For No Shave November I decided to shave at the start of the month so for 30 days I can put my razor down and donate that money instead. Ever since I shaved my wife has been treating me different. She's claiming I did things that I've never done and now wants a divorce. I'm beginning to think she doesn't find me attractive without a beard and is just making excuses. What do I do? Any suggestions would help.
Updates
+1 y
We're okay now. I shaped up my stubble which gave it a fuller appearance and she dropped the whole act. She was just grumpy that I looked like a preppy white guy from Harvard.
That's sad. She should not divorce you over a beard. Overall, if she is attracted to you because of your beard, why shave it off? You need to have a serious talk with her even if it leads to a bad argument. Because this sounds like she has pent up issues she just refuses to say to you. And therefore that is not your problem but hers and she needs to just grow up. Don't divorce her over stupid stuff. She sounds like she has serious issues that need to be addressed with a counselor.
No. You might as well grow it back. She loves you for you, but the beard makes her more happy to be with you. Respect the fact that this is the part she loves about you the most. Don't change that.
Is she just fucking with you, or is she really tryna divorce you? A little teasing is no big deal, especially if you usually wear a beard anyway. It'll be over in a month. If she's legit trying to divorce you, I say let her go. I hate to say it cuz men usually get wrecked in divorce, but that's a pretty petty thing to demand a divorce over, and you're too young to put up with that kinda psycho for the rest of your life.
Her actions speak for her. If she really loves you, it doesn't matter what you look like, she'll still treat you like her lover. But now it's just clear that she's with you for your looks. I'd ditch her ass, not like she ever cared anyways
1
0 Reply
Anonymous
(25-29)
+1 y
you catfished her with your beard lmao. Im only joking. If she is treating you badly because you don't have a beard then she's not the one boo. Maybe sit down and have a talk with her about it?
Read "The Predatory Female" to understand what is going on here. Hopefully you have been married too short of a time for her to qualify for lifetime alimony.
Most Helpful Opinions