Well after the class, he jokingly challenged me to spar with him with which to his surprise I agreed. Now while I am not a avid sportsperson, the only fighting experience I had was when I took a female self defense elective in high school, with that stated, I wound up kneeing him where it hurts instinctively.
I had no idea that he would not be wearing any protective gear, nor did he establish that kicks were not allowed. We thought that he would be okay after a short rest as I barely touched him (it wasn't a hard hit at all btw) , but he was still throwing up and writhing after some time so we took him back home to sleep it off. He claimed his privates were still "in agony" by night, so we took him to a hospital where he was told he was going to lose one of his testicles because he waited too long to see a doctor, and he spent a week in bed with his legs in the air.
Now, he is insisting that I did it on purpose, and my boyfriend is backing him on it and has explained that unless I apologize to him, he will break up with me.
If anything, he should be apologizing to me for not standing up for me when his friend taunted and insulted me during the class! And it was a pure accident due to his personal negligence!
What should I do?
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What you did was really serious it's not as if you just hurt him there which you should also apologise for but to actually make him need surgery for it is really bad., what he done to you in the past doesn't excuse what you did, you had the choice to no longer be around him if you didn't want to be or felt uncomfortable around him. You should have apologised to him straight away not left it for your boyfriend to give you an ultimatum, you are putting you're boyfriend in a very tough position and making it easier for him to take his friends side by acting as childish as you are. As someone else mentioned about the medical bills, you are lucky that they aren't making you pay them and are only expecting you to apologise.
Do the right thing and apologise to him sincerely, and not just because your boyfriend will leave you if you don't, but because you actually done something that hurt him.