Would you date a paraplegic?

Question

A paraplegic has lost the use of their legs due to a spinal cord injury. They are unable to do a lot of things and usually require some level of care though can lead a fruitful life. Would you date or marry a paraplegic?

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

I would date her for sure, marriage would depend on the date but I would treat her like all other girls. I think my major concern would be Independence. I would want to make sure she can take care of herself, at least while she is by herself. I just noticed unable to do lots of things... That's tough. But love is love. If we love each other that should not stand in the way. But it's the same both ways. Could a girl marry a man that is like that. Another factor which I find interesting is my disabled roommate does not want to marry because he does not want to burden his wife. How do you encourage someone to marry that feels that way. This is an interesting topic for sure!

scottiedont · Accepted Answer

There's way too many guys saying yes. As soon as anyone wants sex back in their life they'll be gone/cheat/ask for an open relationship.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

Depends on how bad it was and if the Plumbing down stairs worked.  No sex would kill it for me

1love2hearts · Accepted Answer

Yes. I have though it is hard for Moe I am sure others would find it easier.

TonyMetal86 · Answer

Yes i would, she's a human being, she has feelings and a heart to love, she can make love like any other girl and able to be pregnant, also can cook delicious meals...

Anyway i want a girl who adores becoming a housewife, i won't marry a career girl.

jimyee · Answer

I think I would, I'd at least givevit a shot. I don't know if it would work or not but dontbknow until you try.

genericname85 · Answer

uh that's a tough one. does she still enjoy penetrative sex or does she not feel anything around there either?

DarkFunction · Answer

I'd be open minded and would give the relationship a go

boggboss · Answer

Probebly not to be honest but who knows if I truly fell for one maybe

nameisunknown · Answer

Only if she allows me to pull wheelies in the chair.

ATuairiscean · Answer

Hard to say - I like to think I would be open minded enough not to have it as a dealbreaker

constant_freeflow · Answer

It depends on her personality and if she is emotionally accepting of herself then I honestly would. Again personality and willpower is a big plus for me.

outside_Toronto · Answer

Absolutely. Just because she has different challenges than everyone else doesn't mean she can't be an amazing person

name_is_eric · Answer

I wouldn't get INTO a relationship with one. But let's say she becomes paralyzed from the waist down as we are dating, I wouldn't leave her.

monkeynutts · Answer

Yeah If we liked each other, or maybe just to be sociable with a nice girl.

LegateLanius · Answer

Yes, I would. Sure it requires a bit more work but everything in life worth it does.

90sGrunge · Answer

There are many guys who are willing to, just watch out for the sneaky one's who want to take advantage of your situation.

Pauliho · Answer

It'd depend on how attracted I am to her. Her being a paraplegic isn't a turn off.

oneal5905 · Answer

Yes I would as I feel they would be very loving and the love making would be astronomical

wywynot · Answer

Sure. As someone with a disability I understand limitations.

ecfresh · Answer

I would rather not, as insensitive as that sounds.

LadyAvon · Answer

If they were everything I wanted, maybe.

MindTime · Answer

Yes I would, provided we had a good connection

bananathunder · Answer

sure... I've dated worse I'm sure

Knowbetternow1 · Answer

Probably, depends on the person

Celtero · Answer

Nope.

jacquesvol · Answer

Maybe

DiegoO · Answer

Yes. 🙃

clarinet89 · Answer

Yeah

CT_CD · Answer

No..

GoldCobra · Answer

Yes I would

MisterSir · Answer

probably not

jimmy2 · Answer

Its possible

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