look. I touch and cuddle him and he tells me to let him sleep or that he feels uncomfortable. I would be deeply offended by this. I rather get rejected for wanting sex than for wanting to cuddle
Its not degrading at all though. He is just a different type of human than us that doesn't want cuddles. It may be rude how he portrays it, but someone who just doesn't like cuddling isn't necessarily degrading anyone.
not intentionally but it is still degrading. Not wanting to be physcially close to me outside sex is indeed degrading because the only way he wants intimacy is through sex.
I get hungry after sex, therefore I cook... cuddling ain't gonna fill my stomach :<
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I do like cuddling but only after I showered and cleaned my gear because I don't want semen on my penis when we cuddle. My sperm infested penis touching her vagina could accidentally make her pregnant.
@OlderAndWiser it's true. A couple had sex and the guy cuddle with his girlfriend right after while his dick still has semen leftover and when his dick was rubbing against his gf's vagin, that girl got pregnant.
@OlderAndWiser it is my buddy story so you can choose to not believe. it's not like i get anything in return if you do believe so i dont really care lol
Just because your friend tells that story doesn't mean that it's true. Ask any physician about that story and they will tell you that it sounds preposterous.
@OlderAndWiser bedroom? that's plain and boring. you should be more adventurous and try different places. No wonder why you dont know much, this ain't the 60's lol
I have had sex in motel rooms, in the shower, in the woods, in a pool, in a hot tub, in front of a fireplace, in my office on the desk, etc. I don't need lessons on being adventurous.
@OlderAndWiser um, the possibility of that happening is so extremely low that any story like that should be assumed to be untrue unless you have actual proof...
I have a reliable eyewitness who was present at all of those encounters. And, for those who know me, none of what I described is outside the realm of what should be expected.
Me, of course. Were you present when your friend had his alleged encounter that led to pregnancy because his "sperm infested penis" touched his woman's vagina?
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I enjoy cuddling also, but I'm curious how that's degrading if the man doesn't want to?
look. I touch and cuddle him and he tells me to let him sleep or that he feels uncomfortable. I would be deeply offended by this. I rather get rejected for wanting sex than for wanting to cuddle
Its not degrading at all though. He is just a different type of human than us that doesn't want cuddles. It may be rude how he portrays it, but someone who just doesn't like cuddling isn't necessarily degrading anyone.
not intentionally but it is still degrading. Not wanting to be physcially close to me outside sex is indeed degrading because the only way he wants intimacy is through sex.
Sounds like you need to find someone more in tune with your needs, or maybe work on your communication with your SO.
I don't have a SO
My guess then is the guy isn't trying to send mixed signals after sex, or he just doesn't enjoy cuddling.
I'll cuddle with you if you want! :)
Assuming that I ever have sex again, I would much prefer to cuddle BEFORE sex... and then be able to sort of wind-down and have my space AFTER sex.
I like cuddling before as it makes me horny and I also like it after as well.
@snowbird1 I agree with the "making me horny" part, and I would almost view cuddling as part of the foreplay process.
I agree and should be part of the foreplay.
Foreplay is just as important as the sex it's self otherwise it will feel more like a hit and run !
@snowbird1 Yep, you got it.
I get hungry after sex, therefore I cook... cuddling ain't gonna fill my stomach :<
I do like cuddling but only after I showered and cleaned my gear because I don't want semen on my penis when we cuddle. My sperm infested penis touching her vagina could accidentally make her pregnant.
WHAT?
@OlderAndWiser it's true. A couple had sex and the guy cuddle with his girlfriend right after while his dick still has semen leftover and when his dick was rubbing against his gf's vagin, that girl got pregnant.
The possibility of that happening is so extremely low that any story like that should be assumed to be untrue unless you have actual proof.
@OlderAndWiser it is my buddy story so you can choose to not believe. it's not like i get anything in return if you do believe so i dont really care lol
Just because your friend tells that story doesn't mean that it's true. Ask any physician about that story and they will tell you that it sounds preposterous.
@OlderAndWiser i guess you dont cuddle much?
Bad guess.
@OlderAndWiser i think its a good one
Believe what you want but you have never spent any time in my bedroom and I have.
@OlderAndWiser bedroom? that's plain and boring. you should be more adventurous and try different places. No wonder why you dont know much, this ain't the 60's lol
I have had sex in motel rooms, in the shower, in the woods, in a pool, in a hot tub, in front of a fireplace, in my office on the desk, etc. I don't need lessons on being adventurous.
@OlderAndWiser um, the possibility of that happening is so extremely low that any story like that should be assumed to be untrue unless you have actual proof...
I have a reliable eyewitness who was present at all of those encounters. And, for those who know me, none of what I described is outside the realm of what should be expected.
As for your friend, getting a girl pregnant by depositing sperm outside the vaginal canal is possible but it is very slight. https://www.nhs.uk/chq/Pages/975.aspx; americanpregnancy.org/.../
@OlderAndWiser who?
Me, of course. Were you present when your friend had his alleged encounter that led to pregnancy because his "sperm infested penis" touched his woman's vagina?
@OlderAndWiser Not good enough, as far as I know, you can make this stuff your own.
I really don't GAF what you believe.
@OlderAndWiser yea you do
No, I don't.
@OlderAndWiser just be a man and admit it, don't be a sissy now.
Delude yourself however you wish.
Not at all. What's so enjoyable about it? The quicker I can get you to leave afterwards the better.
after sex I don't cuddle I simply sleep on another bed. I find it a little weird
i love cuddling after sex... helps in going for the round 2.
I love cuddling with my cat.
I like this guys opinion. Yes, cuddling with a cat is better than cuddling with someone. ^-^
Not really.
We rarely do that.
Yes I personally like cuddling after sex...
Is like lego with super glue, inseparable.
Why not I like it. I think it's cute...
For SURE!!!
I like it
Must
yes I like to cuddle