How soon is too soon to drop the L bomb?

[Anonymous]

Been dating this girl almost a month, and we honestly see each other every day, and we both love it. we never fight, are always cute together. honestly I think I love her, I mean we get along PERFECTLY. But I'm afraid to tell her this soon, should I be afraid? orr should I just go for it and tell her?

Updates

+1 y

So I knew I wassnt crazy in thinking it, because last night SHE told me that was was falling in love with me. Everything is working out, and it's awesome, thanks so much for the advice guys and gals!

[SrSmokesAlot]

my girlfriend actually told me before we were even dating. we were just really close buddies, like we got along so well. we only knew each other for 2 months then I told her there was something I really needed to talk to her about and assured her it was nothing bad (I told her that on msn) then the next reply was her saying she loved me.. kinda messed up what I had planned but it was so good to hear(read) :P...

moral here is that it doesn't matter when, as long as it feels right

and if you pair get along that well, it should be fine :)

if you feel like you wanna say it, then go ahead and say it.

[Belgie]

Almost a *month*?

YOU'RE OUT OF YOUR MIND!

You'll be lucky if she doesn't run a mile.

Honestly, it will make you look like this is the first girlfriend you've ever had. Wait AT LEAST 3-6 months before saying anything like that.

[aly-marie]

Say it when you feel it, you must have some idea of how she'd react; you know her better than any of us could.

Just don't let the L bomb skew your expectations of the relationship; you're still in that honeymoon phase. That doesn't mean you don't really love her right now, it just means be careful and don't set yourself up for disaster.

[kiss_me_Kate]

it doesnt' matter how well you get along, or how long you've been dating (more then a week is good hahaha).

Love is something unexplainable and rare, when both feel it, it's right. You've got to feel it and when you do you can't think. Since you're thinking now, it's not real.