Is it normal that my boyfriend looked the other girls videos?

[Anonymous]

I 100% trust my boyfriend in relationship. But today for the first time I saw he was watching the s**y girls videos that like the women who have big b**bs and white skins when I checked his fb acc.

He watched 5 videos like kinds of videos. I thought it is the normal for a boy but also I feel insecure. Because I don't have big b**bs and white skin. And I feel like he is disappointed to me or something or I am not enough to him.

I don't know what to do. Should I tell him about my insecure or should I just skip it or just check on him for a while. Because I trust him about the women things.

What should I do?

[Shiprex]

Tell him you noticed and whether or not it hurts that you do. Don't do it in a way that is accusatory as it's something men will do because monogamy is a battle for men to quit their natural instinct to seek multiple sexual partners but most are capable of restraining their desires (a mental and psychological dilemma)

[Asker]

If I tell him and ask him about that I'm also afraid our relationship will ruin. Because I love him so much and I already chose him for my life.

[Shiprex]

If he's going to do things that hurt you, then you will end up resenting it. Best try to deal with it early on so it doesn't become a growing threat to your self esteem

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion 🙏🏻

[capriVib]

No need to worry, it's a normal situation, just let it flow.

[Anonymous]

He's might have only been thinking all the things you have that they don't. I mean he's with you. If he didn't like you he wouldn't be with you. As @shiprex said. As it's a good idea. Point out you saw him and it made you compare yourself to those woman. See what he says.

[wolverin38]

He may watch it because he is curious, your physique should be more attractive

[Anonymous]

file a lawsuit 😀