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Boyfriend is upset I want to dye hair blonde... what to do? (Page 2)
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Honestly, i think you look good with darker hair. And your skin tone would look good with a more crazy balayage like your current color to lavender or something like that. Anyway, it is just balayage, you can cut it off later.
You have beautiful hair I wouldn't change it to be honest. But if you really want to just do it. He can't be upset about it. It's your choice!
Thanks I deep condition and steam it a lot. But i do want change which is why I decided so close to the new year the last weekend
Don't worry. I bet he's going to like it.
It’s happening but it’ll take like 3 more times to truly be blonde so he has time it’ll still be dark
Could you possibly compromise? How does he feel about highlights? He has to meet you in the middle your happiness is important also
The pic that you attached is not an example of balayage, highlights, or anything else of that ilk. The pic is a totally different hair color.
Well that’s me before and I want the same it has multiple colors
in my opinion fake blondes are trashy but you do you.
The new hair color looks good your dude is being too unreasonable.
I can see if your went full on platinum blonde or some other unnatural color
How long has he been your bf? I have worked in beauty salons for 25 years. Its just hair. It will grow back
It's your choice not his. If he wants to get so hung up on something as petty as your hair color then he has deeper issues
Blonde only looks good if it suits the person and is done by a professional. I'm not a fan of women dying their hair unnatural colours such as pink and green etcetera. Blonde is ok though. Its entirely your choice not his though.
Your boyfriend shouldn't care he's judging you by your looks
i like the blonde personally. girl do whatever makes you tf happy.
He needs to get over it or find someone else he can control.
Btw! You look great with both but the blonde is awesome on you.
Sounds like he’s shallow. You do what you do: your body, your choice.
I think he worries that you will get more attention from other guys 😜 blondes have more fun, go for it
It's your hair and your money. Do it, be prepared in case he's childish enough to break up over this. Good luck.
Your body + your money = your choice. Just be ready to get dumped, which is his choice.
He dumps me then fine. I’m not insecure I want a different color.
Again, do what you choose. I think if he dumps you over it he's an idiot, but you still have to be ready for it.
I agree with your boyfriend that blond is not good looking in most cases.
But if you want blond, do it...
If hairstyle or color is a deal breaker for him, then it is his loss.
Compromise for the sake of your boyfriend and don’t, it will ruin the relationship. I asked my girlfriend to wear more makeup even though she didn’t want to, and now she does for me. Now we are both happy!
brown suits you better. maybe fo for a light brown?
Right now she dyed a light brown highlight were doing small steps to blonde that’s how my hair stays nice and not dry
that's nice. you can stop any time you find the colour suits you :))
You can’t do whatever you want in your hair but he hasn’t had to like it
You can’t force him to change his opinion
*can do