Why do guy always lead me on?

[Anonymous]

okay so I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, nothing. I am 18, so its kinda annoying. I have talked to like 3 really nice guys in the past year and all of them are either already in a relationship or they just want to be friends. My question is why do they lead me on? I really think they are into me, they flirt and are really nice. I don't know what to do to get a guy to know I really like them. I get lead on and then when I found out they don't like me that way it hurts, and I hate feeling rejected like this. How can I find guys that actually want to be more than friends? please help...seems desperate, but I really want a boyfriend...

[Quadrophonic84]

Think of it this way. Right now, you have one question, "Why do guys lead me on?" If you did get a boyfriend, that one question would seem like paradise because all of a sudden you'll have 50 more questions that seem 10 times as serious. Relationships are a huge pain in the as*. If that's how the guys you've been meeting treat you casually, why would you trust one of them with your heart?

[TC123]

Be friendly, don't be shallow, talk to guys wherever you go and you will start meeting available men. That's all there is to it.

The relationship is the harder part.

[Modernhippy]

idk too many guys that will lead a girl on. that's like working for no pay...