If he faces his back to me in bed after intercourse & cuddling. Does he not like me?

[Anonymous]

He was like your taking up all the space there’s no room and pulling in his blanket. But he initiated the cuddling beforehand and did reach his leg or arm onto me a few times but for the most part he slept with his back to me and I was cuddling into him from behind and holding his hand

[Anonymous]

Of course this may not be accurate and he could’ve just been getting comfortable, like his arm can get tired from cuddling and stuff. But the fact that you’re even asking if he likes you makes me think you are just friends with benefits. So if he hasn’t been trying to work towards a relationship with you and it’s casual sex rn then this may be him showing he’s uninterested in emotional intimacy with you.

[Asker]

Maybe but If that’s why he should’ve never cuddled me and asked to or let me sleep in his bed either I did ask to go after sex but he encouraged me like I would like it if you would stay babe

[Opinion Owner]

Aftercare is important to a lot of men, not just booting you out or having some cold, emotionless situation. Years ago when I had a friends with benefits, my guy texted me every morning, we’d exchange dirty pics here and there, he’d pay for the room or come to my house, we’d watch movies and catch up, maybe even go out for a date-thing or I’d make dinner. We’d cuddle afterwards and enjoy each other’s company. But all this was just that element of friendship along with the benefit. It’s so important for you not to blur the line between casual and actually wanting romance with the person, because rest assured he knows his boundaries and understands what you two are. You’ll only hurt yourself going down that road.

[Asker]

You’re right, thank you. I just have to maybe rethink what I’m doing here, if I’m looking for a relationship perhaps I got the wrong person.

[Guy13]

No idea. Don’t overthink which you are. It’s like you are looking for problems.

[Asker]

well it was his bed maybe that is how he always sleeps. If he thought he didn’t like me he wouldn’t cuddle me he wouldn’t share his bed or even keep contact he would be trying to get rid right?

[Guy13]

I sleep the same way but i bump butts as I have a fabulous bubble and plump arse and I date the same kind of arse...

[Anonymous]

yeah i'm gonna throw up now