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I was Just wondering cause I have this one friend who is absolutely insecure. She's only Dating Guys who are definetly less good looking than her. Cause she thinks it's less likely to be left this way. Just wanted to see how Common that is.
I actually knew a girl who did just that, because she had pretty bad anxiety. She consciously chose guys she felt were less attractive than her physically purely because she felt as if those guys would never cheat on her, because to her they couldn't do better than her. While she stayed away from guys she was actually very attracted to out of fear they would just end up cheating on her.
@rjroy3 @Mädchen That is pretty sad and it still even says a lot about her own viewpoint of herself. Believing she is that attractive to her own detriment, which is kind of sideways-arrogant. It's also underhandedly disrespectful to guys who aren't as attractive because it's kind of like you're taking advantage of them out of a preconception that their lesser-ness will be beneficial to you.
Oh yea, I don't validate what she did in the least lol. I remember when she told me as well my first words were, "that doesn't sound healthy for either of you" xD. I saw it less as disrespectful towards the guy, purely because she treated him well. Spoke well of him and so on. She actually did respect her man as a person. When she stated she goes after guys she sees as less attractive than she is she said it more as a matter of fact of what she does, rather than specifically talking about him. If that makes sense.She cared for the guy, just from a superficial standard saw him as less high than she was. Which is actually very very common today. I think on some level a lot of people actually see things that way and it's just bad to say it outloud. But that's more a matter of your worldview. Like to me. I don't rank my attractiveness against a girls attractiveness. I don't even register that as a thing in my worldview. Comparing how hot I am vs her. They're separate things in my mind.Her worldview is that they are interlinked. Definitely an arrogant thought that her guy would never leave her or cheat tho, purely on that basis. Like if that's merely a belief she has that isn't disrespectful. Just arrogant.
@rjroy3 Right, exaxtly. I don't do that either, trying to compare my looks to a woman. That is just weird for me as a guy.
An honest woman here folks.
Oh fuck me your names are killing mr
You're right but in this Case I'm talking about Looks only