Not in a relationship currently but the one place I meet the most girls is the store I work at. While I've seen some good looking older women, I prefer to stay as close as possible to my age. If I see someone who's clearly older; looks young; or is there with their parent or a kid, I don't really pay them any more attention than I would any other customer. Trouble is, that's a solid majority of the people that come in, so I'm looking at other places to meet people currently.
my last relationship was 16 years difference... which is good tbh
I generally get along better with women/girls between 18 and 28/29 years old... or minimum of 10 years younger... in some rare cases I have been known to date women within a 3-5 year difference and 1 case i dated one woman who was 2-3 years older than me... the older than me one didn't work out... and those who were my own age or nearer to it again rarely work
@Aphrodite801 not at all, maybe to some people but both of us were consenting adults and when we met I thought she was older than 21, she thought i was younger than 38... but personally nothing creepy about being with someone who makes you as happy as you make them if you choose to be with someone your own age that's your choice I'm not gonna comment negatively... but personally it's a little small minded to call someone or something creepy just cos it's not what you would do, if she was under the legal age or under 18 then i would agree with you...
and furthermore she preferred older guys as the guys her own age were always dicks... I find women my own age to be more closed minded generally... and too demanding with the exception of a few
@Aphrodite801 and... I get along with most people just not on a romantic level... but you are entitled to your opinion, and to narrow minded people that will seem creepy... but like i said nothing creepy about that age gap... but don't worry although you are 18 you are way too immature for me... not really interested in narrow minded girls/women
@THenny and did you notice the fact that he specifically added the word “girls” too? Doesn’t it seem a little suspect? @SjE78 dude don’t kid yourself. I would never date a bald man. Nor would a date a creepy one either.
@Aphrodite801 twist my words around all you wish, but i merely added the words to describe how immature you are being and what's up need back up to help you try and prove a point or attempt to belittle someone online?
@Amara_ she maybe blocked you cos you disagreed with her and she doesn't like that think she's just another bully who if she cannot understand or someone has a difference of opinion she reverts to personal attacks... I blocked her cos of this attitude she has
@SjE78 Lol, that Aphrodite is definitely a troll, you're 100% in your last point. I've also seen her have a conversation back and forth with herself, using her multis, as she has had multiple accounts before. She also deletes every opinion she agrees with and is a certified man-hater, not to mention the fact that she's a hypocrite and has even racially abused me before, even I'm not the race/ethnicity she was saying.
She literally seems to make up BS situations and then post questions about them, like how desperate and look at how aggressive she seems replying to those who disagree with her, in the first question, lmao. Just a heads up by the way.
I've always dated a guy who was at least a couple years older than me. I prefer to be the "baby" in the relationship. My first legitimate relationship the guy was 5 years older though so I was 18 at the time and he was 23. But I'm not in a relationship now. I would want the guy to be older than me if I was though
Oh I see... well I’m embarrassed because I am 28 and liked a guy who is 22, now I like his brother who is 25 but I can’t tell anyone because I feel creepy so I hold it in
My ideal age to be with would be around 22. Young enough to have healthy kids after being together a while to know if it could last long term first, probably have more in common for interests, and be a year past the legal drinking age so I would know if she was likely to be a party person that I don't want, or if she was a sober responsible person like I do want.
Age doesn't really bother me it's the person that matters , my last relationship , she was 5 years older then me , and I have dated girls that were 25 and I am 41 Now, so again age doesn't really bother me it's the person that matters
I'm 18 (almost 19) and he's 25 (almost 26). Seven years was always my rule, as that's the same gap as my parents and grandparents have, but I would have made an exception for eight.
@SjE78 Dude it's the fact that you're dating girls that have no life experience, no matter how mature you think they are. I'm only 20 and I understand that. Blocking me doesn't justify your creepiness lol
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