My boyfriend doesn't work or do chores. All he does is sleep all day and play videos games. When I come home from working 12 hours he is usually sleep or drinking beers and playing video games.
I stopped doing chores and let his laundry build up until we started getting roaches in the kitchen and spiders in the bathroom. I cleaned the bathroom and told him to clean the kitchen and he refused still after seeing two roaches. His friend came over and he spotted the roaches and my boyfriend killed them but still didn't clean the kitchen. Instead he just blamed it on the neighbors having a dirty balcony, like what?
I can't deal with him and his level of comfort with dirt. If I don't clean he just won't. Today we have a snow day and I asked him to take me to work because I been having trouble since I don't drive and public transportation is unreliable. He refused! Yet he want me to pay the bills! He literally won't do anything but cook occasionally but I never eat his food because he doesn't flush the toilet or wash his hands after using the restroom. Plus the kitchen is disgusting.
I stopped doing chores and let his laundry build up until we started getting roaches in the kitchen and spiders in the bathroom. I cleaned the bathroom and told him to clean the kitchen and he refused still after seeing two roaches. His friend came over and he spotted the roaches and my boyfriend killed them but still didn't clean the kitchen. Instead he just blamed it on the neighbors having a dirty balcony, like what?
I can't deal with him and his level of comfort with dirt. If I don't clean he just won't. Today we have a snow day and I asked him to take me to work because I been having trouble since I don't drive and public transportation is unreliable. He refused! Yet he want me to pay the bills! He literally won't do anything but cook occasionally but I never eat his food because he doesn't flush the toilet or wash his hands after using the restroom. Plus the kitchen is disgusting.
