Is watching a camgirl/boy cheating?

[Anonymous]

If you were in a relationship, would be watching/paying a camgirl/boy cheating? I think it is cheating because it is a real person who interact with you if you pay that person

Yes, it is cheating

No, it is not cheating

Indifferent

Other

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A total of 88 votes were cast: 36 girls and 52 guys. See detailed results

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Guys or boys would you quit watching any camgirl or camboy if your partner dont want you to watch it?

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+1 y

I mean it is like sexting and sexting is cheating

[COMMODOREII]

When i am in a relationship i focus all of my energy on the woman i am with. That's just who i am. I don't understand why or how people think it's ok to find every which way to get away with to get with anyone other than there SO sexually and say it is ok. It's crazy.

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

Any sexual activity whatsoever outside your relationship/marriage is immoral. That's not something today's impulsive and restrain-less culture likes to hear, but it's true nonetheless.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

If it's just porn, no. If it's with someone you know, yes

[Asker]

But you interact with that camgirl/boy

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Oh. Ok I didn't realize that. In my mind that old be cheating too

[Red_Arrow]

Most watchers just watch the cam girl/boy. There is NO interaction with those people.

[NightFlirt]

No, because S/He is not having sex with the cam model.

[Apope16]

No. Its not cheating. Its pornography. I would also say that being a cam girl is no different than being a stripper. Its not cheating.

[Asker]

But you interact with that perso. That is like sexting

[Asker]

And would you quit doing that if your partner wants it?

[Apope16]

I see your point. I still view it as different. There is no expectation of meeting or having a physical relationship with that person. Sexting is different because it is sexuality with the intention of someday having sex.

[Asker]

"Sexting is different because it is sexuality with the intention of someday having sex." So it is ok to sext with random people you never ever would meet up? Does your partner tolerate that?

[Apope16]

Absolutely. I would quit doing it if my partner wanted me to quit interactive porn. But if she wanted me to quit all porn? Hell no. On the other hand... thats just me. Your partner has a right to not quit. Then you will need to decide if you trust him. And it sounds like you should trust that he is faithful to you.

[Asker]

It is for me cheating. I can't tolerate it but if your partner know it and dont have a problem with it, then it is ok

[Apope16]

It sounds like he is loyal and faithful. he's open about it because his emotional experience is the same as porn. These women are getting hundreds of messages as part of a business. They speak to thousands of men. Its not a situation where there is a specific personal relationship like there is sexting between 2 people or masturbating together on video chat... no. the lady is talking to thousands of guys as a business. Its like a guy going to a strip club. The woman isn't naked for the guy... she's naked for thousands of guys. Cheating is about specific intentionality to form a long lasting physical or emotional bond. Webcam is not that. he's just a username

[Asker]

That is like going to prostitute and say it is only her job. And by the way going to strip club is cheating too for me. Again each their own

[Apope16]

Prostitution is work. It should be legal. Regulated. Unionized.

Prostitution is cheating because its one person at a time. Stripping is not because its a whole room.

I think he should respect you. You sound likeva sexy and amazing person who just wants to be fucked and loved. If I were your boyfriend I would save my lust and cum only for you.

[Asker]

"I think he should respect you. You sound likeva sexy and amazing person who just wants to be fucked and loved. If I were your boyfriend I would save my lust and cum only for you." Aww cute. I also have a high libido. So i rather want to have sex or mastrubate together with him rather doing it alone

[Anonymous]

Furthermore, old men are biologically leftovers because of health and aesthetic reasons. A young man is more attractive, more healthier, and so stronger and can protect his mate which attract women.

The sperm quality is also decreasing the older the men get which means their kids are more likely to have genetic abnormalities.

"Evolutionary Psychology studies suggest that women prefer slightly older or similarly aged partners... Several recent studies have shown changes in male reproductive parameters as a result of increased age. In the current review of medical literature, we found evidence that much older men are more likely to be infertile, women with much older partners are more likely to experience problems during pregnancy, and children of much older men are more likely to have genetic abnormalities. Based on these findings, we suggest that reproducing with much older men does not represent the best reproductive option for women, which would explain the female preference for only slightly older or similarly-aged mates. sexual selection;mate choice reproductive behavior; ..."-


Here is a statistic below that shows that women prefer 1-5 years older men and NOT old men

[Avicenna]

Yeah, it is. At least emotional cheating of the worst sort.

[Red_Arrow]

If you are just watching, not paying, and not interacting with the model, it is just like looking at porn. Nothing more.

[Asker]

You are interacting. That is the point of it

[Red_Arrow]

You need to learn the definition of interacting. You are only observing, just as with porn.

[Asker]

You are texting this girl.

[Red_Arrow]

I said, "If you are just watching, not paying, and not interacting with the model..." So I would not be texting her, paying her, etc. Just watching, as I already said.

[Asker]

But the point of a camboy/gurl is interacting with them. Would you quit watching that, if your partner wants it so?

[Red_Arrow]

The “point” of a cam person is to provide a show for all and make it interesting enough that “some” pay to interact and request certain things. But most watchers never pay and never interact.

[Asker]

I would trust any guys who does that

[Asker]

I would NOT trust any guy who does that. That is like going to a coffe shop only to watch people drinking their coffee.

[Red_Arrow]

You and logic apparently never got along.

[Asker]

At least i am not a cheater

[Red_Arrow]

Nor am I.

[Asker]

At least are you ok if your girlfriend does that?

[Red_Arrow]

Just watches as I explained? Yes, I am okay with a girlfriend doing that.

[ohshee]

Yes in a relationship yes ,, not in a relationship it's fun lol but wait no. I'm not paying I would do it because we both wanted to so if in a relationship and paying that's even worse

[MrTuxedo]

If he's paying her, than it kindaaaa is... tho not necessary.
If he's jusr watching, it's just like porn, harmless fun.

[Asker]

But he can text her and she read it

[MrTuxedo]

Yeah, but it's just chatting. Nothing wrong with that.

[Asker]

That is like sexting

[Asker]

She read you text messages and makes a comment or even do what you you say

[MrTuxedo]

What if he's just watching it? Not texting her or anything, just watching it. That's okay.

[Asker]

"What if he's just watching it? Not texting her or anything, just watching it. That's okay." Who does that? Why do you even watch any camgirl or boy if you dont want to interact with them? He/She should watch a normal porn

[MrTuxedo]

I don't know... I don't watch 'em... ask your boyfriend.

[Apope16]

In most cases she is reading hundreds or thousands of messages. Its not an individual emotional connection. If its payment then its more sex work which is more a grey area.

[Asker]

"In most cases she is reading hundreds or thousands of messages. Its not an individual emotional connection."- but by texting her, your intention is excepting her to read your text message. So it is irrelevant if she reads it or not. And again if your partner does not have a problem with it, then it is ok

[jamesgoldman]

If you watch but don't interact or pay then it is pornography
If you watch and pay but don't interact then it is digi-stripping
If you watch and interact as well as pay then it is cheating

[Asker]

The point of watching camgirls/ camboys is to interact with them. Would you really trust your partner who says she would not text them?

[jamesgoldman]

Given my experiences, yes
My first ex accepted it without interaction but we didn't see each other every day
With my second ex we watched camgirls together a couple of times and she advocated paying them but not interacting (she had friends at University that did it to make money)

[MikeGaveO]

Not really cheating unless my partner says so. If it makes either of us uncomfortable, then it's better to not do it.

[TheFlak38]

it must be a very unhealthy and boring relationship if one switches to camwhores.

[Apope16]

Yeah. Honestly. .. the asker of the question is begging for sex and a loving bond. Every guy should want that. Its better to bevwith a girlfriend thsn a cam gurl.

[Irishman41]

I think that, sexting, LDF is okay. Better than cheating

[Anoniemus]

It depends. It's just watching porn to be honest.

[Asker]

It is like sextig

[Anoniemus]

Because you send messages? I can see what you mean but honestly he's just telling the woman what to do otherwise he'd look for a porn vid doing it.

I can see what you mean though.

[Asker]

"he's just telling the woman what to do otherwise he'd look for a porn vid doing it.

I can see what you mean though." That is what sexting is

[Anoniemus]

It's still porn. He can find a porn video of a woman doing the same thing that he's asking. Would that be cheating? It's different because he sent an active message? I honestly don't see the difference because it's the same result no matter the method: he's looking at a naked woman in different poses probably screwing herself.

It's completely different if he's trying to hook up with someone which is what sexting is typically used for.

[Asker]

Yes, it is the same thing. He can also ask a random girl on the internet by sexting her. It is same act. You dont need to be famous like a camgirl

[Asker]

" he's looking at a naked woman in different poses probably screwing herself. " he also look at a nude woman with who he is sexting

"It's completely different if he's trying to hook up with someone which is what sexting is typically used for." You know many people also sext with random people on the internet

[Asker]

"he's looking at a naked woman in different poses probably screwing herself. " by that logic you can pay a hooker to ask her to be nude without having sex with her.

It's completely different if he's trying to hook up with someone which is what sexting is typically used for.

[Anoniemus]

Who cares?

[Asker]

Ok haha. Do you also watch camboys?

[AC_Slayer]

It's definitely a form of betrayal.

[Apple1996]

No not really

[soleil2666]

Lol. What are you not giving him?

[Asker]

What?

[soleil2666]

Well why else would he be looking at a cam model if you were providing the excitement?

[Asker]

"Well why else would he be looking at a cam model if you were providing the excitement?" I can give him but for some men sex and mastrubation is not the same thing. And interacting with camgirl or camboys is cheating

[soleil2666]

Ah, the 'for some men' argument.
Have you tried? Or is blaming it on someone (the patriarchy) enough?
Being a man means you have to try. Why would being a woman be any different?

[soleil2666]

Is that the Austrian short fuse coming out? Or is your location fake?

[soleil2666]

I know German women give themselves privileges over men. If he doesn't please me I can do what I want.
I don't think there is a problem with being a whore - just don't blame it on men since men don't make your decisions.

[soleil2666]

i do suggest you go fuck his brains out though, not ours. Other men have their own problems, deal with yours first.

[Asker]

I am a kurdish girl who live in austria

[Asker]

"Is that the Austrian short fuse coming out? Or is your location fake?" How do people know about it? I dont add any Information where I am fron

[Asker]

"I know German women give themselves privileges over men. If he doesn't please me I can do what I want. " i have heard that many times from male whores who said they will also cheat on her if she does not satisfy him sexually

[Asker]

"i do suggest you go fuck his brains out though, not ours. Other men have their own problems, deal with yours first." Oh i am sorry. It does have to do with gender. Many people mastrubate in a relationship

[soleil2666]

Ok, you be angry - I very happily won't.

[Asker]

It does NOT have to do with gender. Many people mastrubate in a relationship***

[soleil2666]

Sorry love, really don't have the time for your anger. I have spoken.

[Asker]

What are you talking about?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

If you aren't doing a private show, no

[KittyMilk]

Is watching porn cheating

[Asker]

Is Sexting cheating?

[KittyMilk]

I don't know it's kind of like flirting, you only speaking not acting on it but it's bad

[Asker]

For md it is

[Aurora1010]

Of course!

[alice55]

It's cheating

[rajesh_leo]

Yes, it's cheating.

[Anonymous]

Yeah