Would you refuse to date someone because they are way out of your league looks wise?

[Mädchen]

I know some people are going to say "leagues don't exist" but we all know it's pretty unlikely that someone who Looks Like Adriana Lima would date this Guy below

No, I'd Date them even If they Look much better

I would Date them but I'd feel insecure

I wouldn't Date them cause I'd be to insecure/ I prefer to be at least Just as good looking

Other?

[ChgzDaniel]

My family considers me way out of my boyfriend's league. They never miss an opportunity to tell me I can do better. I don't think it's any of their business though. Yeah sure I don't think he's the most attractive person I've ever met but I feel comfortable thinking he has less chance of finding someone better. He would do anything for me, and I love him more than anyone I've ever met. Looks don't matter at all to me, it's all about how well you get on and enjoy each others company.
In reverse, hypothetically in a world where I'm not taken... I would consider dating someone better looking than me, but in all of my past experiences they are always the one to end the relationship because they feel like they can do better. Because of this, I would only date people if I'm their best friend.

[SydneySentinel]

In the distant past-- I've dated "down" in terms of looks because I thought he wouldn't look at other women when he was with me. Turns out, their level of attractiveness doesn't change their own values in how they treat others.
I don't intentionally seek out someone who is significantly more attractive to me but if we happened to click and have the right alignment for a relationship, I'd go for it.

[Friendlyexperienced]

I chose other because in my adult life I always wanted to date pretty women, but mostly dated women that just said yes. This was due to many things, from starting with dating the women that said yes, being treated badly though I was nice guy, with having disability and several women saying or looking at me in way I thought degrading. So yes, I had mostly felt like I wouldn't date woman very attractive because I was insecure. In recent years I've taken some life courses and started believing in myself and when people told me I was attractive too.

[Ronald_25]

Nah, doesn't matter how hot she is, or her position in the world, I care about what she has to say. And if it's a load of crap, and there is not much upstairs, then I'm rejecting you, don't care if you look like a model. (FYI Guys&Girls models don't take rejection well 🤔, I must damage their self body image)

But even if she is average, if your into her then fuck her bloody, and when I say bloody, I mean during her period. Alleviate them cramps and take one for the team.

[Ronald_25]

Ty for the MHO love.

[ManOnFire]

If she likes me back and wants to date me then yeah, I will date her. This is kind of a stupid question because most people aren't going to "refuse" to date someone who is better looking than them as long as that other person likes you back.

[Mädchen]

I was Just wondering cause I have this one friend who is absolutely insecure. She's only Dating Guys who are definetly less good looking than her. Cause she thinks it's less likely to be left this way. Just wanted to see how Common that is.

[rjroy3]

I actually knew a girl who did just that, because she had pretty bad anxiety. She consciously chose guys she felt were less attractive than her physically purely because she felt as if those guys would never cheat on her, because to her they couldn't do better than her. While she stayed away from guys she was actually very attracted to out of fear they would just end up cheating on her.

[ManOnFire]

@rjroy3 @Mädchen That is pretty sad and it still even says a lot about her own viewpoint of herself. Believing she is that attractive to her own detriment, which is kind of sideways-arrogant. It's also underhandedly disrespectful to guys who aren't as attractive because it's kind of like you're taking advantage of them out of a preconception that their lesser-ness will be beneficial to you.

[rjroy3]

Oh yea, I don't validate what she did in the least lol. I remember when she told me as well my first words were, "that doesn't sound healthy for either of you" xD. I saw it less as disrespectful towards the guy, purely because she treated him well. Spoke well of him and so on. She actually did respect her man as a person. When she stated she goes after guys she sees as less attractive than she is she said it more as a matter of fact of what she does, rather than specifically talking about him. If that makes sense.

She cared for the guy, just from a superficial standard saw him as less high than she was. Which is actually very very common today. I think on some level a lot of people actually see things that way and it's just bad to say it outloud. But that's more a matter of your worldview. Like to me. I don't rank my attractiveness against a girls attractiveness. I don't even register that as a thing in my worldview. Comparing how hot I am vs her. They're separate things in my mind.

Her worldview is that they are interlinked. Definitely an arrogant thought that her guy would never leave her or cheat tho, purely on that basis. Like if that's merely a belief she has that isn't disrespectful. Just arrogant.

[ManOnFire]

@rjroy3 Right, exaxtly. I don't do that either, trying to compare my looks to a woman. That is just weird for me as a guy.

[jennifer_bloom]

I used to have an insanely attractive guy interested in me - I played hard to get cause I was scared of being used and dumped.

[Pinay_ako]

I will not refuse to date if I have feelings for him... My love is stronger.

[Darknut]

An honest woman here folks.

[Summeroflove]

No. If a woman out of my league chooses me. It means she wants me…. Because she can have someone else if she wanted. So…. Honestly it means a lot

[rjroy3]

I'm arrogant enough to feel as if no girl is out of my league looks wise. Not that I don't think there are girls who are more attractive than I, just that I don't believe they're out of my league. Lebron James plays in the same league as Russell Westbrook, yet most NBA fans acknowledge Lebron is far better.

But yes I would absolutely date a girl more physically appealing than I : D

[EmbraceThePain]

No, I would not because I believe leagues are more holistic rather than just focused on looks. If a woman looks to appear out of my league, then I can counter balance or compensate for that by having some high status, high influence, amazing personality, etc. There’s many things that I can add onto the scale to balance the fact that I’m dating someone out of my league looks-wise.

[Pamina]

That's a strange question. Does "out of my league" mean that I don't find them attractive? Then duh, of course I'm not gonna date them, why would I? Or does it mean that I do find them attractive but that I think most people will think I'm much more attractive than him? I don't get it.

[J_Klayton]

I turned down a woman online that was way too hot for me.
Those relationships are doomed.
She was probably a catfish anyway.
That guy in the picture needs a haircut, shave, contact lenses, a tan, new clothes and some weight training.
He could get to a different league if he was so inclined.

[Anonymous]

LMFAO Women believe that it's their divine right to date somebody way out of their league... also, I noticed you only mocked an unfortunate man here. no comment on the hordes of 200+ pound ugly women who demand movie star looks to date a guy?

A woman would stomp her baby to death to get a super hot guy... actually not would but has!

I love reading the responses from women who look to spin themselves as heroines for being shallow trash

[Anonymous]

İts just a propaganda to make people to think that women date with ugly guys. This is not true. İts just a myth. İn the street 99,99999% of the girls date and walk with handsome or middle men. But not with ugly, thin men. Cuz women are so selfish and narsist. And also very heartless.

I know a lot of men in the internet, social media and in real life complain about women that they only choose handsome and good looking men. So where does this come from?

Maybe your example is 1 in a million. But I don't believe even this. You can make propaganda. But realities in the street and we see them every day.

[_SOARER_]

Have you seen the ugly as shit guys some of these female celebs date?
Money, power, and clout

I wouldn't refuse someone who was below my league, but I need to find them attractive. I am out of my current love interest's league. She knows I am better looking, and she is a little insecure about it, but when I wrap my arms around her, we both feel so right

[Anonymous]

Above or below? I wouldn’t date someone more attractive than me because they’ll get attention from better guys and probably cheat on me, I’m not going to be their “you’ll do until
Someone better comes along”

And I wouldn’t date anyone I find unattractive, we like what we like,

[joethemoe912]

People like what they like. Im an average looking guy, well if I lost more weight and get back in tone Id probably be a strong 8 to a good amount of girls. If she wants to date then fuck it, why not? This is coming from someone with anxiety, I wouldn't feel insecure about it.

[LeoElias]

I feel good about myself and we'd be equals if we dated. If she acted like she thought she was better than me and doing me a favor by dating me, then I would do some mental manipulation and destroy her self-esteem while making her completely dependent on me. I would use her for sex until I got tired and then I would leave.

[hahahmm]

How is it a problem if I don’t want to get with someone I find unattractive?

I don’t think of it as leagues. I just have my standards. I cut way more slack to a woman I’ve been with but still there’s limits!

[Anonymous]

Really dating? No, it wouldn't work in the end. But just sex? I think a lot of people do. Especially men don't shy away from pounding out a girl that is not totally their thing. They just don't text them back the day after. But I also know girls who went a step down for certain reasons. One of my female friends gave a couple guys a blowjob for their bday and they weren't half as hot as her. Lucky them.

[thewilddude420]

Ain't nothing wrong with a little arm candy lol. But just cause someone looks better in certain eyes is bull. Most people these days are so full of themselves and to damn vane. Its what's on the inside that matters not the outside. I gather most would rather have a car that looked good but didn't run or drive... me I'd rather have the beat up clunker that would out run most cruisers. Which is what I do drive lol.

[WalterRadio]

Looks wise, I have. I have dated professional models, a finalist in a national beauty pageant, and an actress (a girlfriend for a while).

Attraction and league is more than just looks. Being rich and classy makes up for looking nerdy.

[JC451]

Nope. I've been with women way way way hotter than me. More than once. And that's because leagues don't exist. Sure Im not the hottest, but I'm a pretty phenomenal person and there are women who appreciate that.

[DorkVader]

Leagues only exist to people who value beauty over substance. So if Fugly Jr gets a bug up his butt and asks out Pretty Lima, he stands the same 50/50 shot as anyone else, regardless. Ask me how Barney Rubble got with Betty. He took a chance.

[Cocacolaaddict]

Oh fuck me your names are killing mr

[Cocacolaaddict]

Spelt me*

[DorkVader]

😘😘😘😘

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I've done it before, people who were way less attractive than me and people who were way more attractive than me. People are people and even though it's easier said than done, it's important to see them that way

[Saarr]

Hmm, I compare myself to others way too much😅 I absolutely wouldn't refuse someone if I really liked them, but I would probably wonder what it was in me that they like, what is special about me... Wouldn't be great for my confidence I guess 😂

[CubsterShura]

I don't get this league thing in terms of looks. If he looks good enough to me I won't care of he is more or less attractive than me.

[Anonymous]

I don't think you can go by looks only when considering "leagues". Let's say I'm dating a girl who's much more attractive than me but I'm more educated, have a higher iq, make more money, then I'd say we're pretty evenly matched.
I wouldn't be intimidated by a girl that's a lot less accomplished than me regardless of how much better she looks.

[Mädchen]

You're right but in this Case I'm talking about Looks only

[Neptunsheart]

The guy seems to hair dresser, the broken razor and his grandfathers glasses. So it's more a question of taste. I won't date a scruffy girl nor a painted doll. But as I sayed: It's taste, not kind of a constructed league.

[Kurαȷ]

I'm not that ugly, but I'm hella narcissistic.
If Adriana Lima wants to date a potato, well, that just sounds like a loss for her and a win for me.

[Reaperbot666]

I would not turn someone down. Who may or may not be out of my league looks wise. Unless the have a really bad personality. If your a jerk or a bit**. Then I would rather not deal with you in my life.

[chickenneck75]

I would and have I was a dirty old biker she was a chemist and worked in the lab I had too much fun with her and I have with any woman I've ever been with is the hardest breakup I've had so far

[BestUserName100]

You make it seem like they ugly one would just automatically want to date them. Why? Why would they waste their time on them. You are so arrogant.

[Avicenna]

I might. Looks aren't that important to me. She would have to be really ugly for me to turn her down due to her looks.

[truthbeknown]

Why are people shamed and guilt tripped into dating someone they aren't attracted to just to make society happy?

[LiamJHayden]

You all can subscribe to leagues if you want. I will still approach, and on occasion get a date with a lady that you all would call "out-of-my-league" because I do not care what you think.

[leftygriffy]

It's all about chemistry lol if a hot girl gave me shot and treated me like shit I'd be out the door before you can say "who let the dogs out" fuck being a doormat!!! And the other way too if she was ugly but cool then fuck it lol

[MissDawn7961]

if he asks me out and he answers my questions right , then I will date him

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Everyone wants to punch above their weight and win. It's just people are afraid of getting blindsided by a haymaker and knocked the fuck out.

[Franka9]

I would, because I don't think I'm a handsome guy, but maybe that woman thinks so. If her character is good, why not?

When I see myself, I don't see a handsome guy, but strangely enough I often get attention from good looking women.

[morimeme1]

I would date them but feel insecure. Yet I know that they would motivate me to try to look my best.

[Inv8derChris]

I don't judge people based on looks. I judge people based on how they behave and treat people. To me that's the most important thing.

[TacosRAwesome]

Nah I've done my charity good deed shit and got fucked over, if I'm single and get the chance of some sexiness, I'll be all over that shit.

[UncleBumbleF_K]

Someone being out of your league doesn't mean they always have to look good.

She could be kind while me being an arsehole. Then I would not date her.

[constantine15]

I would reject a pretty girl.

Don't want her realizing she could do way better than me and the cheating/leaving me.

I'd also assume she was playing a joke on me if she asked me out.

[frostwalrus]

I would never date a woman I didn't think was hideous.

[bimmy5000]

Dont think I could. I'd be questioning everyday why she is with me.

[UglyestGuyEver]

well im fuckin ugly and a hot girl has shown signs of intrest in me... so what does that tell u?

some people jus need glasses

[elaphe]

I think the idea of "leagues" is made up. It's not about how "hot" one is, but rather if two people have a mutual attraction, physically and emotionally.

[MelnTx]

Absolutely. I’d rather see them with someone equally attractive as they are.

[yeeeeeeeet]

Only if I have a reason to. Im not in the business of feeding other peoples' egos.

[crazy8000]

If someone believes in that with grading people exterior features they are already the lowest on that scale

[broncobryan]

here's my opinion, women that are waaay out of my league tend to be high maintenance and stuck up. So therefore I dont even bother.

[jasco]

i love to go after someone whose pretty idc if that girl is pretty i get to show her off and be like yea i made suckers haha i be happy

[motownplayer2000]

Nope. If they think I'm out of there league that's fine. It's still a privilege for them to get to know me. Either way I look at it.

[COMMODOREII]

Not sure what her tastes are after all that could be her husband. Lol beauty is in the eye of the beholder it's not a set thing.

[smølf]

Well out of my league looks wise is what I always goes for :)

[TiffanySpooky]

I would feel a little insecure but if they are trustworthy why not

[Guanfei]

Nope, if I like her and she likes me, that's enough. I just won't understand how she could be interested in me, but I can live with it.

[-Asca-]

What's wrong with this guy? Get him a haircut and he'll look fine. And models usually don't look as good as in spots and photos either.

[scooogy]

It actually seems like these "looks" stem from decisions made in styling yourself with hair, makeup and fashion.

[Liam_Hayden]

Leagues exist in the minds of people who limit themselves accordingly. I don't.

[Ladsin2]

A I guess. I'll take the most attractive woman I can get XD

[Guardian45]

Who is that guy and why have you posted his face here? Do you have his permission?