Do you like to cuddle to relax after work?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I admit I really don't, after work I generally want to relax on my own for a little.
My girlfriend instead just came home, already slipped in pajamas and dived on the couch, outstretching her arms and calling for me. I just had to cuddle her for thirty good minutes!
What about you?

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+1 y

"Turn off that computer and come here".

[Dubious]

I tend to prefer some time to myself as well. After work I need to wind down and have some space before I feel like cuddling, or honestly having much interaction at all.
If I'm getting home from something non-work related I'm quite a bit more open, however.

[OlderAndWiser]

Your relationship is new and she is wanting to feel intimacy between you two. Of course, intimacy is much more than sex. She needs to feel close to you. This is an area where you need to make compromises, as you have done.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Very true. Those days she doesn't even sit down or drink coffee when she comes home from work, she slips into her pajama and digs directly under the covers!

[OlderAndWiser]

Grazie per l'MHO!

[Apple1996]

I squeeze in cuddles anytime I can, after he gets home from work is a great time to cuddle😊

[Dogmommy5]

😃😃😃

[nerms123]

Cuddling is good for your health. I also prefer to have a shower or decompress first.

[JustSomeGuy11]

For me it depends on the day I've had, if it's just been a regular day and I'm tired, then I'm all for cuddles (only after my post work prep - shower and get ready for the next day)
If I'm stressed out or frustrated then I'm best left alone for a while until I cool off, only then are cuddles welcomed.

[CallMeDave]

I like to cuddle pretty much any time that there's an opportunity whether that's first thing in the morning, last thing at night, after work or during the daytime on weekends.

Life has a way of interfering with that though. Jobs, kids, and other responsibilities limit the opportunities, but when there's time between all of those things and she's available for cuddling, I'm ready.

[Massageman]

Depends on my mood. Schedules in our house are never the same so finding a definiter "relaxation niche" isn't always so easy.

[abhi_shakeee_]

It totally depends on my partners mood whether she's willing to spending time with me after both of us return from work.

[Desconhecida]

I like cuddling at any time

[Phoenix98]

Honestly I usually take a good hour nap after work anyway so yeah if I had a girlfriend I wouldn't mind taking a nap with her and cuddling.

[Bluemax]

Yes. Alas it seems as though I will go to my grave without that happening ever again.

[Drumlin2001]

definitely. Cuddle with girlfriend every night whilst watching TV

[Unit1]

Absolutely ❤ I'll cuddle that lady she'll forget what sadness means.

[MannMitAntworten]

Cuddle... hmm... a bottle of whiskey and a stogie? Sure, I suppose.

[Phoenix98]

Whiskey and a cigar huh, man after my heart.

[WhiteShoulder]

Sometimes. Depends on my mood.

[WhiteShoulder]

Hope u r having fun cuddling 😊

[Dogmommy5]

Before kids yes after kids impossible

[CallMeDave]

Kids definitely make it more difficult, don't they? That's especially true with younger kids. When they get older it's not quite as bad.

[Apple1996]

I have kids and it's not that difficult. We do family cuddles or let the kids play and we cuddle on the couch

[Smf1989]

@Apple1996 sounds like u know what to do with it

[Apple1996]

@Smf1989 yes definitely, the most difficult part is finding the time to cuddle. Gotta make time for it

[CallMeDave]

@Apple1996 "the most difficult part is finding the time to cuddle" was basically what I was saying. Kids, especially younger ones but sometimes even teenagers, take a lot of time and effort and leave less time for just relaxing and cuddling with your partner. It's not impossible of course, but it's harder just due to the lack of time.

[Dogmommy5]

The “finding tim” part is the hardest

[datgirl]

I'm a cuddle bug. I love cuddling any moment.

[Anonymous]

Oh finally you sound happy and not a nervous wreck lol

[BrittBratt2416]

yes... it's relaxing

[Alice2398]

Yes, really relaxing after a stressful day

[Saurabh5284]

It's more relaxing than anything else

[Gedaria]

Cuddling is relaxing to me...

[COMMODOREII]

Lmao 😂😂 i love it.

[Lolian94alex]

Ofc it made me feel in peace