Have you ever rejected someone who is too good for you?

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EpicDweeb · Accepted Answer

I don't consider anyone "too good" for me. If they choose me then I accept that and will love them to the best of my ability. Now are there instances in which I think a partner may deserve better than me? Yes. But that's not because I think they're too good for me, rather we aren't good for each other. Some people who genuinely love each other simply don't have compatible personalities or life goals. If you love someone but you find that an intimate relationship does more harm than good for the two of you then I think the loving thing is to break up as peacefully as possible, recognizing that it's harmful to the two of you. It's not a matter of simply not loving enough. I don't think there's such thing as being "too good" for someone. There's only "being good for someone" or "being bad for someone." I suppose there may be a grey area in which both parties have an okay relationship with each other but it never serves to build the other person up. At that point I think it's a choice to stay or leave but I generally think we ought to strive to have relationships in which both parties make the other person better.

1CentWorth · Accepted Answer

There were those I got with and soon after realized that I would be the worst thing in their lives. I didn't even feel sorry for myself - like I knew that I could keep them but I knew they were really destined for someone else more fitting.

Xoxocutekitty · Accepted Answer

Yes. Because he wanted something honest and slow and I was young and wanted attention is going to clubs, dancing, flirt with new hot people. I broke it off pretty early and we didn't talk for a while, but I never treated him badly and we've remained friends that hang out platonically here and there as we have similar hobbies. he knows that I'm not ready to settle and he knows I'd be a mess to get involved with so that's why can be friends.

pookybear123 · Accepted Answer

I’m not a stunning natural beauty so if I saw some guy who looked like should be on the cover of men’s health mag I wouldn’t even bother looking his way so never been rejected - i aim within my range and have never rejected someone. I consider myself an all round good person so I am more likely to reject them for something I didn’t like.

PrincessPie · Answer

Not in my opinion, but that is subjective i guess.

Logorithim · Answer

No way would I do that. I'd pursue her instead.

Dannygingerich · Answer

Actually yes. One of my girl friends is probably a 10/10 in hotness and 9/10 in crazy fun attitude. On my side I got a gypsy soul and would never be able to stay around too long for anyone no matter what it seems. I can't connect with most people according to my mom evertime she gently closes the door when I knock since I was 16. So now I try to read and watch movies on how to be a OK person

jdrrichmond · Answer

I'm an optimist. If given the opportunity, I always think I can make it work. I've been very wrong about that. If it's just physical, that she is too hot for me, I still want to give it a shot. It probably won't last, but it's fun while it does. I was with a girl who had a beautiful face and "perfect" body once in my early 20s. It lasted much longer than it should have. She knew she could manipulate me easily and get what she wanted. She was often cruel. I've learned bettet, since.

vishna · Answer

I think I have self destructive tendencies. So, yes, I think a large reason for why I pushed away my ex boyfriend so much was because everything felt so healthy and right. I think I should work on myself more to better control my bad impulses.

t-rex-vstu · Answer

If you think they're worth more than you can provide, take that as a challenge, provide what you can (within reason) and if its not enough, its not enough.

"You miss every shot you don't take"-Michael Jordan I think

Ellaki · Answer

Lmao no-one is too good for you. You are amazing and you deserve everything in life. If someone shows interest in you or asks you out he/she probably thinks you're good enough. You have to be confident, in fact, YOU are too good for them

GAGPollspollsSurveys · Answer

No. No guy is ever too perfect. No girl can ever be too perfect.
That is why they approach you in the first place. They were probably looking for something that they were missing which happens to be the person who 'isn't good enough' in other peoples eyes..

Caaarl · Answer

You would have to be emotionally damage to turn down someone who has too many good qualities. No I would never turn someone down that would make me feel lucky to have unless being with them made me miserable.

silvermoon84 · Answer

Nope. I've rejected men because I wasn't that into them. They simply didn't appeal to me for whatever reason. Being "good enough" had nothing to do with it.

Mmmaybe · Answer

Once, a lonnnng time ago.  When I think of it now I was just scared and insecure at the time. Even though, we wouldn't try again. We left on good terms. I still think about him though.

zaza111 · Answer

There is o such thing like "too good" if you think somebody is too good for you there is something wrong with you, with your self esteem...

shinensta · Answer

No, never. I've rejected really great guys because I wasn't attracted to them. But if I wanted them there would be no reason to reject them.

dannyboy1999 · Answer

I'd say someone is too good for me because I can be really annoying and sometimes harsh by accident so I wouldn't want to bring them down

Lance1965 · Answer

Yeah. I am usually pretty good at seeing when a realtionship is bound to fail so I quit while I still have my dignity intact. Trying to hold on to someone that is obviously way out of your league is usually a waste of time.

depeche2015 · Answer

i think everyone is too good for me. i have a lot insecurity issues.

Atlana · Answer

I've been rejected because I was too good for him. At that time I didn't believe it. But I can see his point now. He's really fucked up person sooo...

szewczykkit · Answer

I got rejected for being "too perfect" it still confuses me to this day. 🤔

melanieeeB · Answer

I haven't, but two guys actually did that to me.. no idea what the hell that means haha

FamousAF · Answer

Yeah, but only 'cause I expected them to reject me after they got to know me better anyway.

LittleRedKat · Answer

I've never met anyone I thought was too good for me

Prof_Don · Answer

Never! Only emotionally broken people do stupid shit like that.

brandito1st · Answer

See, she was way better to me than my girlfriend at the time. So i count it as that. Then, I found out she's a slutty asshole so I doged a bullet there

TomatoeUnicorn · Answer

You are taking the wrong sort of attitude here - never, ever tell yourself that someone is too good for you. If someone loves you, they clearly deem you good enough for them.

Tylisa1 · Answer

I was taught self worth. Never degrade myself as feeling I'm not being as good as someone else

IsoUser · Answer

If that belief were ever true, No man would ever meet the girl he was worthy of, you girls bring out the very best inside Us

muddaasian · Answer

Considering that I have always been the one turned down

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

No, no girl that looks like "that" has ever approached me. 😞

Philyouup · Answer

NOBODY is to good for me.. they might not be good enough for me, but certainly not too good...

Yatagurusu · Answer

Ngl if someone did that to me- unlikely as it is, id end myself 😂😂😂

McKellar · Answer

I had an ex-fiancee who was too good for me,... then she broke up with me.

kill_me_with_witt · Answer

I dont think I've ever said no to someone who asked me out.

19Luke94 · Answer

Nope and I wouldn't (if we talk about personality).

anibal000 · Answer

Honestly just to know when your with that women and knowing u doing more damge being with her then with out her is when u have to reject them

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. A popular kid in my old skl liked me but I rejected him cuz I hardly know him and I hate his personality which is arrogant

Pistachio0690 · Answer

I haven't, but women do that all the time, because they only care about what a guy looks like

Withyourbootson · Answer

I simply felt that I could not provide them with as grand a life as I felt they deserved.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never rejected anyone. I've also never had a date.

Desconhecida · Answer

Yeah Turns out he wasn't

cherryphi82 · Answer

No, only drifted apart.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, because I felt like they just feel bad for me and that I won't satisfy them

Ellie-V · Answer

I don’t believe in someone being “too good for me”

Bellamina08 · Answer

Never; would meet one first 😂

Anonymous · Answer

If he chose me, I'd be the best of me for him.

mel1695 · Answer

I was rejected once for being too good for him.

legendary_gladiator · Answer

Never been approached! 😂 😂 😂

Anonymous · Answer

I don't mess with people that are good, so no

edgyfox · Answer

Only due to distance.

TheSikuu · Answer

Only on tinder if the account looks like a fake

imlegend · Answer

Yes, it's all because of my ego.

greeneggo · Answer

I run away before they can even talk to me

Butchiew56 · Answer

Thought she was from a better background.

nik1123 · Answer

Things were been taken for granted

CypriotSicilian92 · Answer

Yes cause I was walking all over her.

zigora3 · Answer

If they want me then they're not too good for me.

serious · Answer

The answer is NO.

drider190 · Answer

Yes and she turned out to be crazy

ovoxo_ · Answer

No. Why would I do that?

Akki1999 · Answer

Doesn't found anyone who is too good for me

deep199510 · Answer

Because perfect for u

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