We all know the bs excuse "you're too good for me." or "I don't deserve you."
Today I found myself making that excuse, but I also found myself reflecting on how I'm really feeling. To be honest, I really did feel insecure and unworthy in a way, but I thought about if I'd really refuse if I found someone who is the complete package, and I don't think I would.
I realized I def did not think this person was good for me either because of multiple factors so even though I wasn't feeling super confident, I felt this person didn't have a personality that I saw myself with long term. So this just got me thinking, have any of you actually genuinely refused someone who you thought was such a great and attractive person with no major flaws because you just thought you weren't good enough? I feel like this has to be very rare but maybe I'm wrong.
If you did refuse, please tell me what happened afterwards and how you feel about it.
