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The hottest girl I ever met in my entire life approached me in the weight room in college. I of course noticed her earlier but didn’t think I had a shot. But she was the one who said hello to me first.
Long story short she did the worst thing possible. She gave me some hope > I got obsessively mentally excited and nervous > I kissed her ass and worse my emotions of my sleeve > she got scared but liked the attention > she friendzoned me (didn’t understand the friéndzone back then, I thought I still had a chance) > she met her future husband and father of her children right in front of me in a fitness trainer program.
It turned into one giant nightmare. I know she was trash talking me behind my back later but always two faced in public. The farthest I got was a full kiss once. But at the same time when I ignored her she would always try reaching out to me.
Anyway I wanted to shock the world (and myself) and show I could pull this off. But in reality even if my game was better I would of still gotten burned. She was rumored to be a cheater. I didn’t believe back then but I do know.
I couldn't because, at least based on my experiences, every woman is out of my league. I'm at the point of realizing I'm just going to be alone forever.
I think you’re being too hard on yourself.
You may find the right one if you date someone if the opposite.. (what you wouldn’t normally go for)
Don't worry, more people than you think feel that way at some point. When you find the right person it will work out!
I've been tempted. I’ll never forget Superman Rob in college. I call him that because he was gorgeous and built like a superman. Straight 9/10. I didn't think he’d ever give 7/10 me (at the time) a chance. We went the whole first year of college passing eachother with occasional eyecontact. But he walked with his head held high and nose turned up. So i assumed he was uppity. However my 2nd year of college, we were sitting in the lobby together waiting for class. Omg one of the best days ever. We got to know eachother and laughed all day. We’d continue to meet up at that spot and he’d sit under me with his arm around me. But i knew it would probably be nothing more than flirting. He stated his type was girly girls and i know i was straight tomboyish
I dated a good looking guy and it was fine initially until he started bringing me down, he criticised everything about me.
Im a good looking woman, attractive.
But for some reason he despised when other men looked at me.
So it's not that I couldn't date one needs to be confident and comfortable in his own to be with me.
Thank you for mho x
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That depends honestly. That's like saying all attractive people are the same. My question would be if she's the attention seeker type, or if she's more humble. If she is serious in dating, or super casual. If she has cheated in the past. What are her morals like? You see, at some point you need to learn to be OK with the fact she will get approached by other men when you're not around because she's attractive. It's her job to turn those men down. If she doesn't do that my friend, then you know you have dodged a bullet by not marrying her. If she does, then she's a keeper. Simple. The dynamic isn't the same as when the guy is attractive, because a) women are defined in the dating market by their looks/men are defined by what they can bring to the table and b) women rarely ever approach men. It will be more subtle things like looks from other girls, and flirty signs. Now ladies, if he's a real one he won't entertain those. If not, then once again you dodged a bullet. It's not just as simple as to whether or not someone is out of your league, you need to know them. I would vet a chick that's attractive just like the next girl, and she needs to answer all questions before we start dating. No special treatment. You should do the same.
I have a really hard time with it.
I'm now dating someone who in my eyes is a 100/10 and I see myself as a 6/10 and I have such a hard time accepting and understanding that he wants me.
In the back of my mind I always think he is just using me but he showed me to his parents and everything so he probably isn't?
He makes me feel very insecure in a way, not because the way he treats me but just because I feel like I'm not good enough for him and that he could get someone who is better looking.
But we'll see where this goes. I do really like him.
You’re gonna have to get rid of that insecurity of him being too hot real soon otherwise you’re gonna be a drag. Everything isn’t about looks yk
If they were out of my league looks wise then I could not date them due to they not being interested being in a relationship with me. I have talked and ask for guys numbers who were out of my league look wise. They all ended up trying to get in my pants. I am waiting for Chris Evans to sweep me under my feet and marry me. Its funny you posted a pic of him.
Looks have nothing to do with it... Apparently I'm hot according to some girls... yet no girls want to date me for some reason... Either I'm. socially retardrd or don't know how to talk to girls... I ask these same girls out and they all say no... Even ugly old woman reject me... it's very sad but when it comes to looks there is no league... It's all about personality... And apparently I'm at the bottom league when it comes to that 😭
So no... I have to have a good personality to date any girls... And I dont
There are no leagues.
It's an idea people create in their minds to justify not trying. There are plenty of people that are dating that would seem to be unevenly balanced in terms of looks.
Ie. There are more to dating than what appeals to the eye.
Yes there is, and plenty if not most women are out of yours.
Leagues are such as, if you choose to confer to it then you choose to give no chance to some based on superfucial ideas of people you don't know.
I'd rather be open about everyone and judge my chances based on each person after I've met them.
When you judge who is or isn't in your League, what do you base your decusion on?
Yes! It’s the mind, manners and the confidence that matters in the long run!
Confidence is numero uno because lack of that can lead to low self esteem in your partner resulting into a tumultuous relationship making you feel might as well go for the looks bcz even the average ones treats you like shit!
Looks or no looks, MMC is the key!
I’ve dated the hottest women on the planet in New York, Paris, Korea, China and South America. Nobody is out of my league.
The real women are campesinas and poor working class girls. Most people are so consumed with their material Loriel Polo Ann Taylor Lancôme cosplay life they can’t see how spectacular these women are and don’t have the emotional or intellectual or social capacity to date them in any meaningful capacity. Those are the women who are way out of your league bro 😎
Says nobody is out of his leagu e. Them continues to say there are women out of his league 🤡🤡 you’re literally 54. Most women are out of your league.
I’m out of your league. That’s for crackers sweetness
Again, most women are clearly out of your league at 54 🤣🤣🤣
Go be delusional somewhere else old men. Literally your opinion on relationships mean nothing. Why are you on this site? 😂😂🤡
I would say... yes! Idc if he's hotter than me, or cuter than me, or more attractive than me! If he finds me attractive and he wants to be with me and or get to know me, thats all that matters 💯
Yes. But I wouldn't attempt it. I automatically skip girls who really put a lot of effort into looking great on top of being naturally beautiful. I am frankly suspicious of that and consider more ordinary women better matched to me. Recently I found out that if I did accidentally, or because she approached me proactively, end up considering dating a super attractive woman, I wouldn't let that stop me if I liked her.
No. First of he'd never be interested in me. Second he'd be highly desirable to many and they would try to steal him from me. Unless he's super in love with me then it wouldn't last long anyway. A hotter woman would easily be able to steal him. My self esteem issues are too large at this stage 😔
I’ve dated super hot women before. There’s nothing magical about it. In fact, the super hot ones were more of a dead lay than the slightly less beautiful.
I met a couple that were great, but full of drama and borderline Narcissists.
No energy. Just lay there and have you do all the work.
This is the key difference between males and females,
Guys regularly look not to be abusive, girls regularly assume they should be, it is like that etc
So you get to see fat ugly cows with decent looking guys - and they boss everyone else along the way, entirely based on female vanity (a guy must impress a woman and make her laugh, she of course if impressive as she is and god forbid you expect her to have a sense of humour - she is a girl, she needs sex, and that is that; completely hypocritical but she assumes she is beyond questioning/allowed to commit crimes)
Just from the first sentence I can tell you were some idiot 🤣🤣 get a life old man.
Yes. Why?
Especially if she makes me feel like the happiest man in the world, just by existing.
Now looks still matter... but it's more like accepting a 6 or 7 instead of wanting a 9 or 10 out of 10.
God love her 💕😁😋🙏
Every girl I thought was out of my league, became either a friend or a girl friend. As long as your motive is not sex but genuine interest in people, anything is possible.
Nah. Anything isn’t possible. If you’re not attractive to that person then you’re not. Period.
Not these days, I've dated people out of my league and generally they know it and are most often preoccupied with their looks. I've got no time for that shit.
Personally yes ish...
I mean I think my fiance is out of my league but it was his personality I fell for 1st. Cause I didn't think he's ever go for a girl like me. But I mean for the 1st good few months I was just waiting for him to leave me for a hotter girl. Still kinda am but that's just my insecurity talking
I've dated a guy I was actually attracted to before. and yeah I would date someone out of my league if i could find someone out of my league lol
To be honest, it depends on other factors. Like how is his personality like? I like attractive guys but a lot of the MOST attractive guys get a lot of attention- I wouldn’t want to have to fight for his attention
You know what I learned Everyone is fuc*ing beautiful in there own way pick someone that loves u for u nomatter what 🥰 ... Until then there's no problem with having alittle fun🥰😎😘!!
There's no league of my expectation or preference of appearance and I do never categorize people in any manner whatsoever. If I love someone, then the work is over and I accept her as being just herself.
I always do.. I’m a guy. Hot young girls don’t date me for my looks. They say they do. And I take my chances regardless. High failures high rejections high reviews
I really doubt you’re messing with “hot young girls” just from your pic, also what you even wrote is dead giveaway. You’re not fooling anyone, everyone rejects you. Go away creep, and stay away from young women. 36 🤣🤣 so embarrassing.
Again, you are clearly an ugly creepy lame. No one is gonna do shit to me 🤣 bitch. Let’s hope you get fucked up one day though going after the wrong “younger girl” 🤣🤣 what a fucking loser.
@aphrodite801 I couldn't date a woman who's out of my league in the looks category since I am afraid she would commit adultery.
I don’t care about looks
If you are kind and gentleman that’s enough for me
I’m not a big fan of “league” terminology. Yes, I could date someone more attractive than myself.
If they're out my league, the question would be if they would date me!
The insecurity wouldn't be worth it. I would drive myself crazy thinking they'll dump me at any moment or they're just using me in some way.
I would find it hard to accept that a woman who was much more attractive than me actually liked me and wanted to be with me. I've been fake hit-on before just to make someone jealous or as a joke. I'm not good at reading people and I have no way to tell if they're being real or not so I have to assume the worst to avoid getting hurt or taken advantage of.
I married someone whose looks are well out of my league. I think it made a HUGE difference that he’s kind, humble, and has absolutely no ego about his looks.
When its come to the look she doesn't have to be 10/10. 6,5 is still fine sometimes the beauty of the personality can also makes you feel they are more beautiful
The entire concept of "out of your league" is stupid.
No, you’re stupid
It’s reality. The league exists. Not a concept.
For short term, maybe
Why not long term?
Speaking by personal experience. I can’t date a man out of my league again. The fact how women threw themselves at him or the attention he would receive was too much for me.
I only date girls that are out of my league, because I am self-confident and don't sell myself short. Even those out of my league do have common likes.
Don't see anyone as out of my league we are all human none of us are prefect
Nah, it’s not good to be in denial dude. You’re not even in the same league as Chris Evans. The delusions are so crazy lol
That's your view doesn't make it right
It’s the truth… which you apparently can’t accept. Oh well 🤷♀️
I mean I personally don’t believe in “leagues” but I could never even date someone considered attractive as me, much less someone considered far more than me.
I think it depends on mutual attraction for each other. Everyone has their own thoughts and opinions on what good looks are.
Hell yeah I can. Make em wonder if I'm rich or something.
Yes I could in the categorie look but I am small endowed so this is a big barrier.
Girls can otherwise they would have to compromise with their lust for money
looks does not mean much at my age
if she does not believe what I do
SHE IS WRONG AND WORTHLESS TO ME
Nah, seems like a great way to get a broken heart.
yes, i would, and thinking that someone is out of your league is not attractive at all. anyone could be your type if you do believe you can get them.
This makes no sense. Many girls would reject you cause you’re not attractive enough, no matter what you believe. That simple
I am currently and pretty much always have.
Yes I could and have a few times
No such person exists
🤡🤡🤡
Because you’re an ugly loser who plenty of women would reject and have rejected. And I don’t wear makeup so yeah, nice fail. Small dick CLOWN.
I could
would make me insecure
Yes if our wave-length matches
Every Time, I am an ugly troll.
Sure, i just don’t know how to meet Liz Hurley. 😊
It's difficult, but doable
If she’ll let me.
For sure! Why wouldn't you? ;)
Yes I so would
Nope, no way.
There’s no such thing as “leagues,” just people.
Again, a guy in denial. You think all those girls who rejected you thought y’all were in the same league? 🤣🤣🤣
Nope, not in denial. Leagues are purely imagination.
Plenty of women would reject you cause you’re not attractive enough and not in their league. Truth hurts? Oh well
Plenty of women think you’re ugly, it’s not all subjective dumbass 💀 get your ugly ass on.
I have before
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