Should I be upset my boyfriend deleted his facebook when we started dating?

[Anonymous]

We've been together five months now and he still hasn't brought his account back. Before he deleted his account he always posted stuff about his girlfriends. So now when I consider posting anything about us I just don't because he doesn't either. I feel like he doesn't want to talk about us with anyone.

We're in a long distance relationship and he wants to move in together. But I don't really feel important to him because he still had past relationships under Life Events but ours wasn't there. I know this because he reactivated for one day and I saw this. I asked him why his profile looked like that, so he changed it. Then deleted it again.

How would this make you feel? Am I being dumb? I haven't said anything about it yet but I want to.

[Anonymous]

FB is not as important if you dont have this in a LDR.
How often do you two see ea. other?

I am in one... or an unusual one.
He gave me a lot of uncertainty. I got to know him. We are still working out of the/his past.

The important thing... we see ea. other every 2-3 weeks 700 miles apart.
And I will be there for 3-4 weeks next month.
We also go on vacation a lot.

So you have to see other things that show his honesty and love and how he connects with you. FB itself is really nothing if you dont have other basies in trust and common goals

[Cmasterson]

No, lol. I dont have facebook i deleted it. Dont think too much into it, its social media it's NOT real life.

[ZanyInternetName]

I think that, to use your words, you're being dumb. Have you ever asked him why he deleted it? Could it maybe be any other reason than "he doesn't want to talk about us"? Because if that was the reason he could, you know, not talk about you. Why does it have to be about you? Can't it just be a darn coincidence?

[madgoat]

Personally, I would not care about some website and don't understand why you do.
I assume its because this is a long distance relationship.

[kaskas19]

Social media isn't that big of a deal.

[Anonymous]

No, it's fine.