My girlfriend's weight gain?

[Anonymous]

I'm dating my girlfriend for about a year. She's absolutely great. There is just one thing hat bothers me.

When we started dating, she already was a bit on the chubby side. 140 pounds on her 5'2" frame. But she looked good. A bit chubby but hot.

Now she's 155 pounds. She has chubby arms, chubby belly, mushy butt, cellulite all over her legs.

Well, I'm not so happy about her weight gain. What to do?

[englisc]

There's little you can do in this situation. It mainly depends on her mindset, beliefs, attitude etc. when it comes to gaining weight and you can't really change that.

If she doesn't care about exercise, eating healthy and staying in shape to begin with, then she gains weight, as soon as you mention it she's gonna blow up on you. She's gonna get upset, tell you that you should "love her for her" no matter how big she gets, and everybody is gonna call you a shallow asshole. And the strange thing is that many of these women will break up with you over it, and then lose the weight when they're single to get another man, which makes no sense.

This is why you should only date a woman who cares about those things in the first place.

So you have 3 options:
1) say something, probably have her get really upset, have a huge argument
2) put up with it, as she'll most keep piling on weight
3) leave

I just read your other responses after writing the above. You said that she's complained about gaining weight and wants to lose it, this perhaps means that you could mention something. Do you lift yourself? Do you know anything about diet and exercise? If so you could offer to help her to come up with a routine and a diet plan. If you don't already lift, beginning to do so yourself could also encourage her to do it too. But I had a girlfriend like this who constantly complained about gaining weight and constantly made excuses not to do anything, so I left.

[BadAnswers]

TALK TO HER , if she loves you she will try and change a little , but DO help her with that , dont just say DO IT , but also do things together , like running maybe or like fitness go with the 2 of you

[Soft4u]

Being together a year there's strong feelings for each other, if you spoke to her in a gentle way about your concern she'd probably do her best to eat better, and with your help she'd probably lose some weight.
You should be close enough to talk with each other about personal things like gaining weight, if you told her how much she means to you and how much better she would feel and look without the added pounds I'm pretty sure she'd give it her all to see things your way.

[MarioXx]

Mine was depressed and chubby when I met her. I had sex with her daily for a few months until she got a job and slimmed out working.

[chrisbigman]

Can she take brutal honesty? I'm guessing probably not, which means you may need to try to work out yourself and try to encourage her to join you.

[juan101]

THEN TELL HER TO LOSE IT

does she really bring anything else to the table

[Anonymous]

Tell her to lose weight or you are going to get a harpoon and hunt her for blubber

[Tyler87]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 This is great

[sailormercury99]

Recommend doing active dates

[Iron_Man]

That's just a start She even get bigger as well

[Asker]

She's kinda starting to complaind and saying that she want to lose weight. But no actual action so far.

[Iron_Man]

You basically have to try to get her in the gym and give her a good talking to. Give her that health scare about diabetes

[ROCKS128]

Whatever you and her prefer...

[Anonymous]

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