I've long since wanted to dye my hair since I was a kid but couldn't do so due to school restrictions. It hurts how everyone supports my decision except my own signficant other.
I consider dyeing my hair as a form of self-expression and of course I don't want to hurt anyone with my own self-expression. It doesn't seem like he is disrespecting me but is just affected and hurt through my actions.
The argument got to the point of "Hair dye over me".
He dislikes it generally under two reasons:
1) "I feel like I would lose all the precious memories of you before you've dyed your hair"
2) Just not his preference; "not natural"
I could be wrong but it seems like he has difficulty coping with change (?) He holds memories very tightly. Should I just not dye my hair in consideration for his feelings?
I consider dyeing my hair as a form of self-expression and of course I don't want to hurt anyone with my own self-expression. It doesn't seem like he is disrespecting me but is just affected and hurt through my actions.
The argument got to the point of "Hair dye over me".
He dislikes it generally under two reasons:
1) "I feel like I would lose all the precious memories of you before you've dyed your hair"
2) Just not his preference; "not natural"
I could be wrong but it seems like he has difficulty coping with change (?) He holds memories very tightly. Should I just not dye my hair in consideration for his feelings?
