Why doesn't my boyfriend want me to dress up for halloween? (Page 2)
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What kind of boring person thinks being in a relationship means you should give up on the every once in a while party?
Also, you should just be honest, not say it's fine when it doesn't seem like you are.
Also, slutty? What is this, a troll?
LOL, the guy has made the mistake of thinking you'd instinctively act more respectfully due to being in a relationship with him.
When will guys learn? Bet this question will bring out all the whiteknights...
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I wouldn't say either one of those are slutty, the second one is especially cute.
Relationships are about compromise, but I don't see an issue with going out and having some fun with your friends if you wanted to.
Well he just cares about you. What’s wrong with that. I find it extremely hot and lovely.
Yeaaah, they are kind of slutty, especially the first, and partying and getting drunk, by the sounds of it, does give way to sexual activity in your or his experience. I can understand why. Also, dressing up for Halloween is kind of something that children do?
My boyfriend made me stop being friends which was my only friend, and we used to go out clubbing. His reason was, she was slutty and was going to encourage me to cheat on him. He manipulated me so much at the start, and 2 years later I’m only just realising how horrible he is. I literally have no one but him at this point.
Well then I hope you'll dump him soon.
That really blows all my friends are drug addicts, gangbangers and straight up fuck boys. Does that mean I'm going to listen to them when they point at a girl and be like "fuck her you don't know what your girl is down right now"?
Hell no. I can make my own decisions in life. Her personality has nothing to do with you.
I will be leaving him soon. He is super manipulative and I wish I listened to my friends and family about him.
That's good. But why soon, not immediately? What are you waiting for?
Basically I live with him, have a cat that I’m going need to give away as I wouldn’t be able to take him to my parents home. And his family all live 3 hours away, and I just really want to have some things organised so he doesn’t screw me over. And be ready to leave as soon as possible so he can’t manipulate me into staying with him again. It’s hard to explain but I have a plan.
That's a. Though situation I really hope it gets better for you
It’s extremely difficult. I’m a very caring and loving person but I know I have to be strong and say no.
It’s harder to think about the fact that his parents probably won’t let him move back with them.
Well I mean if he cared for you he wouldn't isilate you from your friends and family. That's pointless a person who will cheat will cheat regardless what you do so I never understood posesivenes.
Most men suffer from that. Me personally would it make me a bit uncomfortable if my girlfriend's friends are slutty but I'd trust her enough to make the right decisions. If a girl cheats that was her character to begin with. I'm glad you're getting out
I wish I payed attention to all the signs at the start. I’ve never cheated on someone, I’ve always been the one that gets cheated on.
I can’t wait to have the freedom to just go to the shops alone without being questioned or having to take him with me.
That's a little crazy I think the more you control someone the more chances of them getting sick of it and cheat. Ironically the people who aren't controlled typically end up being more faithful
The whole situation is crazy to be honest. He still treats me the same before I found out that he was on dating websites. Which was pretty crappy. He never does anything nice for me. At this point I really only think he is staying because no one will help with at all because of how lazy and yet somehow controlling he is.
That's not a healthy relationship don't stay there
Oh I’m not, I’m leaving as soon as I know I have a place to live.
Great good luck
Those costumes are quite modest compared to others.
And while I'd be worried about douchebags, I'd let you go if I felt your friends would be responsible. If not, I could see why he would be hesitant.
I love the outfits, kind of hard to pick one, but if I had pick one for my girlfriend it would be the bottom one if I was going with her. The bottom one if she was going alone would feel safer for her.
He's right. Stop with these slutty outfits trend. Halloween is spooky and scary, it's not the right day to show your ass, you have the whole year for it.
Your boyfriend won't "allow you?" Sounds like you have a third parent. Your boyfriend shouldn't dictate your life like that and you should go. It sounds like fun. Your boyfriend sounds insecure.
Sounds like she has a history of being easy at parties and he is concerned. Something you must not know
@awkwardman so? If he's worried about her cheating on him, they shouldn't be together and he should seek a therapist to get over his insecurities and trust issues.
I don't understand the downvotes. This is on point.
@Pamina I once got an insane amount of downvotes for thanking another gag member who is in the military for his service.
@Pamina also, her boyfriend kind of reminds me of my ex. When I was texting on my phone, he'd look over my shoulder. Actually if I was on my phone at all, he'd be annoyed because he assumed the worst. I have a few male friends that he didn't like and he assumed something more was going on with us. I should've ended things when he got mocked and got jealous of a good friend of mine. Of course nothing was going on. The irony is that I was practically begging for him to give me attention, but he acted like doing simple things like texting me back was a chore for him.
It's incredible how insecure grown men can be. But good that you realized it and got rid of him. Not many at your age would have been smart and strong willed enough to do that.
Okay go as little red Riding Hood but he just doesn't want other guys eyeing you he is the jealous type that just doesn't want you to get groped or grinded on buy some rando
Because probably a lot of guys will hit on you and there's alcohol involved. It's quite obvious.
He can't take the whore out of you. Smh.. He just doesn't understand. You need understanding guys who just wanna get you drunk then get you paid/laid - Like myself. $omeone who ju$t want$ to f$ck your gut deep. Especially if you look like the whore on that picture. Nah, he's a sap. Make up some shit. Tell him anything. But definitely go anyways.
Maybe you could compromise on couple outfits that are more demure. There are plenty at Pinterest.
the number of simps per square meter is critical...
the true answer: he loves you thats why he is posessive. if it was mutual you wouldn't seek attention of others by dressing slutty. period.
that isn't exactly true lol
women like feeling sexy for the sake of feeling sexy.
and i do hope she dresses sexy and not slutty. There is a difference.
Sounds like the issue isn't the outfit, but that it's an excuse to drink. Alcohol is a toxin, and he probably thinks you're a lightweight. See if he'll tag along as the designated driver...
Wtf? How's that slutty? Hardly any skin is showing. And, "you're not going" to, "I won't stop you" totally doesn't sound possessive with a dash of passive aggression. If he has problem trusting you with that, that needs to addressed and talked on
i think he made it pretty clear. he feels the outfits are too revealing and "slutty"
Awe he should allow you to go and as long as you two
are faithful and love on another he needs to lighten up
and let you go.
he's afraid of losing you to a pirate, cowboy or guy in a fat ballerina suit.