Why would a guy friend grab your hip towards him during a hug?

[Anonymous]

[jgokgotit]

Might be a test to see if you are interested enough for him to risk asking you out.

[Asker]

Well I didn’t reject it. My arm was around his waist. And the hug was long. Rubbed my back 😂 it was diff

[jgokgotit]

Ask him about it directly and tell him you want an honest answer. Also reassure him you are not mad at him.

[Asker]

He’s been hot and cold. I’ve asked questions from a similar scenario and he’s avoided giving me honesty. So I’ve been avoiding to hit him up. It’s complicated done chasing.

[jgokgotit]

Just tell him if he wants to remain friends (or possibly more if you want to entertain the idea) he HAS to be honest. Many guys your age (assuming 21 and younger) have to be put in a corner to know their true feelings.

[Asker]

Good to know. I think that’s what it comes down to eventually.

[Savage_Wisdom]

Because he likes you "more than a friend".

[Asker]

Buddy was squeezing 😂 thanks for the reply

[blkgold33]

cause he really friendly that why

[Asker]

Really friendly? 😂 guy friends squeeze hips? First time I’ve had a guy friend do that.

[blkgold33]

yeah really friendly lol he want move to bff you know

[Asker]

We knew each other for 4 years already. He avoids to chill now.

[blkgold33]

that hug was to tell you im still her girl i got you then

[Asker]

Now You sound spot on. Lol. Our vibe changed. I know he cares but it’s distant now

[blkgold33]

See he got you even when distant

[Asker]

What I mean is he’s distant out of nowhere. He use to want to do anything with me. He makes excuses

[blkgold33]

Maybe he needs some space and time alone

[Asker]

I think so too. I started to give it to him. Don’t Hit him up

[Iron_Man]

He obviously wanted to do a Little Dry hump

[Asker]

Lol Welp that was the first time he did that so it caught me off guard. Is that a form of making a move?

[Iron_Man]

just a dry hump move

[Smelly12]

Maybe he wanted to feel da ass

[Asker]

Well he ain’t get there 😂

[Smelly12]

Maybe next time

[Asker]

He better act right lol he’s ducking the chill

[Smelly12]

Maybe its take it or leave it, you feel

[Asker]

I feel like a guy has to be somewhat upfront

[Smelly12]

Somewhat yeah but you can't just take what you like either

[Asker]

That is true. Lol hate to agree. Deep

[Smelly12]

Deal with it xd maybe we meet again

[s2firestar]

A pure friend would not.

[Asker]

Didn’t feel friendly 😂 I was confused

[macsab]

Duh lol... want to be more then a friend

[Asker]

We’ve never crossed that line so I was hoping I wasn’t reading too much into it. He was very serious too, didn’t smile

[macsab]

Yea I think he wants u esp if u all been friends a good while

[Asker]

Yeahhh. And yes close with my pops. Very close lol. Talks to him more than me now :|