Yea, it feels good. But I'm also wary of it if she's not my girlfriend already or if I don't want to be her boyfriend. If you avoid cuddling afterwards, then it's less of a relationship vibe and more of a "just sex" vibe. I've had situations where a girl thought I wanted a relationship merely because 1. we cuddled after sex 2. I spent the night instead of leaving 3. We hung out the next morning.
To me that's just me being who I am. I like to have fun and play and I like being around other people who want to have fun. But in the girls mind she was thinking, "what does this mean?", "does he really like me?", "is this getting serious?" and so on. So every step of the way I was doing things that gave her the impression I want more and that this is getting serious, when it wasn't. Like if I sleep with a girl, then she becomes someone very close to me in general. But that doesn't mean I want a relationship. So I do try to avoid giving her the wrong impression.
There's no reason for her to feel humiliated if I don't cuddle afterwards. Generally if I'm going to avoid cuddling I'll just clean up and take a shower afterwards. Then go lay down flat. If she cuddles next to me, then it was her choice rather than me initiating the act.
Most of the time for me, we cuddle first which leads to sex which leads to more cuddling afterwards. Shit if a girl doesn't want to cuddle after sex I would get the impression that the sex was so bad that she doesn't want to be intimate because she doesn't want to get attached since she's planning on that night being the last night that we're together.
There's a difference between cuddling in general and cuddling after sex.
Honestly I'm not someone that loves cuddling. If I do it it would be before sex as a turn on but I hate it when a guy wants to cuddle to fall asleep or guys that grab me during my sleep. Cause I like my space and after a while I am not enjoying the position I am in during the cuddling.
And I feel like that after sex it's just too much touching. Most of the time I'll just lay there and the guy would be caressing my body with his hand and nothing more.
And cuddles after sex don't really mean anything. You know it if the guy wants you for you or just for sex
Sometimes. If my boyfriend and I have sex right before bed then yeah I want to cuddle but if it's during the day then it's probably just a quickie and I'm not expecting cuddles after a quickie.
s Yes and before :) i am a very cuddly person lol.
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I don't think you can't really go with most of the theories here. It's actually simple: after sex the man is perhaps tired or want's to freshen up (so do women for that matter). This doesn't mean he doesn't want to be intimate for some cuddling with his woman. But try doing that before or even just during the day instead of after. You've just had sex, a token of the most intimate thing you can do as a couple. So don't think he that's actually degrading. You did say: I'm turned on by the idea of cuddling, then you should definitely do this before! Not after!
i love cuddling and it doesn't have to be just after sex. it's nice to have someone to be close to like that. I was at a party with a girlfriend once and we sat down in an armchair with her in my lap and my arms around her. and there was a movie I had never seen before but we couldn't hear it so she told me what was going on while she pushed everyone out of the way. it was awesome
Well the polls certainly seem to imply that most men do want to hold on tight to the woman they just made love to.
And I agree, it feels very romantic and calming.
That's the beauty of being in a relationship I believe
Good GOD yes! That's the BEST! I like to have her turn around so I can spoon her. Nothing like finishing a hot sex session with some naked spooning, so my spent cock can nuzzle up against her ass while I have my arms around her and hands holding boobs! :P Either we'll both pass out or round 2 will be right around the corner! ;-)
I don't see how a guy could just get up and leave after he's done, what's he going to say nice job babe, same time tomorrow? lol At least cuddle with her for 10 minutes or so and give her periodic kisses along parts of her body, then maybe offer to help clean one another up.
I like a little cuddling afterwords. Enough that it's clearly about more than sex. However, I can never stay still comfortably, so it doesn't last that long.
Yeah, I do. Intimacy wouldn't be complete without it.
Cuddling is great if I actually like the girl and find her physically attractive.
I do not want to cuddle someone I am not really attracted to. Even if dating. It is about sex at that point.
I love having her naked body wrapped around me after sex. It is super romantic.
love a cuddle for a bit but then i gotta go clean up
Should be depends I feel the need to hold a women i like/love as close as I can and talk to her about things.
Most of the time yes. Sometimes I get too hot after a long session and sort of need to cool off first but then yes. cuddle time after that.
Its nice. Especially if its late and you have to sleep afterwards.
na, no, nooo, boys want their space after getting discharged, leave him alone, and bend over infort of him until he get boner again
My answer is going to be very hard to explain, so I will just leave it.
That's not degrading. I like to cuddle but, sometimes people dont want that shit. Respect peoples choices.
lol in the past, when i was more active in sexual life, i don't ever remembering of cuddling after sex maybe i'm the sort of the brute guy :D :D
For sex, I want the girl to be very physically dominant and smacking me and taking control during, but after I like to cuddle together and be all gentle. Does that sound good?
i like to have sex after sex and if im still alive after that then cuddle so yes i do
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