Boyfriend doesn’t want me to dye my hair a certain color cause it reminds him of his ex? Is he over her?

[Anonymous]

We got into a fight because he was completely denying me to dye my hair a certain color and it had absolutely NOTHING to do with his ex girlfriend on my part I promise but I forgot for awhile she had her hair that color too but he made me get emotional and insecure because he doesn’t want it on me. They’ve been broken up for two years now…I’d think he’s with me why should any of that matter? Should I worry?

[itsannalee]

If my boyfriend mentioned his ex like that, will be get upset.


There is nothing to do with you and his ex, if you with that color remind him of her. What’s the problem? If he has no feelings anymore for him, it would be a problem for him. He doesn’t want you to dye with that color because there is part on his heart for her, that’s why if u remind him of her it would hurt him.


So talk to him…

[kylee2437]

I’d find it rather odd if my boyfriend mentioned his ex while me talking about dying my hair. You need to tell him talking about exes the way he is doing is a huge no no.

[ritxi]

It's normal that when your current partner has some features like an ex it makes remember them, but everyone should deal with that and not to make feel guilty their partner for it.

[AviatorTom]

He's probably over her but doesn't want you to remind him of her. For the sake of your relationship, pick a different colour.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic case of past meets present through a hair color, how intriguing yet slightly alarming! It seems like your man is having a bit of a flashback moment, doesn't it? While I wouldn't immediately jump to the conclusion that he's not over his ex just because of his reaction to a potential hair dye, it does wave a little red flag of unresolved feelings. Maybe it's not about the color itself, but the emotions and memories it triggers in him.

However, let's not forget communication is key in love's intricate dance. It's essential to express how his reaction makes you feel and dive into why this particular color brings out such a strong response in him. Understanding each other's feelings can turn this hair-raising situation into a growth opportunity for your relationship. After all, it's not just about hair, it's about feelings, respect, and support for one another's choices. And who knows, maybe through this conversation, you'll both discover new layers to your relationship. Keep it open, keep it honest, and let love guide the way. 😉