He really likes to cuddle and pillowtalk after sex?

[Anonymous]

Im used to leave after sex, no one has ever asked me to stay so over time I took it as a natural way almost all guys have (at least every single guy I'v been with) and it no longer bothers me. Im 18 years old and I've been dating a 27 year old man for about 4 month now. After a couple of dates I asked what he wanted from me (since im not really looking for a serious realtionship right now) and he said he just wanted to be fuckbudies, and I totally agreed. Its natural for me that after sex, I clean myself up, get dressed and leave. But he is always asking me to stay, at least an hour or so, and we talk and cuddle, he plays with my hair, kisses me... I dont know what to think! I dont want him to feel used or anything, its just the way I see this type of relationships. I know I should talk to him about this and see what he really feels, maybe he is just a cuddler! Anyway, I would like to see some opinions from other people. I know he is into me, but I never thought he would ask me to stay! For example, he is always touching me, or when I get mad he tends to reach out and hold my hand, he always wants me to rest my head on his shoulder/chest and he asks for it ('hey, come here, hug me for a while') Im not sure what to think, this is really new to me!

[John_Lion_84]

He has more experience and it seems he enjoys such moments, maybe it' getting serious or it's just a habit. How do you feel? Do you feel forced o r uncomfortable?

[Asker]

I thought about that also. I feel like there are a lot of things that he does just because im younger. The thing is I've dated older guys before and this is the first time it happens. I feel like I do it because he wants me to, but I dont dislike it. It's new. He also has weird actitudes like checking my phone. I really hope it's that he likes to cuddle and that is that. He is a really nice guy, so I think thats just his personality like that. But some things he says have me wondering. I've been reading a lot and some say it's because he likes me and wants to connect with me in some other way than sex (which I totally aprove)

[John_Lion_84]

So you like him, that can effect things in the future. Am not an expert on fuckbuddies subject or one night stands or multiple relationships, i have one woman in life and that's it but i do know that women/girls like to cuddle and have some physical touching emotions beside sex, so it can be a thing he learned from one of his past relationships and find it a must to do thing with every girl he meets. If you enjoy it , so go for it you should have fun in your life

[Anonymous]

He likes the affection, but he's not interested in having a serious relationship.