Do guys keep their distance if they like a girl, because they don't want to fall in the "just friends" category?

[Anonymous]

This guy a lot older then me asked me to go out to listen to him play. (I was not the only one) but I had to leave and he stopped me we talked he was play punching and quoting things I said on my face book page. I have this thing when I meet people I watch the body language. I guess I was doing it to him and I realized it was very obvious! Oops! But he asked me if would be going to the next gig!

But when I sent him PMsge on Face book to apologize for my tiredness (forgot to introduce him to my friend) he didn't respond! Is he trying to not fall into the "just friends" category why he doesn't respond or he does have an interest or am I just reading to much into it?

[panianna]

You are reading to much into it... Wait and see what happens, maybe he'll ask you out? sometimes you have to wait a long time before he decides to ask you out. But honestly - if a guy really wants - he can do anyting to show you that he cares.

[Fc180]

When did you send him a PMsge on FB and how long did you wait until you wrote your question on GAG? Is it possible that he hasn't been on FB since you wrote him the msg?

[Asker]

I msged him the day after, which was 5 weeks ago. Yes he has been on fb cause I wished him a Merry Christmas and he posted thxs you too!

[Fc180]

sounds like moving on is for you the better option... sorry to tell you that...but if he doesn't bother to write/talk/call you within 5 weeks... he wasn't that interested!

[Asker]

Good to know! thanks =)