My family considers me way out of my boyfriend's league. They never miss an opportunity to tell me I can do better. I don't think it's any of their business though. Yeah sure I don't think he's the most attractive person I've ever met but I feel comfortable thinking he has less chance of finding someone better. He would do anything for me, and I love him more than anyone I've ever met. Looks don't matter at all to me, it's all about how well you get on and enjoy each others company.
In reverse, hypothetically in a world where I'm not taken... I would consider dating someone better looking than me, but in all of my past experiences they are always the one to end the relationship because they feel like they can do better. Because of this, I would only date people if I'm their best friend.
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In the distant past-- I've dated "down" in terms of looks because I thought he wouldn't look at other women when he was with me. Turns out, their level of attractiveness doesn't change their own values in how they treat others.
I don't intentionally seek out someone who is significantly more attractive to me but if we happened to click and have the right alignment for a relationship, I'd go for it.
I chose other because in my adult life I always wanted to date pretty women, but mostly dated women that just said yes. This was due to many things, from starting with dating the women that said yes, being treated badly though I was nice guy, with having disability and several women saying or looking at me in way I thought degrading. So yes, I had mostly felt like I wouldn't date woman very attractive because I was insecure. In recent years I've taken some life courses and started believing in myself and when people told me I was attractive too.
Nah, doesn't matter how hot she is, or her position in the world, I care about what she has to say. And if it's a load of crap, and there is not much upstairs, then I'm rejecting you, don't care if you look like a model. (FYI Guys&Girls models don't take rejection well 🤔, I must damage their self body image)
But even if she is average, if your into her then fuck her bloody, and when I say bloody, I mean during her period. Alleviate them cramps and take one for the team.
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If she likes me back and wants to date me then yeah, I will date her. This is kind of a stupid question because most people aren't going to "refuse" to date someone who is better looking than them as long as that other person likes you back.
I used to have an insanely attractive guy interested in me - I played hard to get cause I was scared of being used and dumped.
I will not refuse to date if I have feelings for him... My love is stronger.
No. If a woman out of my league chooses me. It means she wants me…. Because she can have someone else if she wanted. So…. Honestly it means a lot
I'm arrogant enough to feel as if no girl is out of my league looks wise. Not that I don't think there are girls who are more attractive than I, just that I don't believe they're out of my league. Lebron James plays in the same league as Russell Westbrook, yet most NBA fans acknowledge Lebron is far better.
But yes I would absolutely date a girl more physically appealing than I : DNo, I would not because I believe leagues are more holistic rather than just focused on looks. If a woman looks to appear out of my league, then I can counter balance or compensate for that by having some high status, high influence, amazing personality, etc. There’s many things that I can add onto the scale to balance the fact that I’m dating someone out of my league looks-wise.
That's a strange question. Does "out of my league" mean that I don't find them attractive? Then duh, of course I'm not gonna date them, why would I? Or does it mean that I do find them attractive but that I think most people will think I'm much more attractive than him? I don't get it.
LMFAO Women believe that it's their divine right to date somebody way out of their league... also, I noticed you only mocked an unfortunate man here. no comment on the hordes of 200+ pound ugly women who demand movie star looks to date a guy?
A woman would stomp her baby to death to get a super hot guy... actually not would but has!
I love reading the responses from women who look to spin themselves as heroines for being shallow trashİts just a propaganda to make people to think that women date with ugly guys. This is not true. İts just a myth. İn the street 99,99999% of the girls date and walk with handsome or middle men. But not with ugly, thin men. Cuz women are so selfish and narsist. And also very heartless.
I know a lot of men in the internet, social media and in real life complain about women that they only choose handsome and good looking men. So where does this come from?
Maybe your example is 1 in a million. But I don't believe even this. You can make propaganda. But realities in the street and we see them every day.Have you seen the ugly as shit guys some of these female celebs date?
Money, power, and clout
I wouldn't refuse someone who was below my league, but I need to find them attractive. I am out of my current love interest's league. She knows I am better looking, and she is a little insecure about it, but when I wrap my arms around her, we both feel so rightI turned down a woman online that was way too hot for me.
Those relationships are doomed.
She was probably a catfish anyway.
That guy in the picture needs a haircut, shave, contact lenses, a tan, new clothes and some weight training.
He could get to a different league if he was so inclined.Above or below? I wouldn’t date someone more attractive than me because they’ll get attention from better guys and probably cheat on me, I’m not going to be their “you’ll do until
Someone better comes along”
And I wouldn’t date anyone I find unattractive, we like what we like,People like what they like. Im an average looking guy, well if I lost more weight and get back in tone Id probably be a strong 8 to a good amount of girls. If she wants to date then fuck it, why not? This is coming from someone with anxiety, I wouldn't feel insecure about it.
I feel good about myself and we'd be equals if we dated. If she acted like she thought she was better than me and doing me a favor by dating me, then I would do some mental manipulation and destroy her self-esteem while making her completely dependent on me. I would use her for sex until I got tired and then I would leave.
How is it a problem if I don’t want to get with someone I find unattractive?
I don’t think of it as leagues. I just have my standards. I cut way more slack to a woman I’ve been with but still there’s limits!Really dating? No, it wouldn't work in the end. But just sex? I think a lot of people do. Especially men don't shy away from pounding out a girl that is not totally their thing. They just don't text them back the day after. But I also know girls who went a step down for certain reasons. One of my female friends gave a couple guys a blowjob for their bday and they weren't half as hot as her. Lucky them.
Ain't nothing wrong with a little arm candy lol. But just cause someone looks better in certain eyes is bull. Most people these days are so full of themselves and to damn vane. Its what's on the inside that matters not the outside. I gather most would rather have a car that looked good but didn't run or drive... me I'd rather have the beat up clunker that would out run most cruisers. Which is what I do drive lol.
Looks wise, I have. I have dated professional models, a finalist in a national beauty pageant, and an actress (a girlfriend for a while).
Attraction and league is more than just looks. Being rich and classy makes up for looking nerdy.Nope. I've been with women way way way hotter than me. More than once. And that's because leagues don't exist. Sure Im not the hottest, but I'm a pretty phenomenal person and there are women who appreciate that.
Leagues only exist to people who value beauty over substance. So if Fugly Jr gets a bug up his butt and asks out Pretty Lima, he stands the same 50/50 shot as anyone else, regardless. Ask me how Barney Rubble got with Betty. He took a chance.
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