Personality or Appearance? Which is more attractive? (Page 3)
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My boyfriend isn’t the most attractive guy, but his heart of gold and the amount he makes me laugh is great. He makes me so happy and beauty is only skin deep.
How’s you sex life if you don’t mind me asking? Not being a pervert but I ask this because my fiancé is beautiful and the guys she’s been with in the past, were pretty unattractive. I guess it was because of their personality but I always wonder if that hinders sex life.
It’s amazing. He definitely is a giver and wants to make sure he’s doing everything he needs to do to satisfy me. I couldn’t ask for a better partner
I voted personality over appearance, but appearance must be within reason. For instance, if a woman has a great personality but looks like a man, I would reject her.
There’s times where someone’s so hot but their personality is boring, there’s times someone’s hot and their personality is really nice, but the personality just doesn’t fit their appearance. There’s times someone is very unattractive but their personality is hot and confident. There’s times someone’s unattractive and heir personality’s isnsorta boring and serious, yet fits their appearance and makes them hot. Depends on their rising, sun and moon signs tbh
I did appearance because that's the initial attraction before you get to know their personality.
Where the gold diggers atttt? with the answer ‘money’ 😂😂
I don't blame gold diggers for their effort. I blame the dorks that allow it to happen to them. lol
Appearance will go away, one day you will be ugly and old or lokk artificial. personnality is way more important
All these girls saying personality LOL, what a bunch of liars. I work with a girls only team at a coffeeshop. I know how girls think.
It's all about looks with our customers.
Personality without a doubt. My ex was very attractive and he could be a sweetheart sometimes but most of the time he was a complete asshole.
Personality is the most important. There are too many objectively attractive assholes out there. It has ruined good looks.
An attractive man can appeal to the eye, but so can the sight of an amazing man regardless of how he looks especially when he is smiling. 😊😇
Personality has more staying power as a source of attraction
Appearance is usually the first attraction but if the personality is not there that attraction won't last long and personality can create attraction even if the appearance is not there
Appearance is like a shiny stuff. You may be heard off this saying that "all that glitter is not gold". But Personality is real beauty.
Appearance gets the attention, personality keeps it, and therefore is more important in the long run.
Appearance will attract someone to you, but their personality will make you stay and build a relationship.
When I first meet someone it’s looks but if they are a prick and they have a bad personality then it automatically makes them ugly if they ain’t a nice person.
Personality is the most important, but of course if I'm not attractive to her by her looks l than It won't work.
We're are attracted to looks but personality wins out ever time in end: looks Will surly faide; but personality may live till yea die!
appearance is what draws ones interest but really we all want to actually like the person too so i have to say its 50/50
I am calling bull. Sorry ladies but I have spent 10 years online dating and met with constant shallow women. However personality comes through if you have good looks and photos are a guide to judge people before knowing them as people.
If you have a shitty personality appearance doesn't matter.
That't not necessarily true. But, if you have a 1/10 personality, even if you are attractive, a relationship probably won't work out. Just like how if you are ugly or average looking with a great personality, you are going nowhere with hot women or men
For most women, if your personality is shitty it dosen't matter how attractive you are it's not gonna work.
On the other hand for men they tend to acept attractiveness over personality. For instance rich or desprate men will go out with gold digging women. These women milk these men for money and to get anything they want and the men just sit back and accept being treated horribly.
Women - Personality is most important
Men - Looks are most important
Well I get what you're saying, but I think what you're trying to say is "women's looks are more important to DESPERATE men." And in my own experience, looks are more important to women as well. I used to be super skinny, but then I went to the gym and I'm shredded. The way women treat me is day and night from how they used to. They literally just come up and touch my arms, chest etc. and say they want to fuck me. I have a lot of average looking friends with amazing personalities who are way more social and extroverted than I am, however they never get any hot women, only average ones (but even that is rare).
Generally speaking: For a woman in a relationship looks are not the most important thing. They do play a part, but they aren't the most vital thing. Most women would argue that personality or dick size are most important. But most men would argue that looks are most important because men are "visual creatures."
Every gender is a visual creature. If a woman was in a relationship with an average looking guy who had an amazing personality, and a Zac Efron looking guy came along and started hitting on her, are you seriously going to tell me she wouldn't fuck him in a heart beat?
Sorry to that one lady who replied to me, I accdentally removed your comment. But I do agree with you.
How do you accidentally remove a comment? Lol
Also, yeah, sadly that’s what happens. Most young men tend to think that hot women are automatically girlfriend material and as they get older this changes and they finally realize (after being burned and cheated on by many females) that personality is an important factor that they should observe too.
I put "visual creature" in quotation marks because that's always what men & women say when they think that looks are most important.
Well on instgram to reply to someone you press the reply button, and then my dumb ass clicked the 3 virtical buttons thinking it would do something and then when I tried to go back I clicked "I don't want to see this" by accident. 😑
Lmao. I cringe when a guy says “wE aRe jUsT geNetiCallY prOgrAmmEd for ThiS”.
I’ve got a few things to say about that.
1. You’re not genetically “programmed” for something. Otherwise you wouldn’t have a rational thought process. You make your own decisions and you’re responsible for your own actions and behaviors.
2. Women are as visual as you. We have eyes. We have sexual desires and fantasies. We have a libido. You’re not justified for being a shallow nutsack.
And 3. If you think you deserve a hot girl, you better be hot as well! Otherwise don’t complain about being rejected all the time while you sit on your fat ass all day.
Oh. Don’t worry about it!
@latinabutterfly96 That's literally the EXACT same thing I was saying lmao. And I'm not fat. I'm shredded and I bench 340 :)
^ I didn’t call you fat.
@latinabutterfly96 When you said "sit on your fat ass" I thought you were referring to be lmao
Oh, nope. I was referring to guys who do all of what I mentioned. :)
Many guys who are very unattractive (physically) complain about women rejecting him. They believe they’re entitled to an attractive woman yet he’s unattractive. It’s just sad and pathetic.
Right! I can't stand men like that.
There we go. Proved my point that just like men, women also value looks over personality
But you didn't prove anything... hot people don't go for unattractive people in general no matter male or female.
What she is saying is that those type of men are ONLY interested in looks and think that they are entitled to hot model looking Megan Fox women. Even when they're nothing close to hot themselves.
That's like being fat and thinking you're entitled to bodybuilders or men with abs.
And to be honest it's not their look that make women turn them down, it's their personality. Men like that always have a misogynistic personality and an abusive vibe to them.
And what do you really expect? If you're unattractive how can you be mad when extremely attractive people turn you down? Hot people are generally vain from knowing and being told constantly that they're attractive. So why would they go for a normie or an unattractive person when they know that they can have just about anyone they want?