Boyfriend watching other girls twerk videos?

[QueenBri_18]

What does it mean when your boyfriend watches other girls twerking videos?

[unknownforever]

Oh gosh. Firstly, I am sorry. It's one of my biggest icks in men. It's more than okay for a guy to find a girl good looking or seriously sooeskikg, but when I'm a relationship, it feels gross when he's going out of bus way to watch this stuff. In saying that, I can't tell you what it means as each guy is different. But if it does make you uncomfortable, please tell him about it. Perhaps lay down some things you do and don't like? Even if you don't feel uncomfortable with it, ask him why he does it. But if you do need to talk with someone, I am here for you.

[QueenBri_18]

Thank you I did ask him about it a Couple of times and yesterday I asked him he go so mad and started yelling at me and getting mad that I asked him why does he watch other females twerking videos and he just looks at me dead in my eye and tells me it’s nun of my business I always check his phone especially when he’s in a deep sleep but yesterday I told him stop watching other females twerk he said why tf are you on my phone and I told him because your watching other females twerk behind my back and he acts like I don’t know about the stuff he does behind my back I asked him if I’m not enough for him he just sits there and ignores me but yeah I just don’t understand why he does it and hides it from me and won’t think that I won’t find out at all which I did already this is his 3rd time probably his 4th or 5th time by now. He changed his password to his iPhone I’m still trying to figure out his password don’t worry I’ll find out soon but yeah I’m just very confused on why guys do these things behind their girlfriends back like wtf!!😒🙄😡😡

[unknownforever]

I am so so so sorry. Those are major red flags there, especially with the way he is treating you. His actions are not okay and you shouldn't stay with him. He knows he is doing something wrong. Secondly, he doesn't care about how it is affecting you or how he is making you feel. He is disregarding everything. If there was nothing wrong with him watching those videos, he would be able to admit it and explain his actions. So there are two options I am begging for you to do. The first is just to get up and walk away. You should never let someone great you like that. The second option is to have a calm conversation with him. Explain how it makes you feel, how all you were asking for was honesty, and how you love him. But also tell him that you don't want your feelings to be disregarded and in a relationship, you are both supposed to build each other up. Tell him to just be upright and honest with you. Tell him that you are going to put in all your effort to try and make things run smoothly, but also tell your boyfriend that it is up to him. If he wants this relationship to work, he needs to be honest, he needs to be understanding and he needs to put in effort. If he gets upset, then stand up and walk away. You deserve so much better

[QueenBri_18]

Yes I do I been trying to leave to go stay with my biological family In Chicago but I don’t know what’s holding me back I think it’s this relationship I’m in that wants me stay and his parents but I don’t know what to do I want to leave and focus on myself I do walk away from him especially when we argue I don’t like to argue he never lets me talk about how I feel and he just cuts me off all the time when I’m trying to talk and it’s just hard it’s been hard ever since I graduated from high school and moved in with him and his parents but I do regret moving in with them they are very controlling here and I’m a Pisces ♓️ and my boyfriend is a Virgo and his mom and we don’t get along at all in this house that’s why I’m trying to leave to go with my biological family because I don’t feel happy here it’s so much drama here with him and his mom especially and his dad too but they been controlling me a lot here lately and I’m not liking it so I’m trying my best to move forward with this stuff that happens all the time me and his mom don’t get along at all!! I don’t like her and she don’t like me she gets jealous if that way my body looks and how I dress and do my makeup and hair and when I get my nails done too but I fake it off I act like I like her which I truly don’t but they way he’s acting is not ok with me I’m the sweetest person and I’m respectful to everyone and I’m helpful but not while I’m here they lost my respect and kindness and helpfulness too and my trust I don’t trust his parents or him at all simple as that💯💯

[unknownforever]

I am so sorry. That is a tough situation. I hope you have reached out to your biological family? Secondly, he is such crap. Tell him to get his act together, or you are done. If he doesn't get back act together, leave him. Eventually he will feel like crap. But it's better that way, rather than him treating you like dirt. And his family are so bad. No wonder he has no respect. His mother could've done a lot more to teach him about respect. But then again, how could she if she is the same? Try and get away from him and his family asap. You deserve the world, and it's a shame that good people always get treated so poorly.

[QueenBri_18]

Yes I agree and his mom will threatened me to put me out and other bullshit too and like I said they are both Virgos ♍️ in this house and I’m a Pisces ♓️ we don’t get along at all that’s why I said I fake it off to act like I like her and which I don’t because of how she treats me and I don’t deserve it at all I deserve way better and to be with my family too his mom told her friends that she don’t get along with Pisces ♓️ at all and she don’t like them either it made me upset and angry of what she said because I’m a Pisces ♓️ like wtf I hate her I don’t like that ugly bitch at all 💯💯

[Anonymous]

I don’t see any meaning behind it or that it is something you should be worried about

[QueenBri_18]

But he watches them behind my back and when I check his phone I’ll ask why does he watch other females twerk and he gets really mad and starts yelling and having a whole ass fit about it I ask him if I’m not enough he just sits there and stays quiet I just need help guys🥺🙏🏽

[rachel776]

no big deal they just like to get off on stuff

[Hangry06]

Means he is a healthy heterosexual guy