We are both adults, im 27 and he is 29. We dated for a year and a half. My boyfriend still go clubbing every weekend with his mates. In guy’s perspective, Im wondering if he would ever change and lessen his clubbing? It has been an issue ever since and we argued about it. I really tried my best to accept for who he is cos I know I couldn’t change him. I'm actually getting better handling the situation, but sometimes I get fed up when he goes out, he never communicates, and doesn’t come back til morning around 7-8am. As far as I know, he hasn’t cheated before, but I couldn’t help but worry. We have talked about this before, I said I would really appreciate if he lessens his clubbing at least every other weekend but he says I shouldn’t control him and says he feels trapped. Im so worried.. Am I too paranoid? What should I do?
Should I get worried when my boyfriend goes clubbing every Saturday and doesn’t communicate and come back in the morning after 7am?
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