Yes men can really fall in love. In my opinion men feel the pain of having thier heart broken to a greater degree than women do. Women tend to remarry quickly after divorce men will often stay single lamenting the loss of thier wife for years. There was this girl who broke my heart about 4 years ago who I was deeply in love with. It took me 4 years to get over it and move on to another woman. There is this saying that goes around my circle. "Women fall fast men fall hard"
0_o Are you an alien doing research on humans? Well... yes they can. It depends on a lot of factors that influence social behavior while younger. But generally, there are those who are sentimental, and those who're not. Those who are sensitive and those who're not. Gender is just not befitting to classify in such matters. No shitstorm here.
Can i girl? can anyone? Some people claim love to be a delusion others swear it exists I know i have felt feelings of love towards many different women People shouldn't fall in love, that implies hopelessness one day i hope to "land in love"
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Don't think anyone can fall in love because it's not a real thing. Everyone's just terrified of loneliness and so we put increasingly powerful labels on our relationships just so we can get further and further away from it.
Or we're all just searching for things we'd like to hump (if you're a man) or the perfect genetics for our children (if you're a woman), and "love" is just a concept we apply on top of that to make it more concrete (stable families and more humping).
No, males are physically and mentally incapable of falling in love or show affection of any sort. This is proved by the new research done by the official university of Nevada where they asked 10 men about their dream woman and mutated til they had these women and let them get to know each other, after 3 years there are still no signs of love, proving that guys can in fact NOT fall in love.
never judge a guy based on your scale. guys react to situation differently than women. his way to care for you is different than that of you. if he really loves you, you will feel it through his actions. he may not say it openly. :) and yess they fall in love deeply than you can imagine.
Well, I don't know if my crush would ever believe me, but I think I have really fell in love. :/ It's maybe weird, but when you think about one single girl 80 % of your daily day and get headaches from over thinking (but ignoring them) about how to get along with her, that I would call fall in love.
I mean I would go far to get accepted by this girl. I mean I would make many changes about myself to make this happen. It's just I have to jump over the fire and try to ask her out. ^_^
Yes, and it can destroy us for the rest of our lives. It is like we are Superman and love - especially a failed love leading to a broken heart is like being buried in kryptonite. Years or decades can be wasted because of that. So, when you realize a boy or man loves you, take it seriously and don't be fickle.
Yes of course they can! Guys are just as human as girls and just as capable of feeling emotions and love, they just tend to have different ways of expressing their love compared to girls. Girls are more feelings oriented (not to say that guys are not, but girls tend more towards their feelings) and guys are more action oriented in showing their love in ways other than words and feelings.
Of course guys can fall in love, it just doesn't happen very often when we're young. And if we do fall when we're young chances are it's going to end badly for us and then it doesn't happen again for a long time, for some longer than others.
Yes men fall in love. I can speak from experience. Now, do men ever stop lusting? No. It's how we are hotwired. Now that doesn't mean you have to act on it. But men are always going to be attracted to a beautiful woman. And there's nothing wrong with a woman being attracted to a good looking man either. But yes, men really do fall in love.
what are you talking about woman! Of course men could fall in love! Only those heartless assholes that only care about sex fame and money, can NEVER fall in love! what kind of heartless woman are you for not thinking that men could fall in love? THOU SHAME YOURSELF I SAY!!! D:<
Well sure they do. Until something better, sexier, younger or just different catches their eye... usually about 3 to 6 months in, just in time for the girl to relax and feel confident in his feelings for her.
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Yes men can really fall in love. In my opinion men feel the pain of having thier heart broken to a greater degree than women do. Women tend to remarry quickly after divorce men will often stay single lamenting the loss of thier wife for years. There was this girl who broke my heart about 4 years ago who I was deeply in love with. It took me 4 years to get over it and move on to another woman. There is this saying that goes around my circle. "Women fall fast men fall hard"
statistically, men marry more quickly after divorce.
That would be because the single mother demographic tend to choose not to remarry until the kids are independent.
0_o Are you an alien doing research on humans? Well... yes they can. It depends on a lot of factors that influence social behavior while younger. But generally, there are those who are sentimental, and those who're not. Those who are sensitive and those who're not. Gender is just not befitting to classify in such matters. No shitstorm here.
Can i girl? can anyone?
Some people claim love to be a delusion others swear it exists
I know i have felt feelings of love towards many different women
People shouldn't fall in love, that implies hopelessness
one day i hope to "land in love"
Don't think anyone can fall in love because it's not a real thing. Everyone's just terrified of loneliness and so we put increasingly powerful labels on our relationships just so we can get further and further away from it.
Or we're all just searching for things we'd like to hump (if you're a man) or the perfect genetics for our children (if you're a woman), and "love" is just a concept we apply on top of that to make it more concrete (stable families and more humping).
Yes, i fell love twice so yes guys can really genuinely fall in love
No, males are physically and mentally incapable of falling in love or show affection of any sort. This is proved by the new research done by the official university of Nevada where they asked 10 men about their dream woman and mutated til they had these women and let them get to know each other, after 3 years there are still no signs of love, proving that guys can in fact NOT fall in love.
sounds like bs
Aaaaand that's why I now officially want to kill myself. I did not just grow up in an era of people not understanding sarcasm. Fucking shoot me.
never judge a guy based on your scale. guys react to situation differently than women. his way to care for you is different than that of you. if he really loves you, you will feel it through his actions. he may not say it openly. :) and yess they fall in love deeply than you can imagine.
Well, I don't know if my crush would ever believe me, but I think I have really fell in love. :/ It's maybe weird, but when you think about one single girl 80 % of your daily day and get headaches from over thinking (but ignoring them) about how to get along with her, that I would call fall in love.
I mean I would go far to get accepted by this girl. I mean I would make many changes about myself to make this happen. It's just I have to jump over the fire and try to ask her out. ^_^
Yes, and it can destroy us for the rest of our lives. It is like we are Superman and love - especially a failed love leading to a broken heart is like being buried in kryptonite. Years or decades can be wasted because of that. So, when you realize a boy or man loves you, take it seriously and don't be fickle.
Yes of course they can! Guys are just as human as girls and just as capable of feeling emotions and love, they just tend to have different ways of expressing their love compared to girls. Girls are more feelings oriented (not to say that guys are not, but girls tend more towards their feelings) and guys are more action oriented in showing their love in ways other than words and feelings.
Of course guys can fall in love. If your listed age bracket is correct you are way too young to be THIS bitter.
Of course guys can fall in love, it just doesn't happen very often when we're young. And if we do fall when we're young chances are it's going to end badly for us and then it doesn't happen again for a long time, for some longer than others.
Yes men fall in love. I can speak from experience. Now, do men ever stop lusting? No. It's how we are hotwired. Now that doesn't mean you have to act on it. But men are always going to be attracted to a beautiful woman. And there's nothing wrong with a woman being attracted to a good looking man either. But yes, men really do fall in love.
I think this was the best answer I read here.
what are you talking about woman! Of course men could fall in love! Only those heartless assholes that only care about sex fame and money, can NEVER fall in love! what kind of heartless woman are you for not thinking that men could fall in love? THOU SHAME YOURSELF I SAY!!! D:<
Lol, no offense. :)
for myself chances are greater to fall from the Eiffel Tower than to fall in love LOL
Why are you so negative about it?
@Account because i don't want to. i want to protect my single life XD
Ugh. No, we're all unfeeling asshole who only want pussy. >:-(
XD this.
No, men just get upset and some kill themselves over women breaking up with them for the hell of it.
(note sarcasm)
What kind of a question is this?
It's so weird to see that guys think we can't since I thought the stereotype for women is that they're needy and fall too fast and all that crap!
Well sure they do. Until something better, sexier, younger or just different catches their eye... usually about 3 to 6 months in, just in time for the girl to relax and feel confident in his feelings for her.
Sound bitter.. guy troubles?
This question should be deleted. It implies gross misandry, and beyond that, it's inanely stupid.