Have you ever been in a non consensual feeder relationship?

[RussianNestingDoll]

I’ve been in this situation twice and I started with a great figure both times. Both of these guys would cook and try to get me to have seconds, dump extra syrup on my pancakes, loose their ish when I wasn’t hungry, etc. They knew if they admitted what they were doing I wouldn’t go for it. These weight gains have caused me serious health problems. I’m going about losing weight again to save my life, stay single so no one tries to kill me with food again.

[jimyee]

Honestly thats the exact opposite of me. If my gal started putting on weight i would be less attracted to her and that woukd eventually lead to severe relationship problems. Its important to me that both me and my s. o. are healthy and fit.

[RussianNestingDoll]

The main problem I have with the feeding situation is that they were being underhanded to destroy me for their own gain. I’m not to let someone try to alter my body. I’m vain AF, especially after what I’ve been through. No guy would ever tell me that I was getting out of shape because that’s abnormal for me. If he was nagging and trying to tell me I didn’t look good enough for him, I’d want to leave.

[Nuremberg45]

Never had that experience, and im so sorry that happened to you,

[Nuremberg45]

Thanks for making me MH

[RussianNestingDoll]

Thank you for your answer🌸

[DarkHeartsFartApart]

Lol they were just being caring. Making sure you ate enough food. If you wanted smaller servings it would be as simple as leaving food on the plate or being an adult in a healthy state of mind and just communicate that you want smaller servings. It meant they didn't care if you got fat they just wanted you to enjoy what you want when you wanted. You're 49 you're not exactly at an age where you're so precious to do something so underhanded. I can't even think of someone who'd really be so insecure with themselves they'd purposefully make they girl less attractive so they don't lose her.

[RussianNestingDoll]

Unfortunately you’re wrong. Lots of people do this.

[DarkHeartsFartApart]

Lol no, no one does this. You sound delusional

[Anonymous]

yikes, thats weird, I've never been involved with someone like that... that said most of my gf's have admitted they dont mind if i put on a little weight, so that other girls won't like me as much

[RussianNestingDoll]

At least they were honest! I’ve had guys not want me to wear make up, chat with people and all kinds of controlling things. Other guys would just try harder to give me little signals that they liked me. The harder a guys tries to crush the spirit of a woman, he paved the way for another better guy to take his place.

[Anonymous]

That's weird. Didn't even know that was a thing. Also, just don't eat it. If they cry and get upset, let them and just ignore them. This is how you treat over dependent children.

[RussianNestingDoll]

I just decline relationships until I think I can handle one again, and not attract people like that. It has happened twice so I consider myself the common denominator. Meanwhile when I’m in a conversation I listen and watch for red flags.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

yes multiple times and a couple of them admitted it

[vald9inches]

Those people are evil

[WaddleGirl]

I’m sorry you went through all that.