My boyfriend is getting lazy in our relationship, how do I fix it?

[Anonymous]

Lately my boyfriend has been getting really lazy about our relationship, at least, that's what it seems like. At the beginning of our relationship he used to actually text me, hug me in the hallways, put his arm around me in front of other people, and act excited to hang out with me. But now, he's cancelling dates because he's 'tired' (planned dates) and doesn't text me at all. He also never invites me anywhere, I plan all the dates. How can I confront him about it without sounding clingy/desperate? (I've never said anything to him about it before...)

[sugarsugar14]

I'm having the same problem right now, and the best way to deal with it is to talk to him about what he really wants out of the relationship. After a month or so... Guys get comfortable. Most girls don't like that. But definitely talk to him, you should be able to be open with him, and also comfortable.