What is more attractive? To be confident or humble?

Question

Confident in yourself, good self esteem, you know you could achieve anything. You know your worth.

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Humble where you don't vocalize or show off your ahcievments, or your good self esteem. When someone brings it up you are grateful for their compliment but you don't need to be complimented. You don't need to be in the spotlight.

animelover14 · Accepted Answer

Confidence forms the first burst but humbleness will keep me attracted to the man. However, it is very easy to overdose on those traits where they turn into arrogance and self-depreciation.

aicarg · Accepted Answer

Personally, I find that confidence will strike my attention but a person's humbleness will keep me attracted.

hakon96 · Accepted Answer

I woud say a humble person becuase then you are more of an realist. If you are confident is is very easy to lie to yourself.

NeglectedChild · Accepted Answer

They're both attracive and admirable qualities but humility is more honorable.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

If you are confident in the right way you will also be humble. If you are humble in the right way you will also be confident. It's possible to love yourself, love God and love others at the same time. You don't have to choose one or the other.

ghostqueen · Answer

Confidence is more attractive as long as it's rightly deserved and not overdone.

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

Be both, why does it have to be separate? Balance them both.

Anonymous · Answer

Confidence is nice in a lot of ways and its a much needed attribute. But you jave to know when to be humble... my god, some clown on here called himself a 10 out of 10 right before he went off on some dumb shallow rant. He's a 1 rating right there.& Fuck looks, too many hot people are ugly as fuck inside, I see if theyre humble before I decide if they're hot. Being humble is the way to go. It sucks sometimes wanting to post certain achievements or share photos of a new car or house because some people with less see it as egotistic. Personally, I find it better to just keep it on the DL and let those closest to me share the fun it brings unsaid.

The1Guy · Answer

Humble for me in both men and women.

If someone is confident, that means they are not aware of all the factors around them, that effect them and the way they effect others with their actions. There fore confident people tend to be reckless and unreliable.

Confidence is good when you are confident in someone, not yourself. Or if it's a belief that you hold, that is greater than you are and you are confident, but humble with regards to that belief. But not fanatical, because all beliefs need to be checked.

Everyone needs something, they are humble about, otherwise they won't have any respect for others and are not worthy of respect themselves.

chunlilovesvega · Answer

confident doesn't mean arrogant though this attitude is what I like on a guy; Girl: Oh, you have really nice eyes... Guy: I do? *smiles*

OnitheWanderer · Answer

Well, according to Dating sites and psychological researchers in the department of society status, confident men are seen more attractive to women than humble men. Because they want to see how a man who takes the lead. Being humble can be a form of confidence that attracts a specific group of women thinking it's more attractive than being confident.

BeMuse · Answer

Quiet confidence. That is to say you don’t walk around waving your own flag yelling look at me, but anytime someone asks you about yourself you have no issue talking about your achievements. I don’t like social media fame thirsting people and I don’t like fake humble brags that “act” like they are unable to talk about themselves and sit their and fish for compliments while playing coy.

ryryryan · Answer

I'm very confident and very humble... Like I kno I'm among the best of the best, and yet I kno I can be way better than this and so I work really hard every day to improve my talents and fitness and character.

latinabutterfly96 · Answer

If you’re truly confident, you’ll know when to be humble...

N192K001 · Answer

That depends on how it's done and what region of the world. Different societies may share the same values, but emphasize different individual virtues more than others.

Humility done right gives the better impression for me.

btbc92 · Answer

Both. But more so humbleness than anything.

SelfishGuy · Answer

Depends on situation. I prefer honesf and humble. But gift of gabs usually get their way with their bravado.  Being confident is always attractive as long as one can keep their words.

GnarCute · Answer

both

MimiHashima · Answer

Humble. I do like someone confident as well, but being humble is what really stands out to me most in a guy and makes him worth keeping more personally.

Burgerboy21 · Answer

Well obviously a good balance between the two is best. But if I have to choose, I'd say I certainly value humility far above confidence.

MajorZero · Answer

Confidence can go s long way. But attraction is attraction.

JayParris · Answer

Overspoken confidence is usually just overcompensating for insecurity. Confident humility is the best. I don't talk shit much. I love it when someone talks

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously humble, that IS true confidence, you show your confidence hrough action. Needing to brag comes from a place of insecurity, and often times isn’t backed up by action.

MemeSupreme · Answer

But isn't being humble being confident at the same time? 🤔

Girllovesmysteries · Answer

Confidence is more attractive, but humbleness is more approcable.

rufurrealz · Answer

i like owmen who are humble. conmfident to me comes acorss as a bitch.

ShortCircuit · Answer

I personally find humble women more attractive.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I don't like people who act like they're the bomb but I dislike fake humble more.

cutiekittyxoxo · Answer

both confident isn't cocky

Anonymous · Answer

I think a rich girl who doesn’t have her head up her ass is attractive I could also say that rich guys are cooler when they also don’t have their head up their ass

Piteka5 · Answer

I prefer humility myself but I feel like being confident gets you further in life

iskg679 · Answer

Confident. Hands down.

ForteExe · Answer

I don't think the things you described are contradictory. I think it's important to have an appreciation for yourself and your abilities without having to be the center of attention.

Anonymous · Answer

Humble. I find humility to be a desirable trait.

dontgofalling · Answer

Why not be confident and humble?

es20490446e · Answer

Exaggerating everything wrong, that's coming as both.

cavmanier · Answer

Humble for me

name_is_eric · Answer

Humble women. Confident men.

Midnight_Kiss · Answer

A 50/50 ratio would be more attractive.

LuvAsh · Answer

Humble

SarahVanRensburg · Answer

Humble.

Syrian_survivor · Answer

Both Quiet confidence is a beautiful thing

Poormanscomedian · Answer

Both I am confident that I am Humble!

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Humble. I hate girls with a big head.

awkwardman · Answer

Im neither. Cause im a piece of shit lol

Somegirl_49 · Answer

Humble.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably humble

Anonymous · Answer

Humble

princessfromjupiter · Answer

Confidence for me

ChocolateCheesecake · Answer

Confidence

DrHonesty · Answer

To be a slut

YingKim · Answer

Confident humble :)

Coolcat99 · Answer

Humble

Coolgirl235 · Answer

Confident

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Definitely confident

BraveHeart97 · Answer

Humble.

RumEro · Answer

definitely humble

john_61 · Answer

Very questionable

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