absolutely. I think men love harder than women. we are just more emotional about it.  anyway, you are probably too young to even understand love for what it really is. you still have a lot to learn.

Buzzed · Answer

Yes, of course they can. I have been in love and there is no doubt in my mind that I can fall in love because it's the best feeling ever.

Blessed15 · Answer

yes men can fall in love. You have men nowadays that put up a front and act like being in love makes you soft, but those aren't men those are little boys. Love is a beautiful thing. Your young right now, give it time God has someone special for you.

Sairres · Answer

I think I read something somewhere that said girls fall in love first and then have sex while guys fall in love after having sex. *Shrug* Doubt that's true for all. Just something funny to think about.

The answer is yes, by the way.

catpetter · Answer

of course... great Love poet amd lyricist are male... they fall hard

CasaNorba · Answer

i think we are the only gender that actually falls in love since when we do fall in love we actually fall in love with women we never search for bullshit within her that will "benefit" us socially or economically in the long run

RedThread · Answer

Yes but I know it doesn't seem like it at your age. Men will mature and mellow out for the most part.

MixedTwit · Answer

This is the stupidest question ever. Yes they can. Both men and women and everything in between can love, some people don't know show it and some people have been hurt so bad they are scared to show it, but everyone can love

HikerDude · Answer

I think men fall harder, faster, and more intensely than women. It's women who are the more skeptical ones who take time to warm up.

bunnyy · Answer

guys fall in love faster my boyfriend did and he was wanting all this commitment and I was like "whoa whoaaa slow down!!" at first but then I was like "actually I feel the same" girls just need more time to consider stuff I guess.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course they can. Anyone is capable of falling in love. One of my friends thinks that men fall in love harder than women do, but I don't believe that one. I believe it depends on the person, guy or girl. Everyone is different.

docmeister · Answer

I was in love with my ex so yes men can fall in love!

Rogue2 · Answer

Yes we can. Sometimes too easily. Sometimes too hard. But it's all the same. But better only if it's returned.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but probably not with someone who holds an entire gender with such disdain.

Garry8474 · Answer

Yes, But it really depends on his up bringing that, What is his definition of love?
And what kind of love are u expecting from him.
Most men aren't Charming romantic princes from disney
and those who are get Friendzoned :

No Offense (:

stevephillips706 · Answer

No we're all robots with no emotions and the only thing we love are football, cars and beer

ledcube · Answer

Yes they can. I was in one sided love for about 5 years. It was very difficult for me to forget her. But when I am stressed her thoughts start coming in my mind.

xmasterchielfx · Answer

Of course they can. For 6 months, a year or a bit more. After that there must be RESPECT, LOVE, GOOD COMMUNICATION and all will be fine. Else, you just need to split up... which is sad after a couple of months or 5 years in my case. :/ But life goes on...

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